Denials
WHAT SHE SAYS Versus WHAT SHE MEANS:
> She Says: "Its okay"
She Means: "You will regret this."
> She Says: "Sure, go ahead."
She Means: "I don't want you to."
> She Says: "I just want a stable future."
She Means: "I want to be rich."
> She Says: "You don’t know how to listen."
She Means: "Just follow what I want"
> She Says: "Do you still love me?"
She Means: "I need something "
> She Says: "How much do you love me?"
She Means: "I did something wrong"
> She Says: "Am I fat?"
She Means: "Tell me I am adorable"
> She Says: "I'll be ready in 5 minutes."
She Means: "I'll be ready in 1 hour."
> She Says: "Are you listening?"
She Means: "Just do what I want"
> WHAT HE SAYS Versus WHAT HE MEANS:
> He Says: "Do you want to eat?"
He Means: "I am hungry"
> He Says: "What's wrong?"
He Means: "oh no!., here we go again"
> WHILE SHOPPING:
> He Says: "It doesn’t look good on you"
He Means: "it is too expensive."
> He Says: "It really looks great on you, take it.."
He Means: "I am tired, I want to go home.."
understand you guys would we? Woman is the really this life greatest mystery :)
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
Ironically, same here... why we cannot always express directly what we really feel / want?
cant help it...but true... :D