well let me go ahead and burst some bubbles... if your in a marraige and its not mutual... END IT NOW BECAUSE ITS ONLY GOING TO END IN DISASTER...

this is also why about 50% of marriages in the states end in devorce...

when a women wants something in a relationship or just something for her self in general... and her husband says she has to work for it... thats wrong... and the same in the other direction...

if one spouse works and the other spouse stays home... this becomes difficult because some times the spouse that works feels he/she is in charge... but a marraige is not a dictatorship its a F*ing marriage...

and i will be the first to say that my wife works just as hard as me as a house wife... she deals with all the money and bills while i work... so to me she has a job... thats being a wife and mom so she gets to spend money just as much as i do... and gets just as much say as me...

anyone who thinks im less of a man because i call my wife to ask her if we got the money to do something is a sexiest pig and probably thanks the wife is a trophey anyway...

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just hanging out and watching dvd's with helen keller... kind of a quite night.