my friend is well educated, wealthy back home, but this is love marriage and she doesnt want to go back to her parents complaining abt him.because they are sick too.She is working now and trying her very best to get back into shape and spends most of the time with her kid...I called her and told her to take a look at this thread ..hopefully she will see the replies from u guys.. its all upto her to decide what she has to do..