cant figure out a solution
By firdausmirza •
hi guys...
first of all...i have a problem and i cant figure out a thing how to solve it...
well my problem is... its about my personality...and i need ur help.. well i just turned 18.. sometimes i could be a pain in back side... and most of the time im hyper active... and i love to socialise... and sometimes i act childish... the problem i have is that..a good friend of mine told me once... i need to act like im 18... i realise that what ive done is not suitable for my age... and its time to change... but the thing is i dont know what to change and how to change me... it might be difficult for you guys to help me cause u dont really know me...but i appreciate ur help..
thx...
You got good advice here. It will come with time. Just be open tp thoughts and idea and interact with life and people as much as you can.
You don't have a problem. You're very normal.
you are 30 too? Cool. Actually I think I am a big kid haha..when I decided to come to Doha, my friends all went 'Who's gonna take care of you?'or 'Are you sure you can do it?'. Better still, some said 'I give you 1 month'!
I am 30 years old and have many of your problems :)))) don't worry about it, you can turn it into and advantage, hyperactivity can be very useful in many jobs, also acting childish can mean innocence and sincerity if you looked at it from a different angle....
Hyper active is great if you are into sports.
And people into social work might need you to pep up their sprits.
Its good to have a little fun ....unless it doesnt hurt or insult anybody.
i am with jax13 on this one.
take it easy. be yourself and not what others want you to be.
when you are 28 you will wonder what you were doing at 18, so enjoy now.everyday is a learning experience.life isnt short, its long masha'allah.use every second of it.
have fun.
oh! do please follow the message of my signature.
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DRIVE SAFE,someone is waiting for you at home
maybe...i guess its because i can relate to him..feel the same way every now and then...;-P
-jb-
jaxs13, you are right.
well u just cant force urself to mature overnight..and personality change happens gradually, sometimes without u knowing it...we all act childish every now and then...just check out the people posting around here and u'll know what i mean...and 18 is still young, go on and enjoy urself...no need to rush into adulthood...coz once u reach it, u'll be there forever...and i understand u when u say ur hyper active and love to socialize...at 24, im also like that and it gets me into trouble here a lot and people are telling me to grow up too...;-P
i guess all i could say to u is chill and enjoy and be urself...but responsibly and try to practice self-control even if it is oh.. so.. difficult most of the time...;-P
-jb-