Help regarding Dyslexia
Hello Friends,
This is a serious issue..My aunts daughter is suffering from dyslexia she is 8yrs old...I said it indirectly to my aunt but she started crying and saying thats if her daughter is not studying then its her fate and so onn...
I love my aunt and her daughter but i dont want her to ruin her daughter's life... friends first of all i really want to know how to tackle with children with dyslexia...
my aunt adopted her daughter through my dads help....the child was very disturbed in her mom stomach i guess becoz she was very very insecure when she came to us when she was 3months....she never used to go to anybody else other than my aunt and my dad...
Friends now she is in 3rd std but very very weak in studies...she was studying in bangalore till date in such a school that if u are absent for 365 days also u will be promoted to elder class...
now she is in saudi arabia (Riyadh) after 18yrs of marriage my aunt is staying with my uncle.....and now they have their own son who is 3yrs now...he is more mashallah brilliant in everything....
I want to help the little child who is really confused abt her life and soo on....
How would i help my aunts daughter so that atleast she can come up with good studies and at least till 12grade....
Thanks a lot in advance
teachers in Ideal Indian school, who was instrumental to migrate Dyslexic kids to mainstream..
a learning disorder marked by a severe difficulty in recognizing and understanding written language, leading to spelling and writing problems.
It is not caused by low intelligence or brain damage.
Thanks a millions times....was very helpful....the only problem is im not with her....other wise surely i would be with her to asses her 24/7...
Inshallah i will be contacting u for knowing more abt it....
Thanks once again
First of all you need to understand that dyslexic children are normal children; their brain learns in a different way and they may struggle with reading/writing and even math but they are normal children. In fact, do some research in the internet and you will see that many brilliant and successfull people are dyslexic, including the billionaire founder/owner of Virgin, Tom Cruise and its is believed Einstein was dyslexic.
So to Elegance, who suggests dyslexics should do a living by manual crafts, don't talk if you don't know what you are talking about. The only reasonable thing you said is that the little girl needs to gain confidence in herself.
There are many different programs for dyslexic children; sadly, the Middle East is way behind on this (as everything else).
the first thing the little girl (and it seems you and the rest of your family) needs to understand is that it is not her fault being dyslexic and that there is nothing wrong with her: she only learns differently. You need to restore the little girl's self confidence and try to provide her adequate tools to learn in schools where there is no specific support/ understanding of what is dyslexia or any learning dissability for that matter. There is a reading program that is called Read Naturally that may be of help. Also a webpage called Lumosity.com (or something similar) and its brain trainer program could be of help. I recommend you read the book The Gift of Dyslexia also. The most important thing for ANY child (not only dyslexic) is a family environment where they feel loved and cared for. When you and your family understand more about dyslexia, you will start the path towards helping the child. And forget such small goal of finishing 12th grade: dyslexics go to college and can be very successful profesionals like any other non-dyslexic adult.
How do I know what I am talking about? I am the father of a brlliant 9 year old dyslexic child.
thanks for ur advisee
its indeed not a bollywood story its a serious issue for me in my life....i cant take her to doctor anyways my close friend who has experience with children dealing with dyslexia was the one who said me that she is indeed suffering from dyslexia/....its not only with her studies but also in her daily life she wants to only be with her mom...
hope u could have given a better advise
thanks
Developmental pediatritians do the assessment tests for such children. Even an experienced occupational therapist or child psychologist can help.
Get to know her strengths and focus on them. Knowing how to run the household,child care, skills like sewing,art & craft work, etc will help her gain confidence and have a life with future.
huh..and how you actually came to this conclusion? i bet you related it to the indian movie :) i suggest you take her to a doctor and let the expert do the diagnostics