Better to live with ur family... as of i think its not love ...lust...ur not making urself happy with what u have but asking for more, as u see this guy is nice to you and talking close to you, and ur mistaken it for love... from his side it is not even love, he just says it is love.. better be happy with ur husband and ur kids then to be both ru husband and his wife in a miserable state.. why they have to suffer in their life because of ur lust...

Just forget and move up in life,, if u think u cant do it change ur job.. when u see ur kids u should really think that ur living for them, for their happiness for everything in their life..so stop getting confused and live ur life with ur huband and kids.. so that solves both the family issues...