WE, that are away from home...
By bubbly1975 •
i dialled my home number...
my son picked up the phone and asked who was it...
"it's mommy son..."
he answered..."WRONG NUMBER"...
i don't know if this is even funny...
it was TOO MUCH for me to take that i just had to LAUGH...
uplift this unhappy mommy's spirits....anyone...
ash, i can call you to donate blood if in case DRACULA drains me of mine...
B+ hahahahaha
Bubbly - lol.. Ya you do... A in all the other tests ... :)
Even in Blood test ??
Mine goes with the attitude....
B +ve ... :)
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ASH, i know exactly what you mean...ONE AND THE SAME...LOL
got an F in the gender test, but the rest, definitely A's
LOLZ ASH...
Oh You are the same Bubbly who had posted this....
Now I know - Tht I knew you had scored a F in your gender test ...
How did I forget this... Damn...
No more illusions with this Avtar :)
If you remember wht I am talking about :)
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i wont be able to stop thanking everyone for their words...
joy... thing is i talk to him everyday, maybe he gets bored? hehehe, with mommy telling him over and over "I LOVE YOU."
azi and brIt... yep the right word... SACRIFICE, more like - fiat of our work...
kids... i was just taken aback by my son's words... so innocently said but went through my every fiber... and shook me LOL
its reaaly being away with your kids specially mommies like us. you really have to sacrifice everything for your family's future...hearing your kids telling you those things realyy hurts our feeling...but we have to understand them too...just dont stop calling them and chats with them as often as possible...
You used the correct word - Sacrifice.
We make these choices for the betterment of ourselves and our families. However, in reality, a child does not understand these things till perhaps its too late.:(
As a single parent, I've been away most of the time from my kids and them growing without me by them, seeing them grow up...it's really heart breaking.
Come to think of it this way: your husband is there to constantly remind your child/children that Mommy (you) is making the biggest sacrifice ever to give them the best any mommy would want for her kids.
He's 3 and a half years old...he wouldn't understand things yet...but try to be patient. Set a schedule...let him see you everyday (or whatever time possible) via webcam so he would be accustomed that he will see you at that time. Then he will remember you.
I know it's hard...but you're not alone :-)
happy and saba are right, phone isn't always the solution, there are times when he won't talk at all, id just hear his whimpers - of i dont like to talk to mommy...
shoe, we have the chat and webcam yeah, all i see is a blur of him running here and there infront the camera LOL.
try saying something about toys, he ususally responds to that....and i got him for a full 10 mins...LOL, but it doesnt work for saba either...
ALL yer words of comfort are doing a lot... THANK u all
ganen? kids will always be kids:)
"learn to let go of the things you are afraid to loose....
because you might get a better one."
it makes me think of my 4 years old son, his father is in doha and we, me and my son are in pakistan...my son is so madly fond of his father but only when he is home after every eight weeks otherwise he would never talk to his father on phone no matter how i try to allure him into toys games daddy will bring..... my husband smetimes gets very upset just like babbly....but i always feel he just misses him a lot and kids find it sometimes hard to express their feelings...may be that is why he avoids
Lot's of kids hate to talk on the phone, even to dear ones. I'm speaking from experience, first hand :((. Your kid is so little and surely didn't mean to intentionally hurt your feelings. Lighten up, I hope you're visiting family soon.
Salam
that we are all here earning for our love ones.greatest sacrifice of all.
why dnt you try video call or the webcam chat?
hmmmm Got an idea too..
thank u mahj, i will do just that!!!!
letters and cards....
***bubbly thinks this is all so nice***
Bubbly I know how you feel when my son was 3 and I call him he always ask my "Are you my mom?" and when I go back home for vacation after 1 1/2 yrs he don't want me to hug him that really hurts and now he's 7 he will ask me why you don't call? when are you coming back? he will always ask me how many days left before you go back home and that hurts..he already outgrown the strange feeling between me and him constant communication even he don't like to talk to you send him cards or letters with some drawings that he will interact between you and him. Try this letters it works with my son might it work with you and your son...ur a nice mom ...
miss saigon.... that's the tough part...we are "heroic" when duty calls but the tough mama crumbled simply hearing those "cute words" from the little one...
***bubbly will get by...with the QLers***
you are also heroic mom on duty.
expect nothing, do more, love lots, smile often, cry sometimes but continue living....
he even got it from u... u should be a li'l proud, dont u think? Explain it to him later on, now juz tell him not to say it agai cuz its not nice. :)
bubbly, i don't have any, lol.....
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seriously, when im down, i fixe it right away...
and shoppin is effective for me....
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star, that is what i am afraid of....
his sense of humor cuts.....
reminds me of myself....
***bubbly feels better*** thank you QL
mallrat, ok then, hand over yer credit card...
at least he's got a sense of humor, he just doen't know it yet...
bubbly, when im hurt, i go shopping.....
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i don't care about the shine of my card.
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PCG, you can say that...ironically cute...haha
BRIT, really... you are rubbing salt on the wound....
shankie, am trying that at the moment...
As long as he didn't say "I don't want to talk to my OTHER mommy" , you're OK :)
my 6 year old son don't even want to chat or view my webcam..
He is only 3. I know it could have hurt your feelings but look on it as a funny you can tell him when he is older. xxxxx
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mallrat...shopping??? if i am in this mood and i will go shopping.... my credit card will lose it's shine!!!!
bubbly, just go shopping:)
thank you ALL so much for yer comforting words...
yer right.... i guess am just trying to win him from his dad...which in this, i am bound to lose (60%??)
and being away from them makes matters worse..
and.every_mothers..... the last remark...duh uh...LOL
***bubbly happier*** (she has QL on her side)
everything will be okay..he's just a child, soon he'll understand..just think of some ways that may increase your communication with him..I bet he misses you so much.
"You are built not to shrink down to less but to blossom into more" - Ophrah Winfrey-
bubbly sometimes or maybe a lot of times it happens also to me. . . my daughter is almost same age as yours. there is also times that she doesn't want to talk because she's not in the mood. i just think that is normal for her age . . . dont take it seriously your here for them. . . .
" In my opinion only. . . nothing personal"
brought back old memories whenever my dad used to come down on a vacation the moment he enters the house i'd start to cry.
Hilarious indeed... but if you look at the brighter side of it you should be glad it was not ur husband who said that...lol
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
Bubbly.... dont loose heart... may be he is just missing u too much and this is how he is trying to convey his feelings ...
Just try after a while...everything gonna be fine...
One Life to Live...Live It To The Fullest
Bubbly1975 -
Don take it seriously.. he is jus 3 n half...
the moment he understands how much his mom loves him.....
Things shall be way better than you can imagine.....
If I was in his place.. same reaction...
"Mom not staying with us... mom doesn like me.... I don like her too".....
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coffee, my son's 3 and a half yrs old...i did call again, his dad answered and i heard his "faraway" voice... no, i don't like to talk to her...
sniff sniff
and yes every_mother's i found it hilarious(upon hearing it)...but when it dawned on me that my son doesn't want to talk to me.... i turned green....
it does happen sometime's but this was way too funny.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
So sorry.... why dont you try calling again!
How old is your son?
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