Nuisance by an Indian Family on above floor
Hi
I am facing nuisance everyday by an Indian (Malayalee) family staying above my flat. They have three children who run around, jump, shout, drag furniture and cause lot of irritation. Because of this I am taking medicine for headache regulalrly. The lady encourages her children to run around and cause this nuisance. She never controls them. I have complained many times to the lady because her husband is not seen in the evening time. I have complained to her husband also Still they are not controlling the children. When I complain her, she tells me that I am harassing her. She even asks me on how to control the children. More over she is very rude. She shouts on me whenever I go to complain. She complains to the building manager that I am lying.
I am literally going through psychosis because of this headache.
I have complained to the building manager. He has told them to control the children. She controlled for one day and from next day onwards, the problem restarted. He tried to tell her again but she retorted saying I am telling lies to the building manager. I have given the post dated cheques for rent and unable to move out of the building.
The building manager is telling me to complain to police if I am unable to bear the nuisance.
I myself being an Indian, suffering due to the harassment by another indian family.
Please advice, how to overcome this issue ?
As it seems that family has left for 2 weeks so eggs & tomotoes solution can be postponed ....
Wed, 19.02.2014, 11.12 hrs ....
For spirituality one needs peace around the area, MM .
The indirect approach advised by MM may work well like sidline that lady till she mends her kids.
Come on QR, its a silly matter, I believe u r living alone there with out family. After all
they are children, not robots to sit idle. Think positively, if they are school going kids, they start their morning activity at 5am to get ready for school like any employees. Evening time hardly they get 1 or 2 hours to play around. Its not our country where we can let the kids to play anywhere. They have very limited and confined place to play, let them play, its good for health, do not make it an issue.
I knew now .... & got the assurance that it will not happen again ..... case solved ...
Wed, 19.02.2014, 10.35 hrs ....
Who started putting my comment again & again .... please stop ... don't spoil a good thread ....
Wed, 19.02.2014, 10.23 hrs ....
cook a good tasty cake for them,
dont forget to add sleeping pills inside!
I saw one couple yesterday getting out of a taxi at the general departure gate { there were three children } .......
Wed, 19.02.2014, 10.15 hrs ....
Children were showing a V sign to the public , meaning they were going out for two weeks - two weeks ....
I saw one couple yesterday getting out of a taxi at the general departure gate { there were three children } .......
Wed, 19.02.2014, 10.20 hrs ....
I saw one couple yesterday getting out of a taxi at the general departure gate { there were three children } .......
Wed, 19.02.2014, 10.15 hrs ....
Throw rotten eggs on their door steps every day after 2:00am !
Continue it for 5 days.
Next week, try throwing rotten Tomatoes on their door steps at the same time !
Repeat it for 5 days again.
You will surely find good results ! :)
There is no comparison he is single and they are 1+3 total 4 ....... the 5th one is neutral .....
Tue, 18.02.2014 , 07.29 hrs ...
Oh no!not Psycosis!That's a very complex mind derangement and pls don't go that far.Can really understand your state of mind at this point.
I would suggest u to have a peaceful talk with the family this last once.Probably outside the apartment in a place of your choice.Make sure that the kids too are present.Also, u could try to befriend the kids (as someone else suggested)using your charms.U know afterall they are kids!
Kindly divert your attention to things u enjoy and concentrate on them more.But of course,if all the above don't work at all,as a final measure u could seek help fom the law.
When each one has the right to live,it is also our duty to let our fellow -beings live peacefully.
Don't lose hope QR am sure you will find out a way.Good luck.
QR, You have this project to execute , I wish you success my brother ....
Tue, 18.02.2014 , 06.25 hrs ...
On the other hand , after some research start visiting a few of her neighbours , make brother - sister relations with women & their kids and plan atleast two outings togethers even those may be to citycentre or Villagio only . Isolate her completely ..... take two months ....
Tue, 18.02.2014 , 06.17 hrs ...
Turn to spirituality / prayers .... read magazines , world news , watch Nat Geo / Discovery channels .....
Tue, 18.02.2014 , 05.59 hrs ...
San , You will never know the reasons of posting this thread based on your comments .
Tue, 18.02.2014 , 05.56 hrs ...
Your problem is deep rooted because there is an Indian woman in the front . It seems she is aware about the changing situation in India on how a woman can trap a man to make his life a mess.
Better never see her face again, always talk to her husband in the future on this issue.
One can doubt she might had been harassed herself by men before , so she has now upper hand , she is taking revenge from you, she needs you to endure her cruelty till she satiates herself.
Tue, 18.02.2014 , 05.52 hrs ...
Get up in the night at 2 am or sometime when you think they must be asleep and ring their door bell several times or maybe even bang their door and run away...use the stairs, don't wait for the lift. Hopefully things will be ok soon....:)
Listen to Loud Trance Muzic with 180ml Scotch+ chilled soda,,,,,,,Everything will be OK afterwards,,,,,Tit for Tat,,,,,Cheer's :)
Dear I don't know why you are so upset that you are blaming Indians here being a Indian yourself.My advise to is as below..
1. Swap your room with that lady.
2. Go away to some bachelor area away where any family with kids stays.
3.Do yoga yo control your temper and get habitual of kids playing sounds.
4.Make friendship with those kids and give them chocolate.
5. Listen to some kool music to get relaxed.
6. Ignore the sounds.
7.You have headache by kids play,you must consult a doctor.
I don't see why you have complained on QL
Thanks