Perfect spouse

good thinkings and view point slman.

Excuse me Britexpat.. Now you dont go around and rubbishing DaRuDe's about his discreet QL gatherings. He is just trying to keep stalkers aways..:)

Tinkbl,

That much things are there to think.

It is true that they say girls are matured than boys comparatively for age...

I think I should do more things than what i'm doing to make my more comfortable....

Hei Guys...

If u really LOVE ur wife, i don’t think that anyone can flirt or make affairs with other girls. I have herd many stories and I still cant understand Y people go behind other girls and other's wife. It is not at all a good thing to be unfaithful to your wife.

Cos they are the one who sacrifice more in there life to make us perfect.

We have a good life cos they give it to us.

So, try to be good to them. stop expecting things from them. try to do more and more to make them happy n comfortable. They expect only love n caring from us.

This is not to all, But to me and to many others.

MB, it does not specify to region only, there are some Restrictions imposed for marrying the 2nd time around...

Just I felt to ask this from many ladies around here.

Once u get a baby, u becomes a mom and it wil make u to stay more at home and be with the babies, and also u start giveup most of ur things for the children, what do u feel abt this…

My wife use to enjoy more by visiting places. And we have traveled almost all the places in our country and also when we were in Qatar we have gone to almost all the good places. Even Industrial area just bcos she wanted to have a look.

BUT, now she is at home even if I asked her to come she tells cos of baby too small she don’t want to. we rarely go out to have a meal.

I am bit surprise on the change. BUT still she tells she is happy to be like this.

Formatted....yes therez a difference between acknowledging and reciprocating...but I remember my dad's generation hardly even acknowledged ...so I am one step ahead already....

Sal..there is a big difference between acknowledging and reciprocating..

If she also finds you as the perfect husband then it its really good.:)

It is not ONLY the body structure we talk here....

If so we all need to be with 6 packs and with a body like Salman khan or any other ***.

Cos girls watch TV than us... they will come to us with many ideas. and we should do plastic srgeries than them....

Hih hih hee....

Thanks for your care.

Yes I will. But not now.

runing a small business. Once it get settled and when my 2 years ban over I may.Inshallah.

@Formatted....unfortunately i am not the same to her... but this is not a trade... everyone has their own way of caring...i guess my spouse is happy i truly acknowledge and value all what she does

"It is the duty of the husband to make his wife a perfect."

How true. This is exactly why plastic surgery was invented ..

Good thought slman..

Hi all,

I believe that god has made one perfect match for each.

Once they get it they should understand that the god has created and he gave it to you.

It’s all planed before god creates us n this whole world.

It is our duty to be perfect and to make your soulmate a perfect.

PERFECT do exist in the world. BUT it depends on each person. So when u put a line as perfect u can be happy in this world and hereafter.

NOTE: As I strongly believe, It is the duty of the husband to make his wife a perfect. Be true to her, be lovable to her, be helpful to her and be someone that she can rely on at anytime for anything. It will make her to be as u expect.

As many says in this forum, if they it self confused with perfection, how they can talk about spouse’s perfection…???

I am happy, and very happy with my wife and she too. We always believe that we are made for each other. Cos we are good in discussing things, that solves 99% of our problems. And increases the love on each other.

WIFE IS ALWAYS PERFECT. IT SHOULD BE MEASURED BASED ON HER HUSBAND.

(after a long time commenting in QL.But from my home country. Hope still I am welcome here to do so...)

Sal...good to know that you have a perfect spouse...we need to ask her..if you are you doing the same for her..:)

If theer was a perfect spouse (spice?) for everyone, then we wouldn't have divorce or "discreet QL get togethers" ;o)

ritezzzzzz :p

always there for me, lives for me, encourages me, and loves me truly and loves my family

God created human beings with great/true love; God desires to receive true love from humankind whilst expect them to show it towards each other. So let's see perfection in true love!

Any power melts before true love....

everything that happens is decreed by God..be it good or bad. People in general are not perfect..we are prone to faults hence to expect perfection in a spouse is folly.

That said its the level of "imperfection" that one can tolerate in a spouse that makes him/her perfect for another.

And given the rise in divorces or people choosing to remain unmarried or like MBK pointed out the permissibility for a Muslim man to marry four women its hard to believe that in this life God has chosen just one person as a perfect spouse to another.

IMO we have to wait for eternal paradise for that perfect spouse but meanwhile make do with the one who's good traits surpasses his/her faulty side!

EL i said 'baby' with all due respect - dear.....:)

now dont consider urself as old, u r still young by heart !

nothing is perfect but its up to u how can u manage to make it perfect some how....................God gave us special someone to be with us....------like a soul mate perhaps!!!

A perfect good morning to you...how r u doing?

Atleast respect my age before calling me 'baby'

Yes Tinky, I was about to say that. Perfection is not created by God yet.

and why am i being called here ? :(

Morningz EL baby !

Heeyyyy EL. R not u happy with Rizks??? lol

aaaaaaa.... perfect spouse doesnt exist........ yeah both can make perfect relation...... bcx human is not perfect.... they make mistakes n perfect doesnt make mistakes... so i beliv if there is luv, companionship, sincerity & belief in each other........ the relation is perfect.....

You may like to change the first line to read as "You know some people tend to go into marriage with unreal expectations and with a hope of living with a perfect spouse"... else it is a generalisation.

so the moral is keep kissing till you get the most satisfying and perfect kiss ;)

I agree with FS. Like in my words I say "No life is perfect". But if u wanna make it you can make it.

But assuming God has created only one perfect soul for each one of us is not acceptable by myself.

Elegantlady.. In this region. God as made it possible to find 4 perfect spouses for a husband...:)

Not every one finds the perfect one..coz no one is perfect..:)

Like they say you have to kiss many frogs till you find your prince..:)

No. I believe that it is the only one. It could be more than one. It is my personal experience too.

Nobody is perfect, and I am nobody..:)Dont expect anything..whatever you get is bonus!

If we love someone truly..we see only the perfection in them and not the flaws...