who said that crap about stay children do better when their parents stay at home?!! That didn't help effin Ted Bundy or Jeffery bloody Dahmer did it?? They had stay at home parents!!
I don't have maid we cannot sponsor same nationality my kids used to stay in a friend's house who is not working is it clear now? As I said it is just time management
21st Century woman has many added engagements which their predecessor never had. Add to this, office jobs are no more 9 to 5. No woman can do justice to family and office at the same time. It is tough to handle office politics and keep your cool at home. One tends to take their anxiety home. Unless a woman feels she is incomplete without a job she should opt for staying at home.
but after i had my 1st child i settled as a fulltime housewife and mother...now ive got 2 kids. my hands are tied and always busy at home. being a fulltime housewife and mother is the type of "career" wherein you don't get paid, no days off, no vacation or sick leaves, no overtime pay and no resignation...but pls don't condemn me for i am happy personally attending to the needs of my husband and kids...so for me, hats off to fulltime housewives and moms!!!
Im a glorified home maker, housewife, fulltime mommy.. whatever you call it ,ITS NEVER EASY. Im on call 24/7, i do multi tasking, highly domesticated, disciplinarian, and a wife all at the same time.. can you do that?
even if its been like that I still manage to have time for myself, its important i guess.. I should love myself in order to give love to others (my family and friends)
Definatly need two wives.... the career wife to go and earn the dosh so that I can stay at home and relax and the perfect dolly bird housewife to look after me at home whilst the careear wife is doing her bit.
I work all the day, cook my food after office hours as i cannot eat from outside every time, clean my apartment on weekends. What kind of wife i need?.
the important issue is to limit the negative consequences to minimum because definitely, there are negative consequences whatever the decision might be.
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
Women really must be kept at home where they can clean, cook and bring up their bratts. Its as simple as that. Yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Another pearl od wisdmom off my chest so its Gin time! Hic Oh and goodmorning Alexa and supernurse - have u whipped your maids yet this morning?
Ah Flan careful what you wish for, its not as easy as it sounds, you will still have a job, except your hours will be 7-approx 8pm from 8pm until 7am it will be on-call(and trust me you will be wroking lots during the on-cal hours), only difference is you will have an unpaid job, still wanna do it lol ;-)
my girls out wage their hubbies right now and the boys (3 of them)are at home taking care of babies and going to grad school& working out of the house...This is not an uncommon occurrence in our neck of the woods.... things are looking up girls!!!
Housewife or career? If a woman chooses a career does that mean that when she comes home, her duties have stopped. Theres still things to be done, so infact a career woman is still doing both, unlike some men who when they arrive home, they sit their azz on the couch and call it a day.
Despite the fact that some men think being a housewife is a long "holiday", its a 24/7 job, just one thing missing is the wage.
For the 21st century i think its time we had house husbands...
applaud to you amoud... i myself try to do both, but in my case, as a careerwoman and a mother... im outta here in few minutes,... catch u all tomorrow!
Hmm, I will now answer the question at hand. Both... but not in the conventional way. I have my career and brought a housemaid to keep the house in order. I get home, don my cute wife clothes, get the kiddies straightened out and cook a meal and I am the domestic godess !!!
"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Better be careful, the wives might gang up on you and the next all us here in QL would see is Brit posting a forum like "Expats body found on Al Khor beach, wives expected of foul play"
"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
What wife MJ?? hehehehehe.. but if think about it.. a superwoman will suffice for me. Imagining taking care of the family at the same time having a career.. HHmm.... I salute all those working mom!!!!!
Often married women have to be both due to financial needs..being an at home mom/wife is now becoming a luxury Lucky for any woman who has the choice!!
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who said that crap about stay children do better when their parents stay at home?!! That didn't help effin Ted Bundy or Jeffery bloody Dahmer did it?? They had stay at home parents!!
I don't have maid we cannot sponsor same nationality my kids used to stay in a friend's house who is not working is it clear now? As I said it is just time management
a women can do both. career and a take care of the house. That's make a women a unique specie
21st Century woman has many added engagements which their predecessor never had. Add to this, office jobs are no more 9 to 5. No woman can do justice to family and office at the same time. It is tough to handle office politics and keep your cool at home. One tends to take their anxiety home. Unless a woman feels she is incomplete without a job she should opt for staying at home.
I suspect that you have MAIDS! How arrogant and lazy can a woman be!
Yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee BAN MAIDS MAKE IDLE EXPATS WORK!!!!!
got 2 kids and easy to manage just time management. Love your job both that is called working mom >>>>>SUPERWOMAN here with you1
i want to enjoy the best of both world..
Children who are taken care by their parents usually shine in the future. Mother has a role to play as well as the father.
but after i had my 1st child i settled as a fulltime housewife and mother...now ive got 2 kids. my hands are tied and always busy at home. being a fulltime housewife and mother is the type of "career" wherein you don't get paid, no days off, no vacation or sick leaves, no overtime pay and no resignation...but pls don't condemn me for i am happy personally attending to the needs of my husband and kids...so for me, hats off to fulltime housewives and moms!!!
thank u for the posts.. i just realized that being a housewife is a career indeed...*wink:p
i just want to be a good wife and a good mother..
thanks, pieman.... i will try to...
thaks blue nails
Smile mj, there's always someone worse off than you.
just eat another pie
Pieman, i admire guys who can really do housechores.. your one of a kind! have great weekend everyone!!
am I? nah,.. just trying to cheer myself up,.. been kinda down lately..
pieman, mjamille definitively is in a weekend mood.
oooppps,..sorry bout that..... let me clean it up for you!!
Dear everyone,
for the record, pieman did not have a sex change,... it was somebody else, but im not telling who....
how's that?
lol mj.........
you trying to destroy my reputation before I've even made my reputation
just eat another pie
cheers to that!!!!
c'mon md, I did say I was a single father.
Just substitute all the wife references in blue nails post with husband.
Having said that, I did at times feel like I would make someone a good wife, with the exeption of THAT... hahaha
just eat another pie
he had sex change, MD... lol
you were a "wife" pieman. How that?
oh yeah,....got to work on that one soon...
blue nails.................
the answer is yes I can do that. I had to do it as a single father for quite a while holding down an overseas job.
just eat another pie
"and a wife"
hmm... wonder what's missing? ;)
at present? Not all of it.
hmm, what do you think? ;)
all of it, mj??
hmm, i think im doing that already,...
Pieman can never be a "wife", blue nails. What a silly question.
lol Pieman...
Im a glorified home maker, housewife, fulltime mommy.. whatever you call it ,ITS NEVER EASY. Im on call 24/7, i do multi tasking, highly domesticated, disciplinarian, and a wife all at the same time.. can you do that?
even if its been like that I still manage to have time for myself, its important i guess.. I should love myself in order to give love to others (my family and friends)
Definatly need two wives.... the career wife to go and earn the dosh so that I can stay at home and relax and the perfect dolly bird housewife to look after me at home whilst the careear wife is doing her bit.
Bliss
just eat another pie
House wife is outdated term.......now it calls HOME MAKER!!!!!
DAY WITHOUT LAUGHTER IS A WASTED DAY!..........
Combination of both would save expenses :-P
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
(Tasweer shahkaar wo lakhon main bik gai ...
bacha jis main bagair roti k udaas hai)
:-). No the choice is between house wife and care free wife only.
Adnan.. what you need is a maid dude
I work all the day, cook my food after office hours as i cannot eat from outside every time, clean my apartment on weekends. What kind of wife i need?.
OMG - I met a few slappers in my time who were into that! yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeI say! Doubles coming up! Hic
the important issue is to limit the negative consequences to minimum because definitely, there are negative consequences whatever the decision might be.
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
So its basically for money and pleasure only for you Arien??
Housewife with a rich dad!!!!!!!!!!!
or
Career woman with no night duties!!!!!!!!
marhabtain....not yet...but the day is young!!...
HUH
Women really must be kept at home where they can clean, cook and bring up their bratts. Its as simple as that. Yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Another pearl od wisdmom off my chest so its Gin time! Hic Oh and goodmorning Alexa and supernurse - have u whipped your maids yet this morning?
Alik...wat ur saying is very true ...a working mom can hardly give some tym to kids....The kids keep on complaining...:(
HHmmm..... Still If I can have both, why not... but I think I like the idea of housedad more..
Cheers mate
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
kids are a full time job after marriage..
and no one can be at 2 places at the same time.
How soon can you start??
lol Flan, then your qualified ;-)
lol...well i think both....:)
no prob nadt, i'm working similar hours now.......and cleaning up other peoples sh!t already.
Ah Flan careful what you wish for, its not as easy as it sounds, you will still have a job, except your hours will be 7-approx 8pm from 8pm until 7am it will be on-call(and trust me you will be wroking lots during the on-cal hours), only difference is you will have an unpaid job, still wanna do it lol ;-)
my girls out wage their hubbies right now and the boys (3 of them)are at home taking care of babies and going to grad school& working out of the house...This is not an uncommon occurrence in our neck of the woods.... things are looking up girls!!!
really nadt?? so i just gotta find a woman and child and i can quit my job.....sweeeeet!
Flan its more common than you think, i know a few housedads and they do a great job, some even better than some women.
i'd gladly be a housedad if it was socially acceptable. society's to blame :(
Housewife or career? If a woman chooses a career does that mean that when she comes home, her duties have stopped. Theres still things to be done, so infact a career woman is still doing both, unlike some men who when they arrive home, they sit their azz on the couch and call it a day.
Despite the fact that some men think being a housewife is a long "holiday", its a 24/7 job, just one thing missing is the wage.
For the 21st century i think its time we had house husbands...
I reckon if you're a hotwifematerial you won't be able to stay put at home and just do chores!!
Oops! Word vomit!
either one is hard! try mixing the two!!
Got to go in a bit guys.
Seeyaa....
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
Y o u bow down, brutus???
I bow down to the goddes of the housewife??(hhmm... is that right??)
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
psst, brutus. Amoud is a "goddess". You would have to "worship" her.
Nah... I'm not scared... (hmmm... but the thought of being gang up by wives gives me hhhmmm... yaikksss)
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
applaud to you amoud... i myself try to do both, but in my case, as a careerwoman and a mother... im outta here in few minutes,... catch u all tomorrow!
lol... I need say no more :)
Hmm, I will now answer the question at hand. Both... but not in the conventional way. I have my career and brought a housemaid to keep the house in order. I get home, don my cute wife clothes, get the kiddies straightened out and cook a meal and I am the domestic godess !!!
"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
lol MD..... now, now brutus, just whistle a happy tune... lol
See how frightened he is now, amoud.
hmm, brutus gone timid? you're not scared are you? lol
You are definitely right MD.. so we better be careful then eh??
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
LOL Amoud.... (hhhmmm... time to stay at the corner now)
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
Better be careful, the wives might gang up on you and the next all us here in QL would see is Brit posting a forum like "Expats body found on Al Khor beach, wives expected of foul play"
"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
cute huh?...
These kinda women like easy and cute guys. I'm talking from experience. Just don't get used to it.
hmm you're really enthusiastic about it huh, brutus...lol
HHHMM.... ok then MD.. I will stick with a careerwoman then.. hehehehe... (hhmmmm... but still thinking.. it is feasible)
Cheer matey
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
you heard it brutus,... behave now!
The tread is clear, either this one or that one. "housewife versus career woman"). Forget your wild fantasies, brutus.
lol brutus,...get 2 wives,... now!!!!
MJ SSSShhhhhhhh.... hehehehehe....
Cheers
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
Yea MD... HHmm....
What if the first wife agrees to a second wife.. that will make my life damm hard. hehehehe.. better to stick with first wife then..
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
lol MD.... hmm brutus, wonder what your other half would say to that?
easy, convert to Islam. (Religion again. I better quit this thread, too).
lol brutus....
If she does not want a big family can I have another wife?? So that I can have a career woman and housewife?? What do you guys think??
Cheers
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
you're right MD...
hey brutus, go find one now!!! hehehe
LOL MD....
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
Found one MJ but she prefer her career, rather taking care of the 7 kids...
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
mj, you should have written (eh, posted) "go find one, now!!"
lol brutus, go find one now....
Lol this thread inspire me to marry 5 wife.Carrier,kitchen......
"Drink Beer Save Water"
I like career women. They are so fascinating. You always feel very precious as long as they stay with you.
What wife MJ?? hehehehehe.. but if think about it.. a superwoman will suffice for me. Imagining taking care of the family at the same time having a career.. HHmm.... I salute all those working mom!!!!!
Cheers
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
Career , so you can bring in some money for my beer..and Housewife so you can cook my food and iron my shirts.
lol brutus, you'd have to ask your wife.... ;)
Nah... MJ... I wish to have 7 kids... I like to have a big family.. So can I have both a career woman and housewife??
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
ay brutus, you got 7 kids? you've been busy!
I prefer career woman, (hhhmmm...... then again who will take care of my 7 kids)
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
im not in that stage yet,....not even a housewife yet...
WHY?????
imagine even if you are a "desperate house wife".
hmm, even if given a choice, i would still choose to have a career,.... but then again, we all have different opinions on this im sure... :)
Housewife is one of my least favorite words in the English language.
Often married women have to be both due to financial needs..being an at home mom/wife is now becoming a luxury Lucky for any woman who has the choice!!
good for you enana,... hmm, now where's my superman?
both of them, and "Superman" by my side
thanks, MD..... ;)
yeah, abu, it's mj, not MG. MG is a British car.
it's mj, abu,.... :)
yeah MD....
i agree with mg,even eith a career,be a model housewife.
That would be a "Super Woman". Probably requires a "Super Man", too.
One house and one Career wife as mj said have the best of both worlds............
i'd say, we can have the best of both worlds,... establish a career and at the same time still be a model housewife.....
I prefer...careerwife!