how to file a complaint against my husband

A guy from Pakistan got 3000 QAR from me to and told he will return back with a week.But now he is not recieving my call.His Contact Number is 30760093

Jerrine , I support you from the beginning but my reservations on young cunning guys ........... Indians used to call them Tapories .............. means can't be trusted from tomorrow ......

sad

Molten Metal: before we get married for almost 2yrs I know him as my boyfriend since 2011 so almost 4 yrs I know him and my family as well they know him because when I go to my country he followed me there. He change alot when he knows that im pregnant because his afraid to have a big responsibilty to my baby if he cannot do that I can accept. But the things that I cannot accept is the time that he hit me already even he knows that im pregnant and especially when he told me to ABORT my baby that is the thing that I CANNOT ACCEPT.

jerine: I hope things work out for you and your baby. However, please remember that he does have a duty and you should try and get maintenance payments from him - if only for the sake of your child.

Good Luck!

To all people who's giving an advice or comment regarding to my problem, thank you so much.

now as I decided to forgive him it doesn't mean that we are together as a couple now.

I decided to leave him, to forgive him And I will forget him as well. The anger that I feel will not help me. So

im thinking right now is my baby that God's gave me.

I will treasure him. And he will not be worry because to all the people who knows him as a good and a responsible husband it will remain the same especially to my family. I've learned a lesson for being with him.

thanks once again to all of you.

The guy is pregnant with her child ?

This I got to see

using him for*

So you mean to say jerine212003 used the guy ..for her pleasure .. played with his emotions .. and beat him after using her for 2 years ..and now the guy is pregnant with her child and doesnt want to abort ?

Zaheer , That phase is over now ....... This is the 3rd year ..............

yes, because the girl "TRUSTED" the guy .. because she "LOVED" the guy.

My comments are being stolen ........... ...............

If the guy must take responsibility then it's a social case ...... if the couple married without careing the society then why the society worry for the girl & support her after 2 years for a cause society { society means girl did not check the boys background , his parents & relatives standing in the social circle , girl did not take her parents permission & guidance in choosing a life partner in a foreign country } was ignored ...............................

Folks , We must identify the ONE culprit with free mind ........when they set off both were happy ........... now in two years ....... who did what ? Aren't both of them wrong ?

Be strong and would not worry. Rules are in favor of you. Nothing to worry. Fight till you win.

Be strong and would not worry. Rules are in favor of you. Nothing to worry. Fight till you win.

wizz14: You are wrong. If what the lady has stated is true which I very much believe it to be, it is a clear case where the person has used the girl for his own satisfaction, only to be got rid off at the proper time. Unfortunately, the pregnancy has upset his plans. It is as simple as that. The lady is right in that he should now take the responsibilities and meet his obligations.

Hey wiz are you trying to fool the people. These all two years he was staying with her and enjoying without any work you are blaming this lady to give him a shelter. Comeon Yes without wish no one can stay because he got married with her. Also jerine please watch an eye those who want to help you or lending hand. Again you should not be in trouble. If you need assistance for going to the police station inform.

wizz14: What a strange thought. He has a responsibility and must face the cosequences for abusing her

wizz14: What a strange thought. He has a responsibility and must face the cosequences for abusing her

wizz14: how you say that im blackmailing him now. He cannot say to his family because his afraid becauae his not a real man and he doesn't know what is the meaning of RESPONSIBILTY and OBLIGATION. so please watch your mouth.

Honest_man: will you help her for free ?

Go police station in u r area these complane will accept in police station only

Dear,

In regard to your family matter,I've already sent you a private message here on QL to your inbox providing you with my contact number, kindly check it out.

( [email protected] ).

Thanks.

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Be strong care about you and your baby now. You learned from this lesson and do not need a kind of man like him at all. What I believe that time will solve everything be patient. Wish you all the best :-)

Thanks for all of your advice.

as he told me yesterday

his future not with me. for almost 2 yrs that he has no work but im still with him bevause I know that I have reaponsibility to him as his wife and now he got a job he didn't need me. He used me only.

he didn't even tell his family whos the person always beside him when his down.

he is a greedy person.

And his telling me that I destroy his life.

you do realize you have to take care of this unborn child for many years ? If you are still in love .. your brain will still say to be with him ... in reality he just used you .. so since things are messed up now make a plan on how u want ur future to be.. you may start with police complain ..its a long journey ..Good luck

Suave WLL: What makes you "feel" he is a pathan? Do such incidents not take place in other communities such as yours? You should change your pen name to Suave WLT (With Limited Thinking) rather than Suave W L L. Let's not point to any group of people.

Solid input by Molten Metal, all ur comments r full o.f compassion & pure truth. Appreciated equally by me & my friends.

Please go to the police station along with your marriage certificate. He is not sincere and want to only enjoy his life and utlised you well. I do not think you get any justice from him. Please go to the police station situated near to crazy signal. They are very understanding and will find a solution for your problem. Do not worry physical and mental abuse to you may lose his job even. Go and report immediately.

I think the issue is you two did not know urselves too well before u said "i Do" to each other.The fact that he didn't introduce u to his family it was an indication that he was just a "play Boy".Dialogue is what can solve this but if he refuses and turns more violent with u then don't hesitate to involve the law."Never marry someone whose perceptions about marriage are different from yours.

Really sorry for hearing that. What I would do: writing down to an empty paper his negative and positive attitude and you will see if u wanna stay with him in the future or not. For me it is really scary that his family and friends do not know about your marriage. It shows he does not take you seroiusly. He knows the law correctly so using you for fun in the legal way. I would not let any man hit me. Not even one human has the right to hit another so you can report to the police but what I think he is not going to change his mind about the baby and about you. We can not force anyone staying with us if he does not want to. Wish finding the best solution and happyness for you and for your baby.

If God blesses & they pray for you ............. then what else one need ? ........................... .......................................

I wouldn't recommend any of the above. If someone asks you to leave, just leave...the glass is broken. Just negotiate a divorce with a good allowance.

What could the priests at the church do in this situation? First, they will possibly not step in to mediate. Secondly, if they do so, the matter will get worse as the husband would get definitely irritated. In the end, all they would say,"God bless you my child and we will pray for you that you overcome your problems soon!"

Go to church and take priest advice.

If he did not want you to get pregnant, it simply reflects his thinking. He wanted to simply use you for his pleasures in a legal way. Possibly, things would have eventually come this situation in the long run when his contract would have ended and he would be returning home. However, since you two are now tied in the bond of marriage, try your best by talking it out with him. You just cannot lose an unborn baby merely for the dislikes of a man. If you know any of his friends, you may seek their help if they are willing to play the role of a mediator. However, if you approach the police as some QLers, have suggested and he gets locked up, he will retaliate as he will be very bitter and this may lead to a total collapse of the relationship.

Why should she wait till he beats her again ?

If he beats again, go the police station. Located at crazy signal . within 2-3 hrs he will be in jail. Here at police station, they respect a women more than a man.

Go to the Police station. Go with a friend if possible to give you moral support

Dear Jarine, just calm down. Its not really easy to maintain To maintain any relation. Istake happen from human being only. I know what he did, is absoultely wrong. You both sit down explain him clearly & try to sort of the problem.

Dear, try to calm the situation. talk to him, explain him in a nice way. Marriages dont work that way. Bear him for a few days, may be he will settle. If u have a mrrg certificate treasure it safely, that is ur proof of mrrg. If nothing works then see the police. May God settle ur mrrg.ameen