guys, thank u so much for the ur answers esp to qatarisun. actually, i would like to become muslim not for this man that i am marrying but because i believe this is the TRUE faith. i have been reading materials about islam & my heart leads me to believe in Allah. Sometimes, in this life, we find instruments to find the truth and it's up to us to decide that's why we are given the skill to think. of course, i agree not to convert just for other reasons it just so happens that i love this man & i am convinced of what he believe in. whether i marry him or not, i am embracing Islam faith.good evening to all!