flirts
as I was moving my husband's dirty clothes to the hamper this morning, i saw a pink note drop from his trousers' pocket. it wrote, "pls add me..thank you..." and then a hotmail address.
WTF is going on in this society! ladies slipping small notes of their IM addresses to "cute" guys, not checking if he's available or not! so what's a guy gotta do if the chicks themselves are throwing themselves to men like that?
any insights...?
Investigate the identity of this woman. If you want our help, we can do that. heheheheheheheheheheh
i want tips from your husband.
He's already shagging her in his thoughts. Why hang around to see it happen in front of you?
Shame on u spoiling name of ur people
Shame on u spoiling name of ur people
Shame on u spoiling name of ur people
Shame on u spoiling name of ur people
You can call us guy hunters.
Rania to know your answer you need to pay a visit to Doha Jadeed or Fariq Abdul Azeez to know the real definition of pathan, you know from our land even the birds are flying with one wing coz they had to hide their asset with the other one.
samaac, i think what he's trying to say is that he's gay :)))))
u not interested because she is a girl :) ????
thats why I am not interested.
actually im not a cute guy, im a cute girl :))))))
why rania what made you think that PATHAN's ar pathetic, anyways you are not a cute guys so just chill.
habibidak, please don't use the words "garbage from your mind", it is uncivilised. this is a public forum, mind your language please. peace.
You can't teach experience...
instead of posting it here this garbage from your mind why don't u try to chat this IM to cut oncean for all.. buried this mess story from your careless CUTEHUB or just to have & catch your attention perhaps
why? they hijack this thread...
"Build bridges instead of walls and you will find a friend..."
u slept???
hah drac / victor , :)
I didn't do it!
And I'll not do it again!
Nepali lebanese keralite..omg i forget philipine!
Pathan you're pathetic :)))))
All the cute guys pls give me your emails, I am PATHAN.
King Edshel, thanks for such a wise advice! i will think a lot about it.
and thanks tess, i dont want to bother myself about that lady's identity. but lol your eagerness to help is cool!
of doubts grow in your mind until it become a big tree that is hard to be removed.
Forget about the red flag, that will keep this incident always in your mind and you will try later on to reason things that your husband would do with/without his intention and associate it with this incident.
Maybe your husband put it in his pants to avoid a situation where he got embarrassed with what that lady did and see? He even forgot about it, I don't think that he would keep such a thing in his pants if his intentions were to really add her.
He is not looking for trouble indeed, to keep such a thing with him knowing that you would wash his clothes and find something like that.
Just try talking to him, play like you were surprised to find this there and what could it be. Don't start such a talk while you are upset with him or over something else, choose the right time and maybe you can ask for his help with your laundry and find a way from there to pull this note out.
Best Regards ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
om Maui....
Plz dont terminate the thread, were will the poor Hijakers go ?? :(
hi mj, no worries about the hijack. i was done with the subject anyway :) in fact, i want to terminate this thread, but there appears to be no option to do that.
hi mj, no worries about the hijack. i was done with the subject anyway :) in fact, i want to terminate this thread, but there appears to be no option to do that.
om Maui, im glad you know the right thing to do.. apologies for the hijackers...
don't get yourself exhausted wondering about those ladies throwing themselves to a nearest guy they could find.. instead have a talk with your husband, and ask him about it.. would save all the troubles you got there in your mind.. :)
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
MJ is right Pajju you bloddy Hijacker ;)
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MJ :)
Kindly check above...:(
I hav already WARNED b4 tat this topic's gonna HiJACK..:(
as usual chillin out :)
yeah right pajju :/ sorry om Maui...
ur wrong :)
when i woke up today i thought it would be raining outside or atleast the weather would be pleasant. :( so how are u doing today pajju
as usual the topic was hijacked,.. why am i not surprised?...
hi man wats up ?
sonam thats wat i meant:) chillu is ma GF :P
topic was about flirts how come converted?
but chillu is not invited right ?
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No Rizks one young mallu gal :)
lol Pajju....
Who is it ? Mohanlal ...:)
lol u guys ... ah i heard just now obama invited a mallu for his sworning ceremony :))
you really dont know waht is mean by chillu .
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oooooooooohhhhh okay, now i get it. now i even understand chillu more than before
yes Rania am with u even i also dunno wat is mallu , guys lets talk abt ToraBora? :)
Mallu = Malabari
Malabari = Big tummy with Tons of Coconut oil in thier Head = Pajju ..:)
We call mallu who is from (Kerala-Lebanon,),,
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dont say stuff i dont understand :(
pajju the boss is always watching us :)))
Rizks , sorry i dunno :)
EXPALIN SOME ONE WHAT IS MALLU ????
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Pajju.....
Can u plz explain wat is Mallu ?? :)
Sorry boss for the hijack...:)
grrrrr i thin boss is watchin us :)) lolz
what's mallu?
Yea Start Mallu lession ;)
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lol Rania....
K lets start the Mallu lesson now...:)
ok ok enuff nepali lessons for today..
ah sonam , in ur dream :)
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why blame the girl?
why did your husband accept the note and keep it?
is he not happy to say, 'Thank you - but I am happily married'....
plently of married men shamelessly look for girls ....
i doubt many girls have to go round 'slipping notes'...
babu mean lamer :))
BaBu means bluffer....:)
j/k...
I guess it means brother of all the girls...:)
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wats babu
Sonam - The Nepali Babu.... great signature...:)
i hate redbull. well not all of the time :)
Reb bull with bobkorn
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lol Rania.....
He will look like a Scare Crow which we put in the fields...:)
Its good for all...she dont ahve to worry abot her husband, and the next girl get like me cute guy ;) Me... ;)
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yes a new cut guy, like sonam. head cut
huh bebsi no good...
Hav RedBull, Rania ... Instant Energy Drink ...:)
.lol, cut it out............the tempura, lol
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.i think skanky's idea is genius.
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CUT GUY ??
Wat do u mean by tat ? Head and Legs cut ?? :)
have bebsi :)
Pajju n Sonam is here...:(
Get ready for the Hijack....:(
Now were is UKENg ...:)
belcome :)
i dont know why i always get punished :(((
another pervet....:( Sonam :(
you can give her email id to mee. I am cute guy too ;)
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Sonam....
huh, we were missin U n ur valuable comments...:)
sonaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam hellooooooooooooooooooooooo :P
Rania ,, punishment ? hah now i remember :) anyway dunt pass to me :P
Murning Muring ;)
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skanky, thanks but no thanks. i'm not giving her more attention that i already did!
Rizks .. huh legs up :)
ok Rania.....
pass tat punishment to Pajju...:)
lol Rizks ure twisted buddy... plus u cannot punish me, i have enuff punishments from DaRude, so ill pass :PP
Do something fun, Get the pink note and give to another guy in Doha... This time you can pick up anyone for her...
Maybe you will act like cupido or make her feel the pain for a while.
The Venezuelan Sensation!!!
lol DaRuDe Rania....
Well tatz a punishment...:)
Rania i told u keep ur legs up so tat u can stand on ur hands...:)
morning.. im from colombia
Rania where are you from morning
lollll how will i stand with legs up???? lolll
you nasty why legs up :/
Rania....
Ur late ..:( now stand in tat corner with ur legs up..:)
Jackfrost, i never handed a man my ID, i beg your pardon! that would be too cheap....
i will speak to him about it, thanks to your crystal ball.
hi Rania :)
ur e mail id plz ... lolz :)))
whats up here
Let me look into my crystal ball.,, ar Yes… I see you had also handed a man your ID in the past, which started a wonderful relationship. Now the odds are turned. What a crooked road we walk. You will not loose him if you confront him about this. Confirm the hand writing…..
It is always the lost that need my guidance
were ? loca plz :P
i threw the note away, never to be seen again!
lolz , i dunt like to share :))
i can only sigh.... lol
Pajju.....
If u get tat id plz PM me too ...:)
it was from a girl - it would be worse if it was from a guy!!!!
stop it, wait for your turn. she will come around. with a red note...oooohhh
anyway wats the e mail id of that gal ? :) can u PM me :PP
jackmohan, i didn't understand the second point. and my hubby is a computer freak.
thanks lhett for sharing that story about your friend. i find it hard to relate, coz my hubby am sure does his best to not stimulate in me any jealous feelings, coz that really gets him into miserable state LOL (i make sure, LOL). so i dont know he will do something like that. i really think that a lady came onto him and gave him her IM address so she could get to know him more.
now whether my hubby actually added her, and chatted/chatting with her is not under my control. i just trust him that he won't do anything stupid to ruin our relationship. we have a good thing going, and we are very much into each other.
for those who don't remember, we just lost our 7 year old daughter last November, so we are going through a lot, in different ways. but i am my husband's best friend, besides being his wife, so he turns to me in most things. he is just not the cheating type.
that's why i keep saying here, i was a bit off with the other lady hunting my man, when she should get one for her own. that's all.
om Maui...if your husband had to get the id in writing then you can relax.
1. Your hubby is not computer savvy...so even if he has the id he wouldn't be able to successfully contact her.
2. Usually its the other way around. The sender sendes the request through email or chat friendster/fb/orkut and then the other person (your hubby) adds them.
I will share something w/u om Maui, i have this friend of mine, she thinks her hubby is not the same before in a way of always calling her to see what shes doin (caring) & he even let her wifey to go to frends party by herself! he doesnt care if she can go & flirt at the party!...So, she think of something to get her hub attention back by making a note that will looks like someone had admired her, following of flowers then voilla! her hubby becomes so much romantic w/her :)
THE HARDER THE BETTER
dear om Maui
here is my Yahoo ID add me..
ha ha ha just joking...
FS..yeah she did.damn my memory, I had to follow what brit said, read it and swallow it..and I have to explain alot.....:)
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Anyone Can Die.
Khanan..did your wife see my love letter??? Damn you! LOL
Brit as you said...no one keeps a note in his/her pocket/purse unless he/she has any business with them or for future reference.
I think you should ask your CUTE hubby first..before discussing it here.
Victor..R u into IT management?????
HIT LIST and check her diligently @hotmail
Learn to accept the Threats as opportunity....
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May be your hubby wanted you to realise HOW Jealous you feel and how cute / important He is, check please
No Om you cann't be cool. you must ask your husband why he left that bs in his pocket. There is every chance that he is inclined towards her. You cann't keep quiet..so act..act now before its too late...
Chances are also that he maybe using some phremones(aphrodisiacs) like stuff to attract women. Its not easy for the married to get that pinky stufffff
Chill.... May be ur husband is missing ur care n love.. one of his tricks.. it myt be a fake id.. creating a kind of envy.. talk to him.. He just love u n missin u a lot... :) Give him the love and care he wont care for others at all.. !!!
thanks Brit
Good luck.. I'm sure your marriage will go from strength to strength with lots of happy memories for the future.
:)
so u gotta carry 2 flags in ur pocket...
Red one and the green one....
If something suspicious -raise the Red Flag...
If everything is normal - raise the Green ....:)
LOL! i'm over it already, and have been laughing about since this morning with all these posts. it's ok now, am cool. thanks!
red flag ???? u mean a proof .. to be used when its the right time. kidding !!
get over this , it happened
hi lhett, thanks for ur note. i was not thinking of injuring my marriage over a pink note with female IM address on it asking my hubby to add her as an IM buddy.
mine was indignation towards ladies who behave so cheaply.
as for Brit's post, i am going to keep that as a small red flag, awaiting to be proven wrong. or not.
reason to overeact, it could be his friend, colleague, etsetera so i agree with MALLEY..... its not good to judge ur husband jz bcoz u think the pink note is comes from a lady right GT! color pink doesnt signify of gender nor handwritten moreover this issue is not a solid ground to destroy ur relationship w/ur hubby
Brit, u got that right! she should ask her husband why keeping that note on his pocket **wink jz kiddin here, what i can say is CHILL OUT,
that's not what i meant, rizks. i meant to say he is always at home with me, and not on a candle lit dinner. sigh.
so u do watch each n every move of ur hubby with ur Timepiece...great !! :)
rizks, u can really come up with everything spicy! nah, my hubby is a homebody. he is home within half an hour after work.
hi nicaq, thanks for patronizing me :) yup, when i was single, i behaved well, and left the married ones alone. even the married ones who tried to flirt with me were like, BLOCKED. am just not a homewrecker. and i can only pray that there will be none to invade in our lives.
hope u dont get a white bill from some resturant for a candle light dinner for 2 - tomorrow..:)
j/k -- Cheerz !!
hi emad, thanks for trying to help, really it's cool.
abohmaid, thanks for the offer, but i ain't conspiring with you to spy. am not into that. it's ok. she can flirt all she likes. i trust my hubby on that. am cool. let her flirt. heck, he can flirt too. i trust that my husband values our relationship and will not do anything to ruin what we have.
as for keeping the note, i really don't know why he kept it. but am gonna leave it that for now.
.im super behave ms. nicaq, lol......
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I agree what you said om Maui, 'why not leave the husbands alone w/ their wives'. I bet there are bunch of single men out there, why flirt to married men! you single women, behave yourselves.
unless u see it again, then u can confront ur hubby! Expect he will deny it and not even know it's there. Forget it totally and u'll feel okay!
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
pm me the email
i will ceck what is going on
then come back to u
.he is'nt finish taking note of the address, that's why he could not ditch it.....
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where u'v been?
If ur hubby is not interested or didn't given a damn , why did he keep it in his pocket?Probably did not find a dustbin near by....
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.that lady could be his cousin?..........
.a fan? bec ur hushband is cute.....
Why nobody is sending me pink notes. Why am I only getting blue, green, yellow and red notes. why why why.....???
Can any one drop me pink note please.......!
Peace.
I was trying to help really.. 8-|
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Well, its simple . since u found this note on his pocket, i would say , why dont u too do it. keep a note sayin '' my number is blah blah blah'' . and let ur hubby find it out.
U guys gotta talk and get the whole thing straight!
lol, emad, not his handwriting. and it's a lady's name on the email address.
forget it, am over it already. had a good laugh at the posts today though.
now that's another twist to her saga... lmao!!!
hey this note might be ur husband's who tends to give to some ladies around.. :) the email address might be a secret email of his.. ;)
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gee thanks guys. one thing not understood by men, is that females just wanna discuss about things, exchange insights, not as a problem to be solved.
ksarat, i was asking for insights, not solutions. anyway, i hear you guys out, and am grateful for sharing your thoughts.
i do trust my man. i was just a bit off that ladies nowadays pull cheap stunts like that, and not behave themselves and leave the married men alone. anyhow, like cdpascual said, these are perks for being married to a hearthrob.
right& left side "where cheaters" looking at
where where where!
"Build bridges instead of walls and you will find a friend..."
I don't think "Cheaters" exists in Doha... I liked watching that though... helped me to be more careful... lol!!!
That must have been a reply of the overturns made by your so called cute huby. Take the help of Cheaters.
"Build bridges instead of walls and you will find a friend..."
lola .. hotmail id ? yahoo id ? i dunno abt that i neva chat on yahoo hotmail :)
I'd say knock your man on the head for being so careless and leaving the note in there... now what happens? you're freaking out and posting on here and yadda yadda yadda.... or maybe he did that himself coz he wants you to take the mickey outta you...
ohh Arien....
dont worry he is around, just waiting someone to call him and he from no were will jump in with his coconut head....:)
lol.. rizkz/ where the heck is this guy today??
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don't blame society, it's not your husband's fault either if he's cute. that's only perks of marrying cute wives or husbands. just trust your man.otherwise, talk to him.
" I was born intelligent, but education ruined me..."
lol Arien....
and what great will our frnd Pajju will do ?
He will think its bubble gum and gulp it....:)
Its height of innocence from your hubby to keep the pink slip in his pocket, now dont jump in to conclusions and issue him a pink slip.
Easy and talk to him you found it and is worried..Good luck
If you dont mind PM that email id to poor pajju too. :)
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blame flirt ladies (r u sure is it ladies?)
go & get the pink note then chat in a diplomatic wayz.
also in a second thought maybe its only a dummy just to freaking you out.
"Build bridges instead of walls and you will find a friend..."
lol brite.....
so TRUE...:) infact i eat dry fruits daily to make my memory strong for all this miscelleanous things ...:)
Brite..you cracked me up....
guys hate it when girls nag them... so, better take the good advice of talking it out with him to let him know you're aware of it... take things lightly and show your husband the humorous side of the pink slip, and it's a way of telling him too that you're not taking him for granted ;)
Like Mrs Khanan, Mrs Expat wouldn't be very understanding to say the least.
If some female "gave me their telephone number / email contact", then I would make damn sure that it wasn't in my pocket when I got home, unless I was considering perhaps taking up their offer.
Even then, I would probably memorize the contents, tear up the note and swallow the pieces before I got home..
my gal also tells me i am "Cute"....:)
But till now no pink/yellow/golden notes found in my pocket ??
except for some blank calls on my damn mobile...:(
i agree with GT, just ask him straight...simple right?...
why don't you also put some notes on your husband pocket and write that this lady was married four times and got 8 kids, for sure your husband will lost his interest in flirting with her..
How do you know he is cute??? Can I flirt with him too???
kidding, hey believe me thats normal, we always will be hit by one. Girl or boy, but if you trust him forget about it. actually did he use chats??? does he have the same platform like yahoo, gmail or hotmail as the address on the paper???
Venezuelan Sensation!!!
How do you know he is cute??? Can I flirt with him too???
kidding, hey believe me thats normal, we always will be hit by one. Girl or boy, but if you trust him forget about it. actually did he use chats??? does he have the same platform like yahoo, gmail or hotmail as the address on the paper???
Venezuelan Sensation!!!
at least you can do a favor on her giving her more friends but adding her IM add to your topic. and she will have alot of friends from QL.
I will keep a similar note in my pocket. My wife is just crossing the limits in taking me for granted..huh..
tu tu tu tu tu so sorry
I mean seriously, you wrote this thread for what, to see what others say about what you should do when you find a slip in your "cute" husband's pocket or to advertise that your husband is "cute" or lets say, to let everyone know that this is a bad society...
Look at this girl, it just cant be possible that a girl comes in and slips a note into your pocket and you freaking dont know about it...I aint saying your husband is cheating on you, noo noo, he must be a good man for all that I know, but rather than screaming out here about the society and making it tough for others to start believing in the society dont you think its wise enough to have a word with your hubby on this, and take the humour out of it rather than shout your lungs out...
This is why I say, for the sake of posting dont post and create agony on QL girl...nobody can freaking answer this question of yours or the situation you are in...other than Yourself or your Husband!!!
Cheers!
greentea, thanks for that suggestion, but what does seeing her photo have to do with freaking out, i wonder? whether she's pretty or not is not a threat. i've seen unfortunate looking ladies flirt around with men, and it still works.
make a thorough investigation first before jumping into any conclusions, best thing you can do..
a month ago i got one slip from my car wiper , add me on this id .. it was ICQ id
Brit just gave me a chill run up my spine. so if men keep such notes in their pockets, is this a red flag that means he's interested to flirt along?
om Maui, take note of the e-add and check in the FB or friendster, chances are you'll find her photo there, so you'll have idea if you should freak out or not :D)
lol Khanan.....
U r right bro, Guyz are alwayz innocent- these galz really cant understand :(
lol brit, you're not by any chance fanning the flames are you... in this case, it's still smokes i think,... do what u think is right..everything will be fine :)
brit , you said it.
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you need to speak to Mrs.Khanan then...
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What you should be asking is "why your husband still has the note in his pocket"
if u feel very confident about your relationship and you trust him that much, try and talk it over with him.. after all relationships are about open-mindedness and trust right? ;)
Om Maui just chilll n speak wd ur Hubby ...but i believe that if he tells u dis all its much betta...n e ways just chill n dis happens....ma hubby keeps tellin me all those stuffs happenin wd him n its okay...As a wife u do get a lill tensed n Jealous but try 2 understand ur Man is just urs n dez chicks do dat...so Relax :)
effect you relationship with your husband - just tell him you found the note and it didnt feel good. It was just a chat site - benefit of doubt - maybe she just wanted to chat as a friend. Your relationship cant be threatened by this!