Doctora the death of the boy is tragic to say the least, but trust me it is not worth all this, and getting your blood pressure up. It will change nothing, and as you said some people are stupid. Being outraged by some comments is normal, and trust me I also have gotten it numerous times but face to face. Lifes too short to let the small stuff get you so mad (and before you go beserk when I say small stuff I mean the piddly comments, not the boys death)