Should you stop a habbit ...
By ariannaterrance •
My boyfriend asked me to stop a few certian habbits..but I feel that if someone says they love you then they shouldnt ask you to start or stop something that you have been doing all your life.
Would you change what your doing for someone you love if they asked you to stop??? Even if they do the same thing, but they just want you to stop for the sake of appearance?
I have a useful suggestion.
Stop trimming your tail and make a bushy tail and see how your BF reacts. See if he accepts it or not?
If he accepts you for who you are then fine otherwise get all his habbits undone by hitting him with a club!
Why do you grind your teeth and bite your lips?
Do you wag your toungue twist your tail too?
Its means You both don,t love with each other...
If you love him you will never like to talk with some one else and if he love you he will never try to talk to more girls..
if a bad habbit i try to change this habbit ,but if i can not at least i try to do it for her . and for me any habbit i can change, and easy , to be a free man u have to control the habbit not the habbit control u.
u're a grown up girl who knows what is and what's not good for her. besides if u're saying what u're saying then no need for this thread!! do whatever he tells u to do, because he knows better!
he doesnt have the right to tell u what to do, especially when he's doing the very things he's telling u not to!!
that is plain selfish.
now when it comes to "bad" habit(s) i think he should start by being a role model here; if he's doing it then y telling u not to do it?!
there should be a compromise in any relation, but not at your expense!
good luck
You started this thread only to attention seek.
Because...
If he is 'the voice' that you say, and 'knows what is right for you' then why are asking for advice whether to follow what he says?
Maybe you stopping talking to other men is the best thing, in his opinion....
....or maybe he doesn't want you to talk to other men because then you'll compare, and realise what an insecure controlling jackass he is....
its weighing out desires
if your habit is heavier than your love, problemo
if your love is heavier than your habit, you'll quit the habit without thinking twice. ie, no problemo
else, you negotiate your way around things
Aim for the stars..
Reach the roof
awww..like to train a nice female student let me know:).. though i stopp'd my work outs due to busy work scedule and flying from one country to another country and other reasons, recently started again.
"Don't Touch what you can't AFFORD"
Sorry,I'm retired. Now I mostly stay at home with my 11 cats and my canary
is a bodybuilder female trainer.
she only teaches them how to get a perfect 6pack and good curves
chocoholic i need ur help in my life .. are u realy female body builder ?
"Don't Touch what you can't AFFORD"
Oh jeez, I agree with DaRuDe ..
arianna, you say HE knows what's best for you?
You are an adult with a mind of your own and are no doubt capable of making decisions. I'd say YOU know what's best for you.
IMO, double standards aren't best for anyone.
its the nature and habits of one that you choose them. if you try to change that a lil bit then everything changes and alot of questions comes in one's mind.Today he asked you for few changes tomorrow he will ask for more.
Omar you can leave your little fetishes out of conversations like these...
Boyfriend is haram...leave him. Or marry him and you'll got him under your heel.End of problem. La revedere!
oh god this was not what i was talking about
whatever feature or asset
lol Boston, Colt....
Asif u should't be talking like this here buddy.
There are small small kids like me, boston, Colt etc. etc....:)
Not feature... ASSETS!
every guy in the planet knows what the best feature of pamela anderson
lol Rizks but i am not biting my toe nails ;)
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her ass, her titts, asif
Try asking Pamela Anderson what her best assets were a few years ago, I'm sure that is not the answer you'll get.. :-P
That's very healthy, Rizks
Egg Jat Lee, Boston !!
Heartbeat increase, Blood pressure rises, Sweat and a little scared....:)
It's not a fact, asif. It's only your opinion!
What is wrong in talking to guys? You have been doing that your entire life and it was never a problem for you, so why now?
Ask him to PRACTICE WHAT HE PREACHES!
Omar we know u bite ur lips and the nails of your TOE....:)
Flirting is dangerous to your health? Is it because the heartbeat increases?
hey this is a fact don't u know??
women's best asset is her hair and eyes and her lips
i bite my lips too :D
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ok ppl m off... may be laterzz.. ariana good luck :) let me know the updates about quiting,
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im not dense at all .
i just know that he knows whats right and wrong for me becuase hes looking at the situation from a 2nd party perspective
you perv :-P
Are you so dense that you dunno what's right for you and what's not?
sum ppl bite their lips till it bleeds specialy when they are strees'd out.
"Don't Touch what you can't AFFORD"
Such relations should always be unconditinol,then only there will be more love,fun,intimacy and bond in that relation.
a girl looks more beautiful if u see her biting her lips
ariann dont depend on him to correct you...if u think things are wrong in u ..you should work it out its for ur personality development. it will make u happy in future.
"Don't Touch what you can't AFFORD"
YOU know what's right for you and what's not right. You're a person with their own brain and mind, not some robot who does what she's told.
biting the lips is not a bad habit...
infact i bite my partners lips sometimes....lol
Thats not very nice..
and my BF knows whats right for me and whats not right.
ofcourse rev.... I AM
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he's getting possessive to the point that he's asking you to quit talking to guys... so maybe you should stop the habit of seeing your bf, that's best for you... :-P
are u not ? Omar
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I left her in Doha, Rizks.
Boston were did u leave her ? :)
lol rev .. u think i am determined soul
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rizks dont worry ill not advice u u have lots of relatives and friends to give u advice i was talking about people under me
well you dont have to tell him what u doing and who u talking to lezz hassel..
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Determine'd Soul :p Omar
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Good Job Boston...
"Don't Touch what you can't AFFORD"
lol rev.. no one asked me to stop.. but i am talking about the future IF i will have my gf and IF she will say like that than ;)
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- stop talking to other guys when he can talk to other girls.. -- i can understand the grinding of teeth, but to stop you from talking to other guys when he can talk to other girls.. that's kinda not fair.. what's wrong with talking to other guys anyway when you have no other bad intentions.. he's just jealous.
lol rizks...bad rabbit...
I quit smoking, my girl didn't. I started hating her smell and taste. I left her.
Omar who asked u to stop ur bad habbits ? awein
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ariana jus tell him u r trying to quite bad habbits, but its just hard u need a company.. ask him to quite those habbits with u so u both can quit them..yet u didnt answer what exactly he is asking u to quit ?
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i will never stop as i will be doing this for all my life
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LOVE never ask neone to SACRIFICE..Both men n women shld accept each other in their way how they used to be before..And y to sacrifice or leave something for the sake of him/her until n unless therez nothing harmful for one's health???? I have seen some of my frds went VEGGIE when they see their WOULD BE BETTER HALF are VEGGIE..Its stupidity..Atleast i can't see myself in their place..
Coming to ur pblm arain, y don't u sit with ur BF and discuss ur worries with him?? i m sure he will understand if u will let him know ur pblms that u don't like...
asif khan u r my good relative, plz get out from this thread.....lol
Well the grinding your teeth I could see...but the rest? Tell him to go F himself and get a man who can accept you for who you are.
lobot u mean copycat ?
Copy cat killing the Rat under the MAT....:)
for instance if some of my relative have bad habbit and if i care for them then i ll definitly try to help them or advice them to leave all the bad habits they are having
BCOZE I CARE FOR THEM
I dont follow my boyfriend around . thats mad creepy .
your main bad habbit is Ur bf.. leave him .. all bad habbits wil be gone.:p *Joke*
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i think your habit is you are always following your boyfriend...that is a very bad habit which men do not like most..............
arian, which rabbit did ur bf has asked u to stop ?
We both already smoke, and drink and what not . so hes not going to ask me to stop that because as long as we drink togeather its fine...
No I dont eat enough actually ...
For instance he asked me
- to stop talking to other guys when he can talk to other girls.
- he asked me to stop grinding my teeth and biting my lips when he does the same thing...
Itr would be interesting to know which habits he asked you to stop. Did you eat too much?
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Depends what the habits are. If they're something harmful to your health like smoking, drugs or drinking to excess they have every right to ask you to stop.