there are 2 types of 'victims' in this world:

those who keep looking back, bemoaning their lot in life, becoming more bitter and thankless - "poor me" attitude, and thereby creating more of the same "like attracts like", "what you put out, is what you will get back, tenfold";

and those who are thankful for the life lessons, knowing that this is the stuff of life, and eager to somehow make a difference in other people's lives, wanting to share of their own learnings in order to help others. They get up, shake themselves off, and move on!!

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If you never did, you should. These things are fun, and fun is good. - Dr Seuss