what will you do if someone (like a colleague)..rub in your face-- tell you that He is allergic to Filipinos, to Philippines...this is done with action..him scratching his hand, looking into his hand while saying those phrases "I am allergic to Filipinos, to Philippines"...
the regular meeting would be beneficial if the objective is for the company but to pull crap out of it (or for just his PERSONAL issues)...and make such drama coz of this...then what can i say...really pathetic..but you are right..i will prove to him more how low he is...:/
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he would be one sad individual to be allergic to a people of an entire nation, we all have our personal likes and dislikes but to paint everyone with one brush he must need some serious help!
O, why not a regular meeting to iron out the differences - you werent the person to start this cold war in the first place.If I were you this would be more opportunity for me to either grind his nose in dust for him every time or get him to agree the fault of his line of thinking.
grrrrrr...sorry to revive this thread...(just pouring out emotions on my keyboard)...im throwing fits here as this azz suggested a regular meeting to our manager to settle/iron out personal issues...the hell???...who was the air-headed who said that he is allergic with filipinos????...since that day, i decided not to talk to this low living guy and everyday though he is creating issues between us (personally)...i continued on ignoring him..he got nothing to do with my work and me with his work, so that's make it easier for me to ignore him as if he don't exist....
but for some reason, according to his staff he can't stand that we are not communicating with him????!!!! and suggested a regular meeting to iron things out????..yeah right!...
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to knock you down with 'backbitings'?can he not confront you with what's his problems with filipinos??...his gestures suggested that he's not a man after all!
he'd better not try that, hitting me?....things will get ugly if he tries...im still treating this professionally since we are colleagues...but you know in your head that you are cursing violently..counting always 1-10, breathing in and out..:)
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the war begins...this guy now is creating issues on me...you know this kind of style wherein he would tell someone that i said this and that..and then chain reaction will happen...grrrrrrr...im thinking of coordinating to QL mafia...:D
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I had a few philipino friends in U.A.E. and I really liked them for their love for food and jolly nature (They had a hearty breakfast). No matter how hard their circumstances were they would be laughing. What can you say for people who fail to see such good qualities.
awwwww frog...don't blame it on me..:D at least you just hate them, i know soon you will be allergic to them...:P ...anyways, did you try talking to them bout their cooking? ...ya know those food they are cooking taste good...try to eat with them...lol
scarlett, kill him with kindness...errrrr..i don't want to see his face or look at him...just plain hate him from now on...will only talk to him if its work related, otherwise, find himself a new friend or a new person to insult with...but hmmmm, guess he learned his lesson now, he receives cold treatment since then..and i intend it to be that way until he appologizes to me and only to me...
so now we got supermoms...how cool would that be, will wait your first mission...had your costumes already?...:D
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This kind of people does not deserver attention, wasting your precious time with them, wasting your energy fighting them, wasting your mind cells thinking of how to deal with them. Ignorance can be sometimes a bless and sometimes a curse, curse him with your ignorance and forget him.
Sorry to hear that and coming from an office mate where everyone is supposed just to take care of the office work. That is why I don't like to get into relations in my work place, sometimes it will go out of the right way and when nasty things happened like that ... The work also will get affected by these issues which are irrelevant ...
I don't know when will people stop saying ... I'm Palestinian, Filipino, Indian, Pakistani, Sudanese and so on ... WE all are the son of ADAM & EVE. All of these countries, these lands all over the world belongs to god and no one got the right to say anything like that. When would the humans understand and quit arguing about these things?
Peace ... and only peace ... otherwise ... I see the end soon.
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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
sweet talking our way out of any trouble..able to leap small children at a single bound...fighters for justice in any squabble...its a bird, its a plane, its...its...SUPER MOMS!!! Just when you think things couldn't get any worse..we can hear what you are thinking and have eyes in the back of our heads...I TOLD you young man..PUT that girl down NOW!!!!
Owen, where are you girl? Just take Scarlett with you to the office and introduce her to this guy. The rest will be history (... and so would the guy be).
Southern roots...always be nice even to your enemies...but take them off at the knees in such a way they can't respond to you...and ALWAYS smile while you are doing it..
If we'd have had the refineries and metal capabilities, the South would have won the Civil war...at least the ladies would have!!
to idiots and would he please move back to his office as you are starting to itch from him being close to you....
Also..kill him with kindness...cook him something...something REALLY REALLY bad smelly(doesn't have to be edible!) and leave it on his desk..with a note telling him how you are saddened he dislikes Fillipinos and that you wanted to show him how nice they can be....
I'm sorry to say that , but I also hate philipinos :( especially after one philipino family moved to the appart next mine and started cooking :( The good smell of their meals is harassing my nose and my stomack every day:( It's unfair , I just stopped coming back home at lunch time :(((( OWEN GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR .
I wonder if you've seen Friend's episode when Ross and Rachel in a plane to Las Vegas to see Joey, wherein Ross and Rachel trying to get off each others back. Wherein Ross said, with an intensional loud voice for all to hear.... " Hey lady, I am not attracted to you, I am happily married and I love my wife"..... (sort of, not the exact script)...
I am...Not a big fillipino fan. Then again, openly expressing hatred is something you cant take kindly to. Then you could turn a deaf ear or perhaps pick on him. Here on, its all or nothing.
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Slap him hard and tell him you slapped him to kill the philippines bacteria which is the cause of his allegic condition. tell him it was recommened by a philippine doctor. you are doing a great favour for him this way.
Sorry KH, I didn't read all the posts. Ok Owen, act really concerned and tell him you have some medicine that will help. THen kick him in the balls and run. :P
"How come I can pick my ears but not my nose? Who made up that rule anyway? How come you say that's the way it is, that's just the way it goes, maybe you should decide for yourself what you can do and what you can say." Ani Difranco
precisely..the boomerang theory....it will happen soon...i'm a tough person too (at work) and he tried every move, word, phrase to insult us (ordinarily, i would just pretend that i didnt hear nor see him)
...but he succeeded today, as it happened first thing in the morning (haven't taken anything yet)...just open my PC and baaammm..there he was ready again with every usual nonsense thing...i think i provoked him as what i mentioned above (how it happened)...
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let him shut his mouth...if he has anger to someone...tell him not to generalized...coz not only one person he is hurting...as if his hurting the whole philippines...let him pay attention on what he is saying coz itwill be harm to him knowing the filipinos attitude,they are nice if u are nice..but they will be bad if u are bad to them...as a concern filipino citizens..i will not allowed anybody....saying against/bad words to my motherland...i can guess he is not professional..maybe he is un educated one..no matter what he studied,he sound un educated..feel pity for himself..he got a psychological problem..he is bipolar...tell him to go to a physician...
give him a bar of soap and tell him to take a bath =D. people like this will abuse you verbally if they know they can always insult you. nobody does this to me in my workplace, coz' everytime someone insult me specially my race it would be coming back to them like a boomerang :)
he is not classified as one of the senior, not also influential (well not to me or to anyone i guess)....and he is not of Indian culture...and errrrr...don't worry mom_me am not doing any drastic move here, just in case he harass me or force me to talk to him if its not work related...then that would be the time that it will be an issue...
he has to respect that i am hurt..and not wanting to talk to him anymore...he will and can speak to me ONLY if its work related..
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Owen, if he is senior and influential you may get in trouble. I have faced similiar situations when working and let me tell you people are very judgemental when it comes to Indian culture and basically indians. You have to be very tactful (which I am sure you are) and don't loose your temper. Just an advice.
mom_me i dont care about seniority in a company. Im ready to go to higher officers discussing this....(if it will not be avoided), coz i might include harrassment complaint later on...
lol guys, im taking notes of all silly "to do's" here...
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Owen, some people are racist and there is not much you can do other than avoid them especially if you can not offend them as in the case of senior colleagues.
If he uses the same phrase again, tell him in public with a smile in your face: Did you forgot to buy or use sanitizing soap for your dirty hands and some listerine for your bad breath?
He will get the message, unless he is real moron..
canary, he doesn't deserve to be spoken to right now...he kept on buzzing my intercom, and he even ask one of my colleague here to send his deepest sorry...
i know myself, if i will face him right now, given the state of my emotions i would be able to tell him things that would make him wonder how small he is to me now..
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Next time you see him, offer antihistamine cream and tell him, "Tough luck my friend, cos I'm gonna stick around in this office for quite some time!" :)
If I were you I would be calm and confront him with what he said. Make an issue that everyone knows who he is. I think being cool often gets under the other party's skin and works like magic in tense situations.
I feel so lucky here in my office I am the only European, all the other staff in my office are worth their weight in gold.
MEN shouldn't talk a lot right?...so im wondering now, coz he kept on yapping...maybe he got some personality issues...and letting it all out to me...:P
nasty...nasty...hmmmm..i can get nasty if i really want to...:/ ..but it has to be dealt professionally now...bwahahahaha...im thinking of something later on...and oh btw, this guy is a COMPLETE IDIOT, coz he knows that he would be needing me later on...hah!..now you think a person like me who will hold grudges would be helping him the same way i was?
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"How come I can pick my ears but not my nose? Who made up that rule anyway? How come you say that's the way it is, that's just the way it goes, maybe you should decide for yourself what you can do and what you can say." Ani Difranco
Just send him To My Confession Booth, I will direct him to the GATES OF HELL, express way and no return back!!
You know what Owen, I will approach him in person and asking him for DIRECTIONS when he is finish, I will fired a couple of friendly racial words to him...
canary that's what i've learned from some of you here..to use my charm...(but don't mistake me of doing something..lol)..what i meant is, he would die now of cold treatment...we are of different division canary..so to hell i care if i wouldn't be saying a word to him...:D
and now, he kept on calling me on the phone asking if i am busy and wanting to have a word with me...
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that's where it originates ICU..everyday he kept of blabbering how he hates filipinos, jokingly he would say that, unmindful if some would be sensitive to react...after this series of blabbering..i couldn't stand it..and ask him this morning..."what's your issues with filipinos?"..and that's how he said this allergic stuffs...
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He must have been screwed by some of the Filipinos to act this way.
You should ask him the reason why?
Don’t you worry my hubby says he does not like Indian female as they smell like curry.
He attended a workshop last month and was sitting to this female Indian colleague who happened to be the only female in the group. He said he almost told her to go home and have a shower.
i still maintain my calmness..was so dumbfounded hearing those from him (considering we treated him as friends), and couldn't utter a single word...but you know the feeling that your blood got taller than you..that's how furious i was that time...
and ya know what was the funny thing he said after a minute that he realized what he just said..."this is my way of saying i love you, if i insult you then it means i love you"...was about to search for a knife right there and then...:/
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shut his mouth with philipinos poo... owen. i can help you with that. i also knows somebody in the net, saying in his profile "i hate philipinas, thais, chinese, korean and indonesian" so i told him to suck his dad's ***** and come back to me. this ppl is worthless. So i stop chat with him.
Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand
i know that this would spark another racist topic..sorry but im just pissed off...everyday all he did is to talk nonsense about US..no one's no longer talking to him...whenever he opens his mouth..all non-sense..been patient with him for the past months..
but this phrase uttered from his mouth snap all the patience i had...
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the regular meeting would be beneficial if the objective is for the company but to pull crap out of it (or for just his PERSONAL issues)...and make such drama coz of this...then what can i say...really pathetic..but you are right..i will prove to him more how low he is...:/
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he would be one sad individual to be allergic to a people of an entire nation, we all have our personal likes and dislikes but to paint everyone with one brush he must need some serious help!
O, why not a regular meeting to iron out the differences - you werent the person to start this cold war in the first place.If I were you this would be more opportunity for me to either grind his nose in dust for him every time or get him to agree the fault of his line of thinking.
grrrrrr...sorry to revive this thread...(just pouring out emotions on my keyboard)...im throwing fits here as this azz suggested a regular meeting to our manager to settle/iron out personal issues...the hell???...who was the air-headed who said that he is allergic with filipinos????...since that day, i decided not to talk to this low living guy and everyday though he is creating issues between us (personally)...i continued on ignoring him..he got nothing to do with my work and me with his work, so that's make it easier for me to ignore him as if he don't exist....
but for some reason, according to his staff he can't stand that we are not communicating with him????!!!! and suggested a regular meeting to iron things out????..yeah right!...
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i mean guys.... some of you are employed and at work while posting on this forum.... what a waste...
go and do your work....
those not at work.... continue
to knock you down with 'backbitings'?can he not confront you with what's his problems with filipinos??...his gestures suggested that he's not a man after all!
he'd better not try that, hitting me?....things will get ugly if he tries...im still treating this professionally since we are colleagues...but you know in your head that you are cursing violently..counting always 1-10, breathing in and out..:)
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Owen I will come and stand behind you when he wants to hit you so you don't fall down ok. lol
Seriously you have to clear that subject as it will destroy your peace.
the war begins...this guy now is creating issues on me...you know this kind of style wherein he would tell someone that i said this and that..and then chain reaction will happen...grrrrrrr...im thinking of coordinating to QL mafia...:D
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Just don't care
i am arabic guy and I like filipino so much , there anre nice and friendly ppl and girls are so sweet
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The sad, pathetic loser !!!
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I had a few philipino friends in U.A.E. and I really liked them for their love for food and jolly nature (They had a hearty breakfast). No matter how hard their circumstances were they would be laughing. What can you say for people who fail to see such good qualities.
I dont know what will be next...I will probably hit him. And for sure, if I not talk to him ever...
Can you PM me his nationality...
malu fernandez...hehhehe!it was an outrageous replies she got there...gd thing your collegue is not filipino..or else!
forget it...nothing t do w/ this guy owen.
precisely nicaq...we just have to ignore and let him talk to the wind...
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we have a name of such people in Phils...(KSP) or lack of attention?
awwwww frog...don't blame it on me..:D at least you just hate them, i know soon you will be allergic to them...:P ...anyways, did you try talking to them bout their cooking? ...ya know those food they are cooking taste good...try to eat with them...lol
scarlett, kill him with kindness...errrrr..i don't want to see his face or look at him...just plain hate him from now on...will only talk to him if its work related, otherwise, find himself a new friend or a new person to insult with...but hmmmm, guess he learned his lesson now, he receives cold treatment since then..and i intend it to be that way until he appologizes to me and only to me...
so now we got supermoms...how cool would that be, will wait your first mission...had your costumes already?...:D
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This kind of people does not deserver attention, wasting your precious time with them, wasting your energy fighting them, wasting your mind cells thinking of how to deal with them. Ignorance can be sometimes a bless and sometimes a curse, curse him with your ignorance and forget him.
Sorry to hear that and coming from an office mate where everyone is supposed just to take care of the office work. That is why I don't like to get into relations in my work place, sometimes it will go out of the right way and when nasty things happened like that ... The work also will get affected by these issues which are irrelevant ...
I don't know when will people stop saying ... I'm Palestinian, Filipino, Indian, Pakistani, Sudanese and so on ... WE all are the son of ADAM & EVE. All of these countries, these lands all over the world belongs to god and no one got the right to say anything like that. When would the humans understand and quit arguing about these things?
Peace ... and only peace ... otherwise ... I see the end soon.
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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
The best outfit would be... like 'teenage mutant ninja turtles'. What say. We can just kill people with our looks ... dressed like that in public.
Darude, don't raise your hopes. She is kidding.
in a pair of tights, I'd hate to look like I got hit by a bag of rocks...ahem...need an extra long cape in that case..
when I heard the description...bout right...worth about 2 alleys crosswise bowling...maybe 3.
are you sure she is pretty than the one who was there last night at bowling the tall one :D
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Scarlett, I am into anything as long as I don't have to wear my undies over my pants. He He !!!
THEN we'd have all these guys drooling over you next meeting...so thought i'd save you the trouble and just go with pretty...
sweet talking our way out of any trouble..able to leap small children at a single bound...fighters for justice in any squabble...its a bird, its a plane, its...its...SUPER MOMS!!! Just when you think things couldn't get any worse..we can hear what you are thinking and have eyes in the back of our heads...I TOLD you young man..PUT that girl down NOW!!!!
LOL Scarlett. 'Pretty', Gee, Thanks!!You have a way with words.
to the coffee...you missed one smart, sweet (and very pretty!) lady...
I have my money on Scarlett. She can charm any fighter with a snap of her li'l finger. I'll be her side kick.
is safe at ur side not mine yet havent meet her.
so becareful mom am a street fighter here :D
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so therefore you are a member of my gang...besides..I like Mom_me...she's safe as long as she keeps coming for coffees...bawhhahaha..
Owen, where are you girl? Just take Scarlett with you to the office and introduce her to this guy. The rest will be history (... and so would the guy be).
shhhhhhhhhh....
she is the boss of her nasty gang just be careful. :?
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Southern roots...always be nice even to your enemies...but take them off at the knees in such a way they can't respond to you...and ALWAYS smile while you are doing it..
If we'd have had the refineries and metal capabilities, the South would have won the Civil war...at least the ladies would have!!
LOL Scarlett. You can get very nasty. I hope I am never at wrong side with you.
to idiots and would he please move back to his office as you are starting to itch from him being close to you....
Also..kill him with kindness...cook him something...something REALLY REALLY bad smelly(doesn't have to be edible!) and leave it on his desk..with a note telling him how you are saddened he dislikes Fillipinos and that you wanted to show him how nice they can be....
I would complain that to his supervisor. It is not very nice at all.
I'm sorry to say that , but I also hate philipinos :( especially after one philipino family moved to the appart next mine and started cooking :( The good smell of their meals is harassing my nose and my stomack every day:( It's unfair , I just stopped coming back home at lunch time :(((( OWEN GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR .
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I wonder if you've seen Friend's episode when Ross and Rachel in a plane to Las Vegas to see Joey, wherein Ross and Rachel trying to get off each others back. Wherein Ross said, with an intensional loud voice for all to hear.... " Hey lady, I am not attracted to you, I am happily married and I love my wife"..... (sort of, not the exact script)...
In your case.. start with a big slap on his face
a stealth bomber or a appache 'copter???
anyhow, make peace guyz... it ain't matter what color we wear, our warmth should radiate freely...
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nothing to worry deji...everyone's fine here...im a silent fighter..:D
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stones still flying here?????????????
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I am...Not a big fillipino fan. Then again, openly expressing hatred is something you cant take kindly to. Then you could turn a deaf ear or perhaps pick on him. Here on, its all or nothing.
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Slap him hard and tell him you slapped him to kill the philippines bacteria which is the cause of his allegic condition. tell him it was recommened by a philippine doctor. you are doing a great favour for him this way.
Sorry KH, I didn't read all the posts. Ok Owen, act really concerned and tell him you have some medicine that will help. THen kick him in the balls and run. :P
"How come I can pick my ears but not my nose? Who made up that rule anyway? How come you say that's the way it is, that's just the way it goes, maybe you should decide for yourself what you can do and what you can say." Ani Difranco
precisely..the boomerang theory....it will happen soon...i'm a tough person too (at work) and he tried every move, word, phrase to insult us (ordinarily, i would just pretend that i didnt hear nor see him)
...but he succeeded today, as it happened first thing in the morning (haven't taken anything yet)...just open my PC and baaammm..there he was ready again with every usual nonsense thing...i think i provoked him as what i mentioned above (how it happened)...
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hmmmm...give him a filipino "rub"!
let him shut his mouth...if he has anger to someone...tell him not to generalized...coz not only one person he is hurting...as if his hurting the whole philippines...let him pay attention on what he is saying coz itwill be harm to him knowing the filipinos attitude,they are nice if u are nice..but they will be bad if u are bad to them...as a concern filipino citizens..i will not allowed anybody....saying against/bad words to my motherland...i can guess he is not professional..maybe he is un educated one..no matter what he studied,he sound un educated..feel pity for himself..he got a psychological problem..he is bipolar...tell him to go to a physician...
give him a bar of soap and tell him to take a bath =D. people like this will abuse you verbally if they know they can always insult you. nobody does this to me in my workplace, coz' everytime someone insult me specially my race it would be coming back to them like a boomerang :)
he is not classified as one of the senior, not also influential (well not to me or to anyone i guess)....and he is not of Indian culture...and errrrr...don't worry mom_me am not doing any drastic move here, just in case he harass me or force me to talk to him if its not work related...then that would be the time that it will be an issue...
he has to respect that i am hurt..and not wanting to talk to him anymore...he will and can speak to me ONLY if its work related..
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Owen, if he is senior and influential you may get in trouble. I have faced similiar situations when working and let me tell you people are very judgemental when it comes to Indian culture and basically indians. You have to be very tactful (which I am sure you are) and don't loose your temper. Just an advice.
advise taken canary....
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Yes I thought about the claim of harrassment when I read your story, but only play that card if you will succeed.
mom_me i dont care about seniority in a company. Im ready to go to higher officers discussing this....(if it will not be avoided), coz i might include harrassment complaint later on...
lol guys, im taking notes of all silly "to do's" here...
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He is no man! A real man will face you and take the punishment publicly and apologized in front of you.
Freaking gay gluteous anus... Sending his friends... what a beef jerker!!
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Owen, some people are racist and there is not much you can do other than avoid them especially if you can not offend them as in the case of senior colleagues.
If he uses the same phrase again, tell him in public with a smile in your face: Did you forgot to buy or use sanitizing soap for your dirty hands and some listerine for your bad breath?
He will get the message, unless he is real moron..
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canary, he doesn't deserve to be spoken to right now...he kept on buzzing my intercom, and he even ask one of my colleague here to send his deepest sorry...
i know myself, if i will face him right now, given the state of my emotions i would be able to tell him things that would make him wonder how small he is to me now..
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There you go girl. Know you are thinking my way, PAYBACK time!
Whta goes around , comes around...
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Next time you see him, offer antihistamine cream and tell him, "Tough luck my friend, cos I'm gonna stick around in this office for quite some time!" :)
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If I were you I would be calm and confront him with what he said. Make an issue that everyone knows who he is. I think being cool often gets under the other party's skin and works like magic in tense situations.
I feel so lucky here in my office I am the only European, all the other staff in my office are worth their weight in gold.
MEN shouldn't talk a lot right?...so im wondering now, coz he kept on yapping...maybe he got some personality issues...and letting it all out to me...:P
nasty...nasty...hmmmm..i can get nasty if i really want to...:/ ..but it has to be dealt professionally now...bwahahahaha...im thinking of something later on...and oh btw, this guy is a COMPLETE IDIOT, coz he knows that he would be needing me later on...hah!..now you think a person like me who will hold grudges would be helping him the same way i was?
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Tell him your allergic to fat losers and sneeze.
"How come I can pick my ears but not my nose? Who made up that rule anyway? How come you say that's the way it is, that's just the way it goes, maybe you should decide for yourself what you can do and what you can say." Ani Difranco
Owen is too beoutiful in her heart. Most of pinoy's dont have the coursing manners that we have. Is not in their level of education or life style.
Except when they are piss off at their government......
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just turn around and tell to him well join the club bec you are allergic to him too.
i think he is gay...:D and insecure....sorry, im still upset and letting it all out here...
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guess you really need some classes of getting nasty
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Just send him To My Confession Booth, I will direct him to the GATES OF HELL, express way and no return back!!
You know what Owen, I will approach him in person and asking him for DIRECTIONS when he is finish, I will fired a couple of friendly racial words to him...
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canary that's what i've learned from some of you here..to use my charm...(but don't mistake me of doing something..lol)..what i meant is, he would die now of cold treatment...we are of different division canary..so to hell i care if i wouldn't be saying a word to him...:D
and now, he kept on calling me on the phone asking if i am busy and wanting to have a word with me...
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Owen.. really don't know what would i have done to that bast*rd...
may be something like, “I’ll bring more guys in here, and will enjoy watching you twisted and bent down of allergy”
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that's where it originates ICU..everyday he kept of blabbering how he hates filipinos, jokingly he would say that, unmindful if some would be sensitive to react...after this series of blabbering..i couldn't stand it..and ask him this morning..."what's your issues with filipinos?"..and that's how he said this allergic stuffs...
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Sorry to hear that Owen but I don't even think reporting him to a supervisor will help.
Depends in which position he is working above or beside you, but if you use your charm properly you could make his life difficult.
He must have been screwed by some of the Filipinos to act this way.
You should ask him the reason why?
Don’t you worry my hubby says he does not like Indian female as they smell like curry.
He attended a workshop last month and was sitting to this female Indian colleague who happened to be the only female in the group. He said he almost told her to go home and have a shower.
i still maintain my calmness..was so dumbfounded hearing those from him (considering we treated him as friends), and couldn't utter a single word...but you know the feeling that your blood got taller than you..that's how furious i was that time...
and ya know what was the funny thing he said after a minute that he realized what he just said..."this is my way of saying i love you, if i insult you then it means i love you"...was about to search for a knife right there and then...:/
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shut his mouth with philipinos poo... owen. i can help you with that. i also knows somebody in the net, saying in his profile "i hate philipinas, thais, chinese, korean and indonesian" so i told him to suck his dad's ***** and come back to me. this ppl is worthless. So i stop chat with him.
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When you have flu, sneeze in his direction without applying the tissue to your nose
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and i know that i should post this on our filipino group..but i want a general opinion...
and i like it this way, talking to myself...:P
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i know that this would spark another racist topic..sorry but im just pissed off...everyday all he did is to talk nonsense about US..no one's no longer talking to him...whenever he opens his mouth..all non-sense..been patient with him for the past months..
but this phrase uttered from his mouth snap all the patience i had...
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