I am also working mother .. and alll these days i have been getting help from my mum from india as i used to bring her every 6 months and keep her.. but now she is leaving this month and i am so confused what to do .. my hubby wont help me in anyway ... so i got to find something or other.. my good advice is : u and husband sit together talk and find the way to solve it.. i know this kind of thinking gives more stress, depression... becuase i am going thru the same thing.....please sit and talk with ur husband and find a way...