FS...cant get you there that reality is no difefernt than thoughts...in my thoughts I would have been to Maldives several times with some beautiful women like film stars or models but reality is different, isnt it cos I never went with them in real.

And dont lose focus, I didnt say anything is stopping a married person from having fun??? I was responding based on what OP has said and a few other threads posted in last few days (dont ask me which ones, DIY). As for example, you knew a QLer quite closely who was single(again, dont ask me to name the person, we know him and I would expect in all humbleness and in keeping with the guidelines of QL or just mannerisms you also dont have to name him)...what do you think about him, was he having fun or not here.

And dont worry about the smell, it is OK...:)