I read that Mourinho whispered it in Alonso's ears.. and Dudek instructed Casillas to leave the goal kick up to Ramos so he could take his 2nd yellow card as well.. I think it's pretty obvious but hard to proof.. Personally I don't care and think its kinda funny, but it isn't real fair play I guess.. but that's what uefa is looking into now.. and it wouldn't surprise me if they'll be missing another match..