Thanks guys! It means a lot that you all took time to read my sentiment. I just thought issues like this will never happen to me. My guy is not the cheating type that's why. Never thought it was possible to have infidelity issues with him. Can't even begin to describe the shock i felt after learning about it. For now i am holding on to this gut feeling that maybe it's a test of how far i can go in terms of loving this person. If i let go now, maybe i am also letting go of a possible happy married life with him. If i stay, maybe the trust will no longer be there..At the end of the day, i will have to decide..For now the best thing is to spend some time alone and discern what's best for us. Love can be beautiful and also painful..Now I know this is quite true..Thanks QL friends:)