i see what your saying corny... but... i think i may have worded it wrong...

my intentions were to say that its all our own doings and you never know what you are going to do in any situation until you get there... no matter how good or how bad of a person you are... because every situation is different for every body... so saying that all men will do wrong is not true...

and as for spending 20 years with the same person... if your love life is slacking... thats your own fault...

i have been with my wife for 5 and im still learning new things...

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just hanging out and watching dvd's with helen keller... kind of a quite night.