Unfaithful: HR
Now, I am planning to send a complaint directly to the HR of "her" company so that it can do something about her. Asking a wife how many times she "comes" in bed was so insulting and below the belt. You were wrong to say that you will return my property and turned back off. Until now, I love my half so much that I cannot name him, of course. But Im asking you to help me find justice. I got pregnant and all .... and they two were still very much involved. No conscience. No dignity. "How dare you girl for saying that my child is an accident." When I was in the delivery room that girl was still calling him. That really hurts. Please, if anyone of you knows the email ad of the hr of these companies, please let me know. She's working in one of these. You can send me a private message if you want.
Thanks.
Names deleted by Mods. This is a personal issue and shouldn'tbe raised on an open forum
This IS a personal issue
And unless Ms. BROKEN will continue to blog HER DILEMNA to the very end (of course to the amusement of everyone here in QL)here...go ahead.
Coz whatever we (QLers) will write/advise, AT THE END OF THE DAY, the decision would be SOLELY yours...
PEACE...and OUT!!!!
will anyone try and correct the fonts..it's hurting my eyes.
I'm sure it's not my post who did this...
added just noW : THANK YOU ;-)
Mine are like this also but only on this thread
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
You see girl...you're writing/typing/posting (whatever) EVERYTHING you feel and think right now...COZ YOU'RE HURTING?
Honey, this is NOT a BLOG site. This is a public web forum and if you don't realize this, DOHA, QATAR is a small place where everyone practically knows everyone. And to think you mentioned OFWs. that would narrow that the search, would it?
I'm not being HARD on you girl...but since you say you're a SCHOLAR...THINK with your HEAD...
Got loads to say but I don't wanna be like a self-righteous BIOTCH on you...and spilling your guts on line, the "other girl" might have read this and laughing herself silly coz she affected you like THIS.
Chin up GIRL...and GET A GRIP OF YOURSELF!!!
if you think you're a better person that this (other) girl...then PROVE IT...and be not this WHINEY PERSON we're (all) reading now...
LMAO
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Chapter 4 (in 2 weeks time) - "I am now very sorry I landed him in jail."
/Edit - Chapter 4 - " I am now in jail because I followed Lorena Bobbit's advice"
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
how about
Chapter 3: I called Lorena Bobbit for advice
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
chapter 3: :( my husband is in jail!
Chapter 2 : HR...and the plot thickens :-(
What would Chapter 3 title would be?
i never thought this is you. i saw her as you requested. and honestly, im not saying this bcoz u are my friend but this is the truth. she's nothing. she's not the kind of girl who can take your husband away from you. please, you are beautiful and so smart. please dont allow your anger to control you. i talked to him. he was in tears when he told me how much he loves you and everything was a fling and he regrets it so much.i beleive him. he loves you so much nad i know you still love him thats why you are in pain. but giving him another chance is giving yourself another chance. please stop this. this is not you. if what you want is those things we can get it legally. not this way pretty. i will call you tomorrow promise.
Broken, get a grip! Don't act purely on your emotions.
You have already been given good advice and people empathize and support you. But we more or less said plan your strategy, not blindly air your dirty laundry. There are always 2 sides to any story and you may be biased. You need to take a step back and calm down and think rationally.
Talk in private to someone you trust to work things out in your mind. This is a public forum and no place to discuss private matters. It WILL backfire on you.
Suggest you talk to dmighty solomon if you need to. He and his wife might be a helpful sounding board or any of the others on that married for umpteenth years thread, I dunno where it is now cos no time to search.
BUT do this ranting and raving in PRIVATE. I understand that you're pregnant? ... so you might have PNB, etc. Take care.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
Duh...which Property?
Girl.... Bobbit your man....not the girl!
mmm My bro have had right :)
and thats of that girl go get it
we have also Dr. Phil(s) here...LOL!
"I do live by the motto that pessimists are usually right, but all the great change in history was done by optimists" -Thomas Friedman
i can read you should try to read that too its about
All you need to know about Qatar
NOT all you need to know about relationships in Qatar :/
i juuuuuuuust dont get this
whats this damn site for :/
some heart break stories or love making website :/
you're now at the crossroads. You should decide which way your heading. Hope you're heeding these advices.
"I do live by the motto that pessimists are usually right, but all the great change in history was done by optimists" -Thomas Friedman
Marriage is a long path that needs two to walk it together, it seems your husband does not care to walk the path .. have you lost hope?
Have you spoken to him?
Is revenge your only option?
Taking the sort of actions you are speaking about means every one gets hurt and end of the relation with no hope of remedy .. are you ready for this?
I feel you need to reflect on the issue with your self, decide on your course of action and then go with your plans knowing you will not live to regret your actions.
"The best way to predict the future is to create it".
:? strange story!
All this will do is get your husband thrown into jail...if that's what you want go for it.
Also, what will an HR department do to make your situation better, order her to stop seeing your husband? All she has to do is deny it, and who is to say you are really his wife? This is not going to work Broken.
This is between you and your husband, perhaps you should take as much initiative to get him to keep his willy in his pants.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Broken---you need to STOP---this is neither the time nor the place. (A PUBLIC FORUM!!!)
You're angry and you need to get your act together.
Don't name anyone. This is your business. Don't do it.
You need to be smart about this.
Broken, why don't you name her im sure people on this website will know her and that way she will be ashamed of her actions but also your husband needs to be dealt with find out why he cheated, if you're going to try and work things out you need to forgive and forget to get through it otherwise it will eat you up inside my friend believe me, but sending anything to her place of work will not do anything as it is not their concern, sorry
compose yourself...
"I do live by the motto that pessimists are usually right, but all the great change in history was done by optimists" -Thomas Friedman
Definately NOT the way to achieve anything.This is a personal matter not an employment related issue.
Dirty laundry. Not the place for this ....
Did you Google it first?
Broken, this is not the way to go.... really.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"