One Bedroom Flat (Emotional Story)
Really good one!!
Dear Friends, very touching article. Enjoy reading
Every person those who r far away from their parents for jobs should have to read this heart touching Story.
ONE BEDROOM FLAT...
WRITTEN BY AN ENGINEER
A Bitter Reality
As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA, it was as if a dream had come true.
Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be staying in this country for about five years in which time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India.
My father was a government employee and after his retirement, the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat.
I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exchange rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.
Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter I was forced to select one candidate.
In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After the marriage, it was time to return to USA after giving some money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after them, we returned to USA.
My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week. Our savings started diminishing.
After two more years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked me to come to India so that they can see their grand-children.
Every year I decide to go to India But part work part monetary conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting India was a distant dream. Then suddenly one day I got a message that my parents were seriously sick. I tried but I couldn't get any holidays and thus could not go to India ... The next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there was no one to do the last rights the society members had done whatever they could. I was depressed. My parents had passed away without seeing their grand children.
After couple more years passed away, much to my children's dislike and my wife's joy we returned to India to settle down. I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the property prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the USA...
My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in India... My 2 children and I returned to USA after promising my wife I would be back for good after two years.
Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and my son was happy living in USA... I decided that had enough and wound-up everything and returned to India... I had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a well-developed locality.
Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is for the routine visit to the nearby temple. My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode.
Sometimes I wondered was it worth all this?
My father, even after staying in India, had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing more.
I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.
Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing. This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing their values and culture because of it. I get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright. Well at least they remember me.
Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who will be performing my last rights, God Bless them.
But the question still remains 'was all this worth it?'
I am still searching for an answer...... ......... ..!!!
START THINKING
IS IT JUST FOR ONE EXTRA BEDROOM???
LIFE IS BEYOND THIS DON'T JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE.
START LIVING IT.
LIVE IT AS YOU WANT IT TO BE
well, i have not seen the post before so, thank you very much for posting!!
and just ignore the haters on here. it is their choice to view something they have already seen but, to know they have read it again AND taken the time to make a negative comment really shows you what a waste of time they are :))
hope all is well with you :-)
Speed...thanks again...I am keeping good...:) Have a nice day ahead.
hope all is well with you :-)
hope all is well with you :-)
Speed...thanks...how are you??
i just read this post.. good one.
i come to contemplate that main reason why we work abroad is for the family and yet when crises comes that the family members needed us back home we cannot come due to some hindrances at work. What an irony in life.
agree with you..
To be honest.. I am reading this for the 1st time on QL :-)
rb73: Thank you for posting... there is a strong message in this story.
Yep, I'm on QL payroll happy. That's why I am behind your points even though I'm an older member :)
deepb...no problem with me ...carryon... may be you are one of those lucky ones who gets paid here for no work and so have lot of time at hand to get into such useless things...anyways...I am out of here, cant invest more than this of my time on this...:)
rb73...sorry man forgot the post in all this mess....TFS...I never read it before....nice read..:)
can anyone tell me, the victim is alive or dead in his two bedrooms flat?
If I see it I will object to it for Mod attention, Happy. It's upto the mods to take the final decision, whether the post needs to be deleted or whether I need to be warned for putting up my objection.
I do not see how I have insulted or mocked the OP, Nomad.
NOmad well said.. if u have read it or didnt like it you are always free to ignore it. Is it worth wasting commenting and cribbing on it.. huh come on peeps..
...and rule #10 says, if you are not interested in a topic or think someone is asking a silly question, just move onto another post instead of insulting or mocking them.
WK (as you dont run out of juice to be omnipresent on QL...:)...we have also seen the reaction of the posters here that every day there are several new people joining this site and hence such posts may be a first read for them so no harm in reposting.
deepb...since it is known that repeat posts keep appearing every now and then and as you were unable to object to any of them (due to the reasons mentioned by you) don't you think you shouldn't be objecting to this one too.
repeat post is not against the rule.
Good work dot.com
happy I am just guessing but an email going around for the past 15 years which has been posted at least 10 times on every web forum in the world which an Indian has access to is a bit more likely to get this repeat post comment.
Yes i was the 3rd to mention their.
happygolucky ----- i did the same job intentionally this morning.
Dot.com, I didn't see the post by jon of arc or drmana since I'm running a little short on juice for my omnipresence. Why didn't you correct them?
Happy, if you can show me where I have supported a repeat post before, then I can agree with your theory.
Dot.com...thats called "show me the face and I will show you the rule"...:)
Well said hislam "monopoly of the site"...quite evident...:)
Did someone mention this has been posted earlier
why i didn't heard the same sound yesterday in a thread reposted by Jon of Arc, and the same stuff were posted by drmana couple of weeks ago?
just ignore the post and let the mods do their job...geezz.
hislam, repeat post is against site rules. If the OP can't do a search for old posts of similar nature before posting, then he is inviting reply's of this nature.
hislam,
lol...no sir, next time i want to post something here, i will consult you first to make sure i will follow your standards ;)
Nic & S_isale I'm realy astonished with this monopoly of this site. You don't like it, don't read it. Do you have to judge each thread as per your own standard???????????!!!!!!!!!!!!
posted mutltiple times. MODS please drop this thread.
Lame and predictable!
This has been posted here many times before.