Bleeding Love
By yellow_bel •
How would you accept if the person you really love,cannot marry you in the end, should i stay or let him go...you start your relationship in a smooth way,you are happy together, lot of things in common, you both love discussion and wont last a day with out seeing each other. but inspite all this he cannot marry you for the reason that you have different religion,culture and nationality.
he is not the last man in this world...u will have better option than him...with same culture,language,traditions..and above all Religion..
You know.. It's like an East German with a Trabby trying to marry a West Berliner with a Porsche... Cannot happen :O(
I see, culture.
She would throw me over her shoulder and we would have hours of fun. However, we couldn't settle because of cultural differences. So, we had to say goodbye.. :O(
No, brit. What happened to you? Did she throw the balls at you?
Sometimnes you have to let go. :O(
Did I ever tell you about my Cuban Shotpuutter ?
Your topic post is incomplete,u should write here what is his nationality,religion,culture and what is yours .so u will receieve good comments at this foram
Rules are a guideline for intelligent people, but they must be adhered to by idiots.
*Bleeding Love, or Bleeding Hell!*
The wonders of the female heart.
It is simple:
If he loved you and couldn't as you said "wont last a day with out seeing each other".. then he would have married you. as simple as that!! YES, as simple as that.
Men are much more logical then women !! (yeah ladies you know its true). thereofor, if he wanted to marry you in the first place but he couldn't becoz of barriers then he would have saved him self the headache, so that means his intention wasn't to marry you in the first place.
Ask him to have a "logical" conversation with you.. and i promis u will be shocked!! (Try not to cry!)
Maybe thoes "feelings" were only felt in your heart
If he "really" loves you, he will raise heaven and hell to get to you.
i have to go its better i guess, and besides if he really loves me he knows where to find me...
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"The mind determines what's possible,
The heart surpasses it"
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Why should you leave just to accomodate him. Stay hare and show him that you're stroing enough to deal with it and move on!
Don't run, yellow_bel. Tell him what you intend to do. If he really loves you with all his heart, he will stay with you. If he still cannot decide, tell him you are going back home. Say goodbye, however painful it is, leave in an amicable way.
yah i know and after reading all the opinions here, i made up a decision that i hope i will never regret it someday. since i dont have the guts to say goodbye, ill just fly back home as soon as possible.
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"The mind determines what's possible,
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thanks for the concerned but dont judge me pls. its not an illicit affair for your info. we never got into that crap, he knows all the restriction he is devoted to his religion.
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"The mind determines what's possible,
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he cannot marry you for the reason that you have different religion,culture and nationality.??????????
THATS A CRAP!!! It's because these cheaters are just using & screwing you for free....too bad most of the Filipina wannabies got the same sad old stories....we usually call them "uto-uto"!!! These other nationalities normally are looking for FREE honeymoon without marriage....in short an "illicit relationship" which is prohibited in Qatar. WAKE UP & BE CAREFUL!!! if CID catches you, your BF won't defend you...instead will betray you & just save himself...same old story...whattta shame!!!
why ddo we always have tough problems when we're in-love!(sigh)
...learned my lesson the hard way so, to those who doesnt want to get hurt, better not to fall in love again :(
...listen to the sound of silence....
He needs to be free to spread his wings and sow his wild oats.
Move on and let him go.
Let him go and move on..
thanks KIWI its been 2 years and half now, he never get tired of showing how much he love me.
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"The mind determines what's possible,
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I second rein on that one...
Ask him to make a decision. If he can't marry you, LEAVE. Will it hurt? Yes. But if you let him string you along, you will end up more hurt in the end.
real love knows no bounds. distance, religion, age, culture, nationality, height, weight, beliefs, blah blah blah... are all crap!
otep: I'm sure she would like to be in the position to forget, if you have experienced love then you would know that this is not possible, hence her conundrum.
Also, why does there always seem to be so much importance placed on finding a man and getting married? Apart from this sticky situation I'm sure she has happiness in her heart with the fact that she has found love... isn't that life's most worthy experience in itself?
obviously your bf doesnt want to choose you to be his wife.i dont think both individual differences are the lead issue here.plenty of alibis but the end does'nt justify the means..
forget your bf and find a man who will really love you and marry you.
lobot
i guess he is from nepal or srilanka
to be away from the responsibilities. if d person truly loves u he will not mind of your culture, religions, etc. love can conquer everything...
DON'T LET FANTASY ROB YOU OF YOUR REAL LIFE BEAUTY
maybe you should set a time limit on this... if it doesn't work out in like 3 months then move on.
Otherwise you might be wasting your young years away wishing for the impossible.
A wise person once said.. if you truly love something set it free, If it comes back it was meant to be if not then it never really was in the first place raa raa raa something like that anyway
we are both SINGLE and never been married.
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"The mind determines what's possible,
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sorry i cannot tell you...
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"The mind determines what's possible,
The heart surpasses it"
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he will never be able to really choose you over his family... just enjoy the beautiful moments you have together and accept it for what it is. Marriage is really just a goal you are setting yourself that will never truly fufill you. Live in the moment and bask in the love you both have now. Don't think too far ahead, as your love grows, the situation might change. If it is true love you will never be able to get out of the situation anyway no matter how hard you try... you won't stop loving each other and it will possibly just end up working out... somehow.
Live in the now.
Smile, at least you found someone to love... many people never find this :)
Rules are a guideline for intelligent people, but they must be adhered to by idiots.
In your case, he is probably just not ready for marrige with you, and may never be. In the big picture, different religions makes for big problems later in your relationship when all the lust is gone. You need to consider raising kids, family faith, all sorts of things, so unless one of you is willing to convert, i say stay away. Also watch out for politics. I married a socialist. What a mistake, her view of life that big government was the answer to everything drove me crazy. Never again. I don't even date liberals anymore, because once the excitment is gone, life is hard.
yellow_bel
let me know ur boy freind nationality
De Ja Vu thread? :0
thanks a lot for sharing opinions you are all right... but how to say it or end up a relationship that is full of love. its gonna be too much hard and big preparation to do it. and i dont know how my mind say GOODBYE but my heart say STAY.
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"The mind determines what's possible,
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yiu two will get married in the end dont worry
Its just an excuse. Now looking at things back, you have just fed him a sumptous dinner all this while. Now that he fills full, make excuses and out he go. Have faith, life must go on.
If he cannot marry you then leave him or be prapared to how things end up including the possibility that he may face you with a decision! He may also face his family with a decision- take your chances if you will.
If love is not abundant enough for him to swallow the barriers and marry you, then it is that type of love for which you should not tie yourself with someone till death time anyway.
we are still together and all this time he thinks that i accept it.but there are times that i cannot bear thinking that i cannot be a part of his family.
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"The mind determines what's possible,
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He knew this beforehand, his parents didn't change their passports overnight and became citizens of different country. Learn a lesson and move on.
his family wont allow him to marry diff. nationality and it hurts so bad to wait and wait but i dont know what i am waiting for...
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"The mind determines what's possible,
The heart surpasses it"
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Congratulations...
True and real love will come to you soon.....
I don't believe in that thing anymore. Pathetic thoughts of love. Nobody comes back. All these reasons to keep their sorry pansies...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
It's just an excuse, now that he's had his wicked way with you. Religion, nationality, etc. only gets in the way if you let it.
*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****
if he/she come back, means he/she loves you but if he/she cant then better to marry with a sincere person...
A true lover never leaves u just coz of RELEGION....
Proud To Be A PAKISTANI
.~*AnteecA*~.
he cannot marry you for the reason that you have different religion,culture and nationality.??????????
Then,what is the purpose of the relationship...This is a BIG LIE...and excuses.He just want to screwed you,sorry to say but thats my opinion.
"never ever give up"
IF HE CANT MARRY YOU LEAVE AND FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE THEN...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
bleeding love??? omg beware of dracula...(sorry for the hijack)
The differences in religion, culture and nationality are just excuses. If he truly loves you, he will move mountains to be with you. He knew about the differences when he got involved with you in the first place.