if you cant live with your old relationship, have sometime for yourself first before having new one... you need time perhaps somehow to think and realize what should do to have a successful one...and be ready for the new one...
against advises of friends...and it never worked. The hurt, the heartache marred the relationship so it was bound to end in disaster. At least I tried...
However, going through a NEW RELATIONSHIP when you're not completely over/recovered from the old relationship could be a disaster waiting to happen...dear me...
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent -Eleonor Roosevelt
Of course its better to reconcile if there is a chance, look at the positive side and let go the negative side because if you take the chance of a new relationship, it might turn out to be worst than the old relationship.... you lost in the gamble.
i know how you feel shane...been going through the same dilemma now..but ask yourself, is he the person you really want to be in the future, does he feel the same way,too?
also consider those things that separated you...are you willing to give something to achieve one thing? are you to give up some things to avoid one thing? ask yourself if you are really strong now to face him after what you've been through. have you totally forgiven each other or there is still hatred or grudges within? once it's still there, you wont be assured that you will not argue again.
bottomline is, if you are really meant for each other, you will find yourself in back in each other's arms sooner..
chances are if you're getting back to the old relationship, same things may recur. issues will resurface and may create the same diagreement and may lead to another round of break up. unless if you have talked all issues and leave everything behind and start new.
in most cases i prefer a new relationship but not because you are trying to mend your broken heart but because you see the potential of this person of your life and vice versa.
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
If you want to reoncile an old relationship, you need to look at why you broke up in the first place....If it was just circumstances then go for it and give it a chance however if there were unresolved issues,i wouldnt bother reconciling, i think the less baggage a relationship has the better, start fresh..
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if you cant live with your old relationship, have sometime for yourself first before having new one... you need time perhaps somehow to think and realize what should do to have a successful one...and be ready for the new one...
Live and Die with DIGNITY!
-JaYTeR-
it depend where you stand. the old if its worth the figth then keep it. the new.. always give you challenge to conquered/overcome.
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
Better to keep going on with the old relationship , i think .
Old is gold and the grass is always not greener on the other side
Aunt Polly
there are some, saying that its easier to move on if you have someone with you
there are some, saying that its easier to move on if you have someone with you
i agree with u azzy, move on first before starting anything!
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
against advises of friends...and it never worked. The hurt, the heartache marred the relationship so it was bound to end in disaster. At least I tried...
However, going through a NEW RELATIONSHIP when you're not completely over/recovered from the old relationship could be a disaster waiting to happen...dear me...
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent -Eleonor Roosevelt
Not an easy answer. If there has been a betrayal of trust, move on. If it is more minor habits, trying reconciliation.
Of course its better to reconcile if there is a chance, look at the positive side and let go the negative side because if you take the chance of a new relationship, it might turn out to be worst than the old relationship.... you lost in the gamble.
we live life echoes of eternity if ever you make a choice make it LIFE.....
isnt old is gold and new is daimond. what will you go for. you just need to know how to keep the balance
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I think old. with it you have history, you have clues on where to start.
How can I reconcile a new relationship?
Never go younger by a month, a hard bod is no substitute for wisdom.
i know how you feel shane...been going through the same dilemma now..but ask yourself, is he the person you really want to be in the future, does he feel the same way,too?
also consider those things that separated you...are you willing to give something to achieve one thing? are you to give up some things to avoid one thing? ask yourself if you are really strong now to face him after what you've been through. have you totally forgiven each other or there is still hatred or grudges within? once it's still there, you wont be assured that you will not argue again.
bottomline is, if you are really meant for each other, you will find yourself in back in each other's arms sooner..
but, ah, love...life is still worth living!
You can try as much as you can, but in life there are some persons for just a moment. so let them go.
And keep trying to find the right one.
Keep the memories and the photos, but forget about going back.
The Venezuelan Sensation!!!
ah to be or not to be...
tra la la
:-/
it is the classical dilemma between the head and the heart
*When hands reach out in friendship, hearts are touched with joy*
there's a clash between mind and heart... the mind says that you need to move away and the heart tells to stay and fight
chances are if you're getting back to the old relationship, same things may recur. issues will resurface and may create the same diagreement and may lead to another round of break up. unless if you have talked all issues and leave everything behind and start new.
in most cases i prefer a new relationship but not because you are trying to mend your broken heart but because you see the potential of this person of your life and vice versa.
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
The more you try to mend a broken glass the more you're bound to get hurt...move on with your life...
If you want to reoncile an old relationship, you need to look at why you broke up in the first place....If it was just circumstances then go for it and give it a chance however if there were unresolved issues,i wouldnt bother reconciling, i think the less baggage a relationship has the better, start fresh..
depends how long the old relation was and why you splitted.
sometimes the new is not better then the old.
thats my oppinion.
:-D