@ americansweetheart1...How can you be with someone you don't trust??..That said I'm a Brit here with my husband we hold hands or walk with our arms round each other in public places..Not everyone covers up..There are a lot of Asian women here so if your hubby has a soft spot I feel for you..There are also pubs,bars and clubs here he could easily meet women socially ..I also see a lot of older men with Asian women here buying clothes or in the bars ect..You definitely know they aren't with the men for looks!..But hey I'm not judging just stating a fact..I think save yourself a lot of worry either trust him and move on or leave..your life your choice!..And agree with above statements married men or women shouldn't cheat if they do they shouldn't be together