I don't think men really look at all our lumps and bumps. A beautiful woman is someone who is confident with their body, no matter how they look when naked. Men really just don't care. It is really women who are self obsessed trying to become something or someone that they are not meant to be. I think the media has distorted the way women should look.

Women are supposed to have curves. Why define yourself based on what you think a man would like? Don't sell yourself short. Belive me when I say that there is no point in defining yourself based on a man's standards. Their standards are low. You should define yourself based on your standards and if you learn to feel comfortable with your body, your man will see nothing but beautiful you.