Upset,Disgusted & worrying
i am a person who is always like to do everything sharp on time.i don't like to hear from anyone for delay or negligence.but that is the very thing i lost even from my family.i have told hundreds of times i want to do everything on time and go out sharp at time.go to work sharp at time.i don't want to shout at them and hurt them. coz i suffered so many years without them in gulf countries.sometimes i think i will live along in a room so that i can do evrything on time and go to work on time.sometimes i think better if everybody hating me,ignoring me,keep me cornered.not bothering me.so that no one will attached to my life. i can slowly do my things on time and live without hurting anyone.whom to tell. who will listen to me. i am helpless my friends.
They are right,
Living and working away from our family changes us, how we think, we feel, we work.
Before I'm OCD, when I feel that the people around me are not comfortable of how I act, and how I do things.
I start to read online, books, etc, how to overcome and to know more what I'm dealing with. I try to relax and not put pressure on myself and it helps!
I'm still living away from my family, but when I go back home, I always let loose and think that Family First!
We've been working so hard and the last thing we need is to be far from each other even when we are inches apart.
So cheer up!
I think the best thing is to keep talking to them about how you feel, or as suggested above try to get consultation from a Psychiatrist.
Keep safe!
Hey, relax man...time waits for no one for sure. But someone you love will surely waits on/for you. So Cheer up! and Chill! Sometimes we need to take a step back and pause and realize what we live for.....definitely not TIME.
I think you could be an excellent artist, a prolific writer, quick technical trouble shooter etc. or excel in anything that does not require team work, however you can never be a good manager. Try to develop that skill and you'll find that you are in control of your family matters including the time.
it should be Psychiatrist instead of psychologist...take care...nothing is perfect in this world.
Time management from your side and understanding from your family is all you need.
punctuality is best policy
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We learn everyday and every moment. Your family members may not be attentive as you are so if your guidance to them doesn't work, flex yourself. This is an imperfect world. Think of it as accepting the inevitability.
This habit if not changed, can bring havock to your marriage life. I am learning too.
Well,like you I also feel that I'm more productive & happier when I'm alone until someone changed that.
Well, you'll just get upset everyday (been there done that) try the democratic way of thinking & go with the flow of majority but if you can afford your own transpo every day then you have an alternative.
surinder, rather collector type. hang on to old stuff, collect stamps, coins, antique furniture...
You know what you are doing wrong. You have just told us so. It's not easy to admit your failings, so well done for that. Now go the other 50% and put things right.
Acknowledge to those that you love that you realise you are being a bit short with them. And ask them for time so that you can improve over a couple of weeks or so.
Don't get angry when they point out that you are doing it again. Acknowledge the heads up, and correct immediately.
We are all human you know. You will get there in the end.
ur the control type freak. face it: u hate to spend money, u like to control others, time is everything (as u mentioned), but also u get crazy if someothing is not put in it's place...
Thanks everyone for all your valuble advice.
take it easy
Look... what you are going through is quite common and normal. So relax and clear up your mind, it will help you to think better and find a solution.
If I may suggest, you could start with trying not to be too rigid about what you need or want to be done. For example, with respect to keeping to time, there are things and situations where punctuality has to be maintained but not always in life. You can ease out on many things in life and take it on a lighter note. The fact is that there are certain things beyond our level of control that affect the time in our lives and we have to accept that. So keep it cool...dont completely change yourself to be happy as that wont work. A person who kees track of his time will always be sucessful in life...but the key point is he should also know how to manage it. Take care buddy...
You need help. Seriously.
sometimes being a little late helps.
This is happends in live with together. Try to understand each other and live better. I sugest you must more patient for your works and in life.
ohhhhhhhh..........its strange my friend please go to psychologist....
If I understand correctly - You are suffereing what many Expats suffer. They work hard and alone for the family, but when they are together, they are aliens to each other :o(