Sorry, ooo...junarc and I haven't even met yet. And I don't date younger than I am ;-)

Junarc, for a relationship to work, there has to be TRUST & HONESTY. Both of you should be honest with yourselves of how things are in your relationship, meaning "NO SECRETS". And learn to TRUST each other. But that doesn't mean you desist being an individual. You can't stop her from mingling with friends (same or opposite sex). She's not your possession that you could hold, control and dictate what she do. The more you do this, the more she distant herself from you.

She might be having problems that she can't tell you. Thinking that she's dating other guys would be unfair for her and for you too. Why? You're torturing yourself because of something you can't prove.

C'mon Junarc...give her some breathing space and while you do that, think things over and maybe it's not her who has shortcomings in your relationship...Think about it...

"RESPECT BEGETS RESPECT"