Arabia, you only lash out at the ones who are being the most straight forward about your situation... and go gooey-eyed for the ones who feed you lines like "love can conquer all" and "never give up hope on love". Face up to it sweety and look around at what 90% of people are telling you. And just for clarification, you are the one posting your story and asking for comments and advise and getting upset when you get it.