Seriously...does this even need to be discussed?
If you aren't happy with a male sales person or a male gynecologist, then find a female one.

Personally I have no problem if the person helping me is a man or a woman, as long as they are knowledgable about what they're talking about. Ditto for my doctors.

And yes, in the West we're allowed to have men (husband, father, boyfriend, friend) in the delivery room with us when we deliver. Again, it's our choice.