How important is marriage to you?
By mariam-mar •
Rules for a Happy Marriage
1.Never both be angry at the same time.
2.Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
3.If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
4.If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
5.Never bring up mistakes of the past.
6.Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
7.Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
8.At least once everyday, try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life's partner.
9.When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.
10.It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.
I Don't believe
yes i agree! in my experience, my marriage & my family is the best gift that god has given me.
A SPANISH Teacher was explaining to her class that in Spanish, unlike English, nouns are designated as either masculine or feminine.
'House' for instance, is feminine: 'la casa.'
'Pencil,' however, is masculine: 'el lapiz.'
A student asked, 'What gender is 'computer'?'
Instead of giving the answer, the teacher split the class into two groups, male and female, and asked them to decide for themselves whether 'computer' should be a masculine or a feminine noun.
Each group was asked to give four reasons for its recommendation.
The men's group decided that 'computer' should definitely be of the feminine gender ('la computadora'), because:
1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic;
2. The native language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else;
3. Even the smallest mistakes are stored in long term memory for possible later retrieval; and
4. As soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending half your monthly wage on accessories for it.
The women's group, however, concluded that computers should be Masculine: 'el computador', because:
1. In order to do anything with them, you have to turn them on;
2. They have a lot of data but still can't think for themselves;
3. They are supposed to help you solve problems, but half the time they ARE the problem; and
4. As soon as you commit to one, you realize that if you had waited a little longer, you could have got a better model.
The women won.
There is one "RULE" that you forgot to include in your list to have a happy marriage and this should be the number 1 in the list.
1. Make GOD the center of your Marriage!!!!
Marriage is a contract, it grants equal rights for both parties based on the applicable terms & conditions.
Any disputes should be settled through the stipulated framework. There is never a HAPPY marriage, but, there can be a SUCCESSFUL marriage.
A successful marriage is possible through understanding and honoring each party's commitments. The failure from many marriages is in most cases due to lack of understanding and honoring the commitments. Today if you were to ask many married couples as to what are their contractual obligations many may not even know what to answer.
My humble advise to the married ones & those planning to get into it is, please read and understand the applicable terms & condition, print a copy of those & keep them very close to you and review them from time to time. Marriage contacts are indefinate in nature, they need to be closely monitored, the best way to monitor or manage any ccontract is through performance indicators, establish what should the PI for each party and commit yourselves to managing them; reward best performance and jointly correct and improve poor performance or take poor performance as an opportunity and finaly celebrate success.
WISH YOU ALL A HAPPY MARRIAGE
what a Romantic relationship GOD has created.
Marriage is a true essence of life.
so get married immediately:P
come on marriage is a license to have sex with your partner... uhhh
Whose marriage r we talking about ? LOL...
who want to be happy must give and always think to give more...
ALL THE OUTLINED 10 POINTS ARE FINE, BUT HOW FAR ARE THEY GOING TO BE PRACTICAL IN LIFE?
when u fight remember Dr phils famous saying : would u rather be RIGHT or HAPPY??????
Dear A A
Marriage is essential for the need of needs internal and external both. Allah has made male and female of every creature and because of the combination this universe is beautiful and able to live.Rules which you have mentioned are right for good marriage life.
take care be happy and mirth happiness in the world.
asad
Never betray your spouse....