Men,Listen up

Okay I decided to make this post because I have read and heard plenty of guys complaining about how they can't find a girl and some are maybe unaware that maybe it's not the girls but their whole style that needs some major make over.I'm not an expert but I have seen plenty of guys just butcher what little chance they have. so call this a self help guide or me doing all of you single men a favor.Follow these rules and I can almost guarantee you progress...oh and girls please feel free to contribute to the list.

1.Let's get one thing clear, calling a girl, "sweetie, baby,angel face,honey, buttercup. sweetheart, doll" or whatever other gay names out there within 1 day of meeting her, is a MAJOR NO. you're not talking to a 3 year old. So address her like you would address a friend. Example very good looking guy approaches me within 2 minutes he's like "what's your name sweetie?" really really, NO!

2. confidence is key, be confident but not cocky and don't come off as trying too hard cause that's a total turn off it spells desperate all over it. "Jus be yourself, unless you tend to have no clue, in that case be anything but yourself.

3.Please know the appropriate time to approach a girl or else you're going to get SHUT DOWN. Example if a girl is when her friends don't even try. next, wait for eye contact and body language, meaning she smiles twice at you and touches her hair or turns away and smiles again. You're safe to approach.

4.once you approach please don't be creepy, don't look the girl right in the eye, don' get in her personal space, stay calm, imagine you are saying hi to an old friend.

5. The first minute can make or break you, don't act desperate avoid giving compliments, be cool, "hi, where are you from? Come here often" avoid yes and no questions, and if it's going well you can exchange numbers.

6. Don't talk about yourself too much, what you drive, where you live, what you do, unless she's a mail order bride you're already boring her. And don't ask alot of questions, either, and remember personal space, again, don't get creepy.

7.if a girl tells you she has a boyfriend, please don't say something like "its okay just want to be friends' you just killed whatever little game you had left, instead be cool and say something like, "he's a lucky guy"

8.Please don't turn into the lowest common denominator when you're with you're boys, you see a girl, don't holler, "omg, wow, damn, baby" honk your car, stalk, or follow, that will get you the "ewww go away

10. timing is everything, if you are talking to a girl don't push her to meet you, don't pressure, trust me if you are interested in a girl one way to have running out he door is to constantly message or call or complain if she doesn't answer or takes her time replying.

11.There is a big difference between the word, "like" and "love" don't be stupid and use the word love within couple of month of a relationship. you will get shut down. Example, 3 months in a relationship. guy:" I love you" girl, "Awww thank you" yeah whomp whomp shut down!!

12.keep the compliements to a minimum, too much sounds cheesy and fake, and sends the wrong message, the less clingy you give the more she will like you.