Adultry
Dear All,
I know this is a rather sensitive subject but I really do not know what else to do. My father has been having an affair for a while with an asian woman but is so open about it (telling my mother he is going to spend the night with her, going away on holidays with her all the time etc). From what I have gathered on the website, adultery is quite a serious offence. I do not know what to do. I want to report them but I do not want my father getting hurt or deported (even though he deserves it, it will negatively affect my mother)...any advise?
Thanx,
uk_1987
steal your dad's girl for the sake of your mom. ;-)
Apply Reverse psychology. it works!
Hi! UK.
Yours is a very sensitive case. Handle it well. There is always an option. STICK policy won't work. Talk with your father and mother work out a solution. Good Luck Buddy!
You have to know that what your father doing is forbidden not only in the eyes of man but in the sight of God. Now he enjoy but after that when he died he will pay for that. But because you know you have to do something...Correct what is wrong...Its up to you how you will handle the things but its good for you and to your mom to do something. Whether separate or let him to choose between your family and the lady.
offf very sensitive topic indeed..but i can relate to you my father was doing the same not just once or twice..yes it has bad impact to our mothers and to ourselves as well..but i have moved on and focus on the good things about life..for your mother just show her how much you love her stick with her..she can get her strength from you..never mind your father he is such a pig..im sorry....
http://www.qatarliving.com/answers/family-life/father-affair-issue-with-other-woman-please-help
Regards!!
I understand what you feel. And reporting your dad of his offense could only worsen the situation. Making him go home with a bad record will not solve the dilemma. Just remember, your mom loves you and will appreciate if you do something for her. This is not your fault. Your parents will have to sort it between them, it's not something you should have to try and sort out. I would say keep loving your parents, in the long run she will be better off knowing as I doubt she would want to continue as normal with your dad if he is with somebody else. Best of luck!
mauvecraze, who told you she lives "normal life"?
most likely her life is miserable... poor lady..
it is really sad to hear such stories.. but hey there is very little what you can help with.. as it's mentioned, reporting won't be benificial for anybody, unless your mom is ready to leave him and want a revenge...
maybe you can talk to your dad?
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Let him go... its his Loss...she will leave him when she find someone younger to him... so dont worry!!
Tell your mother not to worry about someon like him...
When did I say that????
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WK Does that mean adultry is OK OK from now on.
BoRn InTeLlIgEnT
crazy people............
I won't recommend reporting him. Nobody will gain anything that way.
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I can't believe your mother knows this and still can live life normally.
she cant forget it - its her parents
sorry to hear this must be so upsetting- but its between your parents. the marriage is over and they need to get a divorce by the sounds of things.
reporting them won't help their marriage
can't you move out????
if you really dont want to hurt ur father then u shouldnot report him.. its a pretty serious offence... he is old enough to know what he should do.. live your own life...and let him do what he wants ..
Yalla, go to bed, and get a tight sleep.
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