You were asked to answer how two different standards of behavior for men and women demonstrated equality between the genders.
And now you're yelling at us for questioning your standards...

You yourself just said that:
"Qatari girls for example, at thier own choice will not go to bars even if they were given the incentive!"

So why is there a need for a law forbidding them from going there if you agree they wouldn't go there on their own anyway? We're simply asking you to explain your reasoning to us on this point...and you're not doing that.

Every society has the right to set its own standards, provided they do not infringe upon the basic freedoms and rights that should be accorded to all people.

I would question your statement about there being general consensus on these issues -- because how can you accurately and honestly assess that in a society/region that doesn't have freedom of expression?

"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
-- Maya Angelou