why we often Do the same mistakes ....
why we often do the same mistakes which makes us depress in the eyes of our own ....
This is the question which usually we ask ourself ...
But at certain moment we can't stop ourself
As we are getting addict of it ....
why we can't leave those nasty habits..
why we can't control ourself..
These are the questions which some times arise in our mind ...
But we never give more importance to these questions ...
and by the passing phase of time we commit the same mistake twice ...thrice ...
Lets Think About this issue which i think is most important in our day today life....
i try to avoid doing same mistake and learn from my mistakes
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सोनम दी नेपाली बाबु
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Mistakes and solutions ...are the two words with different meanings but still are used together on a common platform..
as where ever mistake will go ...solution is next to it ...
what matters a lot is whether we are seeking a lesson from it ..or whether we are ignoring our mistakes ...and later on committing the same ....
It depends upon person to person .....
we should learn from our mistakes...
mistakes = experience and
problems = situations
both needs thinking and solution...
how you react on both is who you are...
Absolutely right einstind...........
Realization is the key word...which we have to note down in our dictionary.....
c0z u alL hAve thE SamE ........
We do the same mistake again because we do not realise our mistakes and do not take steps to correct it.This requires some energy and good will.
We choose the easy way ----to make the mistake again.
in our subsconscious mind, we have a set of beliefs which we want to hold on to and prove to be right. Hence, when given the same situation, we commit what we have done in the past just to prove to ourselves that what we believe to be right is right. There is no amount of good advice and intention from friends that could help us outgrow the motivation to do what we believe to be right and suitable to our respective personalities. The key to stop following and doing the same pattern lies within each of us. When we have come to accept to ourselves that what we want, what we need, what we believe are not completely right and could be changed, then that's only the time when given the same situation, we'll handle it differently and wisely.
i learn from my mistakes..n try not to repeat..
i would prefer to do mistakes and ask for forgivness...
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
it's because we are not learning from our own mistakes!
nothing is irrelevant here ashu. :P
same like the "same mistake", it always teach us something different.
..and i dont believe correcting is the right term, its learning. cuz mistakes are experiences and should never be regretted. otherwise, live your life full of regrets. :)
-=The desire to do what you shouldn'T is the very desire that defines Humanity=-
..we are just but human...
its is still relevant because as i said those were the mistakes that i had done but still i continue to do the same over and over again...but if you don't agree then what to do yanni?peace!:)
amen ....:)
...listen to the sound of silence....
sometimes we try convince ourselves to change for good so how matter we tried so hard still we commit the same mistakes again and again...and finally reflect."if i can turn back time, i will never do those things and will never do it again."
First of all i want to thank one and all....who shared there wonderful ideas ,....But, plz dont distract others from posting irrevelant comments ...Specially ...chink_lady, plushed,...
hope you understand ........
ya i strongly agree that never say it is not in your hand ....Its in your hand ...Every thing is possible in this world , Even impossible says i am possible ..
So Be positive Don't allow negative thoughts to overcome your positive thoughts .....
May god bless all the hearts with Positive Energy ...
Ameen...
Well Fragile i agree to you.but as u said that mistakes r not in our hands....actually we all have an extremely good gift, which God has given to all of us n that is "our Conscience".our conscience always guides us thru the ways, bt most of the time we ignore that and we dnt listen to our conscience and finally land up in committing some big, some small mistakes.
but yes as i said "Mistakes are lessons in Wisdom" so you should neither regret on those nor be proud of also but instead always try to correct those committed mistakes coz if one commits mistakes, he/she is the only one who is responsible for that and no one else.
so all u lovely people, for me Life is all about correcting your mistakes and get lessons so u never commit the same again.
Always try to listen to your conscience and jst follow that without thinking anything else.
Stay Safe......enjoy the beauty offered to u......enjoy Life......God Bless!!!
why?
...listen to the sound of silence....
never say it is not in your hand,there are some unavoidable mistakes,but still should be under control,otherwise our life will be chaios...
well near to me..mistakes are something not in our hands..mistake cannot happen by planning so that we can stop it.it doesnt matter it happens once..twice or thrice..most important thing is how we learn out of it. we can make some precautions by being more careful ..also..i cant say i will never commit any mistakes ..but i can take extra precautions to reduce my mistakes ..or the loss happened by mistakes..
God Bless ALL and keep us safe..Ameen..
repeat they become obsession.. but at times it is out of our control to make mistakes.. but if you are sincere in not repeating them , then you can stop those mistakes ..
There is a time for departure even when there's no certain place to go.
i have no idea. :( i fell in love with the wrong ...character(?)guy(?) over again.
-=The desire to do what you shouldn'T is the very desire that defines Humanity=-
cuz some ppl dont learn from their mistakes.
me too.until now im still in love with "him" the tuxedo with the mask..i don't know if your familiar also with the fushigiyugi?well plushed this is the mistake that i suffer, the feeling of regression and falling in love with the handsome cartoon characters.ROFL!
until now i am not fed up of watching them always.part of my collection.my crush is nakagu not tamahome...hahaha!i also think that i am miaka...lol!why do we have these mistakes plushed?i can't live without them now?:(
tamahome. haha. oh gosh.. im hyper ventilating thinking about those stuffs. i was such an anime fanatic. maybe still am. :P
the characters are always dreamy .. you cant help but love them. lol
-=The desire to do what you shouldn'T is the very desire that defines Humanity=-
Sometimes we may learn more from a man's mistakes than from his virtues
there's a say its very easy to make a sin and difficult to follow God rules.
DON'T LET FANTASY ROB YOU OF YOUR REAL LIFE BEAUTY
yikes, me toooo! i used to collect stickers and posters, even pillows, blankets. everything. even fell in love with tuxedo mask. hahaha. urgh.
OMG.. sorry for the hi jack! i just got excited. *sigh* memories.
-=The desire to do what you shouldn'T is the very desire that defines Humanity=-
yes plushed i am her avid fan...lol..sorry for the hijack ashu...peace!:)
chinx_lady.. is that sailor moon in your avatar? lolz. sorry. got distracted. :P
-=The desire to do what you shouldn'T is the very desire that defines Humanity=-
i agree with whyteknight ..
also..
we are sometimes making the same mistakes in different circumstances. there's no such thing as "same mistakes" it varies from how, why, where, what happened when you did it. :)
-=The desire to do what you shouldn'T is the very desire that defines Humanity=-
to a void this mistakes we need to improve our social sensor,in the past they said that we should learn from our mistakes,but the new social theories say that we need to learn from other's mistakes before we go through it.
the idea of saying that we are addicted is wrong because if god created us helpless towards our selves, he will not judge us for our deeds wether they are good or bad.
(desiers are like hores either you ride it and it will take you to where you want, or it will ride you and kill you)
coz we never learned from it and we are never sincere when we say that will never do it again .
suzain ...no words to tell the answer of your question.......
he will tell you how to avoid doing mistakes so after 20years you wont regret :D
why you often do the same mistakes Ashu1 ji which makes you depress in our own eyes ???
If mistakes make u feel good.. you keep repeating it ?
"If You don't Understand My Silence..You can Never Understand My words"
Be careful???
Is that a threat Ashu?
**** Aal Izz Well****
...but your last comment above this are the reasons why QL is odd around these days. You only choose people to comment according to your capability of thinking and doesn't welcome the most logical or valid or even sarcastic others...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
Plz read the post carefully and then post your comments...and stupid comments are not allowded in this post...So be careful ....
ya ur right Every mistake is a learning step...But what if one is Repeating the same mistake ...And not learning from that mistakes ....
See? I'm seeing it now. I thought you were asking for advices...but nobody answers one straight to the point.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
Every mistake is a learning step..Personally i take lessons from others mistakes as well..
So you will forget the same mistake...
Live Life To The Fullest.......................
Experiences are those which which we count in our life and mistakes are those which we always subtract from our life..
But we can gain same positive points if we learn some lessons from our mistakes ...
If not then our life will be miserable ....
So wake up QL members ......
There are no mistakes just experiences.
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reading others' mistakes are easier than ours!!!!!
Yes its wright that ....Life is too short and there is so much to do...But it doesn't means that you should do mistakes every time ....
one time you will feel ...If i have stop myself at that time ...
But you can't reverse the time ..
As time and tide waits for none ...
so one has to Think wright now at this moment ..
and make a new year resolution ....
learn from the mistakes ...
Learn from the past ...
As God help those who helps themselves...
will just sit and see and read every ones mistake how they feel about it.
Da is in the mood to hijack this thread today, a mistake that he wants to do it again and again;)
Then you might get a new thread, why do we often hijack ;)
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should be discussed. This is a very important issue. Every body leave all other topics and join here lets hijack this one.
Why should I control myself???
Life is too short and there is so much to do, I don't want to stop myself from doing anything. Whatever I want, I do. Why exactly is this the most important issue in today's life?????
**** Aal Izz Well****
Mistakes are sometimes the best memories...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
An important Post which needs your comments and clarifications .....