Is it a valid reason for a husband to search girls over the internet and flirt with them because he feels alone while his wife is out of qatar? give his contact number etc?
if the male is alone and wife left him alone , so there should be something happen , i always advice that let the female live together with there husbands , lol ,
Eagley,lets accept it that nearly all husbands and some wives fantasize about others. Self control only comes into effect when you want to forcively remove the thoughts of others from your fantasy. But the point is,once you have started fantasizing, as per your definition of cheating, you have already crossed the line !!
So, are we to believe that nearly 99% of men cheat on their wives?
Your honour - I would like to bring to the court's attention that male hormones don't work the same way as female's..this is proved in animals and since pre-historic times.
s_isale/cabbage, you both avoided to answer the question straight to the point.
i understand from your post that marrying a few more is better than having a few female friends in the neighbourhood as long as one takes care of his first wife.
OP has referred her hubby's cyber / verbal communication another women as cheating, I just wanted to know if it was really construed as cheating by others. her anger is a result of her possessiveness in the relationship, which is a natural human feeling. I just wondered, why women didn't get angry when their husbands married another women? or do they, but stay quiet because of the society?
the point that i am trying to make is this:
male hormones don't work the same way as female's..this is proved in animals and since pre-historic times. women must understand this. this case is not a one of transgression, thus shouldn't be termed as cheating.
DK, isnt it better to know that you have a second wife rather than knowing that you had a love child or that you had a one night stand with god knows who
i belive its wrong from past experiance, it can snowball and get out of controle and you may end up losing yourself and doing things that you will regret. be carfull of opening up to ANYONE!! just call your wife and bring that spark back. time apart can make you fall inlove all over agen if you make the most of it. i wish you luck
Bring up the name here -so we can flirt his brains off! LOL
Seriously... what a low self esteem the poor man has if he cannot manage a couple of days without a flirt...
How would he react if SHE would do the same, ehhhhh?
Good night people... and if you are committed to someone please don't bother others, same for the singles running after married ones, why to waste your time? there is plenty of fish in the ocean!
Miel, tell your friend to forgive him if they both agree on doing the same LOOOOOOOL
Flirting can be defined in many ways, flirting for you may be just being friendly with me, as I am a very friendly person, you see there are men who prefer to have women friends since they are more comfortable with them, nothing wrong with that as long as it's for friendship, and yeah would you rather that your partner search the internet and ask phone numbers from men? uhmmm i think that's a lot worst from where I stand.. ;)
Take it easy on him, it can make you more desirable when you are confident you know... ;)
A Lady with high blood sugar complaint was shopping in the supermarket one day. While going down the many mundane aisles she happened to pass the chocolate section. Being Christmas, there were many brightly wrapped sweet indulgences on display. One particular silver one with the Santa scene printed on it caught her eye, and she went nearer for a closer inspection....of the picture....no...never the chocolate! So she looked at the picture and read the ingredients to find that they were liqueur filled ones and decided to buy for the guests in her up coming Xmas party,... she of course was not going to have any,.... as she is a very strict person living as per her doctor's advice. That night while winding up a presentation she was doing for her office, she was feeling very low,...."Must be all the Xmas shopping in the morning"...she thought wearily.She went to look in the fridge to get herself some snack when she saw this silver wrapped chocolate just sitting there... looking pretty. Her dimly lit kitchen with the refrigerator light falling on the silver wrapping with the red ,smiling Santa made her very curious to see how the chocolates look,so she opened the packaging,....and just looked inside..... NEVER going to eat!!!.... She always abides by her doctor's advice!....So she looked inside and found that they were these little heart shaped ones with the cherry liqueur filling ,...."Mmmmmm....I wish I were free to eat chocolates like every one else!....." She sighed, closed the box,....took her left over sand witch and went back to her work,....After a couple of hours while still typing away at her computer, she couldn't get the shine of the silver wrapping or the sight of the neatly arranged chocolates out of her mind.The need in her worked up to such an urgency that she couldn't breath, she forgot all about her health, her resolve....every thing. She felt herself on fire and needed the heart shaped little package of liqueur to quench it.... while running to her fridge she reasoned with her self "Just one puny little heart is not going to kill me ,now will it?....I will fix an appointment with my doctor first thing in the morning".....
It didn't take long for the smiling Santa to find himself all crumpled up,.. in the trash can.
Absistance from the FIRST step is the best protection.
If a women hates her husband chatting with other women, I wonder how would she feel if her husband, being a muslim, married three others or being a tribal in africa, would marry nine others.
would they feel fine if the natural feeling of possessiveness in a relationship is brutally crushed by religion or traditions? will the women still complain or feel fine about it.
so, you are a wife then why dont you experience it urself to get the answer. flirting with girls over net & taking their no's is in vein unless there's any physicall contact ;b, husband cant be blamed or punished upon minor illicit acts.
That's how it starts... you can see but not touch, you can touch but not hold, you can hold but not embrace, you can embrace but not kiss, you can kiss but... and so on.
You can flirt but not cheat... does it stop there?
Well Husbands search over girl in internet is wrong..
Here First factor love and trust will be deleted if they search.. Love is not just " i love you" it has deeper meaning. It mean i trust you, i care for you, i shall be with u in all suitation. I give you my life..
So if husbands are doign they are doing it mean they dont care for their wifes.
Anyways he can do whatever he wanted...he is in the right age to use his freedom just face the consequences..it's just flirting ang giving number maybe he needs someone to talk to.. Or else he might suicide coz of loneliness hehe.. :-)
loneliness is dangerous, it can lead to many negative things, can kill for real. making friends on social websites is nt bad.Life is too short for anyone to be miserable. live ur life full anywhre u find yourself.
first of all i dont understand which girls are here to answer his calls? girls or women are not that much cheap here in qatar.if some one thinks about that they are fools.
they're not really in a separate country...wife just had a 2 wks vacation to her country then after a week of being away from her husband she caught him through his emails how he flirt and giving his numbers to girls here in QL telling them he is alone here and need someone to talk. God will punish him...
No. Not at all. If you will do the same thing how does he feel? Why don’t you bring him here? Is it Thailand visa? God never wishes wife and husband stay separately. The marriage itself means for that. Wish you good luck.If at all i can help you obtaining his visa. based on your profile details i send this answer
You can answer yourself if you think it is rite, if your wife searches for men over internet & flirt with them because she feels alonewhile her husband is out of country
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if the male is alone and wife left him alone , so there should be something happen , i always advice that let the female live together with there husbands , lol ,
Eagley,lets accept it that nearly all husbands and some wives fantasize about others. Self control only comes into effect when you want to forcively remove the thoughts of others from your fantasy. But the point is,once you have started fantasizing, as per your definition of cheating, you have already crossed the line !!
So, are we to believe that nearly 99% of men cheat on their wives?
Harmless flirtation is fine. Cheating is when one crosses the line by fantasizing about the other. Self control is key.
Someone very boring I expect
who draws the line as to what point flirting is permissible?
Brit, you said "
Flirting to a point is permissible. Asking for numbers means you've stepped over the line.."
What's this line called?
Lets take a case like this, - I always wanted to have sex with my neighbours wife, I have her number as well but have never touched her.
Have I cheated on my wife? Or, will you call it cheating only if I disclose my inner desires to my wife?
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Thank you for your honest answers.
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psssssssssst Tinkers what's the website we check out called again?
I would answer the same if the roles were reversed. Flirting to a point is permissible. Asking for numbers means you've stepped over the line..
Of course not Cabbage, their hormones are different so they would be guilty as sin.
Ms. Shredded Cabbage here - The QL Observer - can I ask you a question on this recent case?
Tell me in your opinion - if this had been a man asking this of women; would the findings be the same?
(Thrusts microphone under their noses lol)
JUDGE: Case dismissed
Your honour - I would like to bring to the court's attention that male hormones don't work the same way as female's..this is proved in animals and since pre-historic times.
I rest my case !
hey TB, how are you doing? just fooling around here..:)
DK will you be my defense lawyer?
s_isale/cabbage, you both avoided to answer the question straight to the point.
i understand from your post that marrying a few more is better than having a few female friends in the neighbourhood as long as one takes care of his first wife.
OP has referred her hubby's cyber / verbal communication another women as cheating, I just wanted to know if it was really construed as cheating by others. her anger is a result of her possessiveness in the relationship, which is a natural human feeling. I just wondered, why women didn't get angry when their husbands married another women? or do they, but stay quiet because of the society?
the point that i am trying to make is this:
male hormones don't work the same way as female's..this is proved in animals and since pre-historic times. women must understand this. this case is not a one of transgression, thus shouldn't be termed as cheating.
DK, isnt it better to know that you have a second wife rather than knowing that you had a love child or that you had a one night stand with god knows who
Bisdak, now, what's wrong with watching porno?
and hey, nothing wrong with chatting either...
i belive its wrong from past experiance, it can snowball and get out of controle and you may end up losing yourself and doing things that you will regret. be carfull of opening up to ANYONE!! just call your wife and bring that spark back. time apart can make you fall inlove all over agen if you make the most of it. i wish you luck
Bring up the name here -so we can flirt his brains off! LOL
Seriously... what a low self esteem the poor man has if he cannot manage a couple of days without a flirt...
How would he react if SHE would do the same, ehhhhh?
Good night people... and if you are committed to someone please don't bother others, same for the singles running after married ones, why to waste your time? there is plenty of fish in the ocean!
Miel, tell your friend to forgive him if they both agree on doing the same LOOOOOOOL
I will answer you!
Even if you are the 4th or 9th wife - you are still looked after 'as a wife'.
What has your point got to do with the OP?
This 'act' is someting that men can do even with a hundred wives.
The point is - do you react to it ( as a woman) or leave it?
Funny, the ladies didn't have the guts to answer my question..
Is this person a moron, I hope his thingy falls off
But in this instance, someone is "effected". Are they not ?
every humanbeing has his own mentailty & way of thinking let any body do any thing as long as others are not effected.
.....and what happens to the part of HUMAN RACE thrown in the trash or blocked , or what ever, after a one night stand...whom are you servicing then?
That is a good point, why men do what they do when it comes to sex...:)
Thankyou for bringing up this key point. Indeed, we do what we do for the human race :O)
Flirting can be defined in many ways, flirting for you may be just being friendly with me, as I am a very friendly person, you see there are men who prefer to have women friends since they are more comfortable with them, nothing wrong with that as long as it's for friendship, and yeah would you rather that your partner search the internet and ask phone numbers from men? uhmmm i think that's a lot worst from where I stand.. ;)
Take it easy on him, it can make you more desirable when you are confident you know... ;)
Men crave for sex. If they didn't the human race would die out.
A Lady with high blood sugar complaint was shopping in the supermarket one day. While going down the many mundane aisles she happened to pass the chocolate section. Being Christmas, there were many brightly wrapped sweet indulgences on display. One particular silver one with the Santa scene printed on it caught her eye, and she went nearer for a closer inspection....of the picture....no...never the chocolate! So she looked at the picture and read the ingredients to find that they were liqueur filled ones and decided to buy for the guests in her up coming Xmas party,... she of course was not going to have any,.... as she is a very strict person living as per her doctor's advice. That night while winding up a presentation she was doing for her office, she was feeling very low,...."Must be all the Xmas shopping in the morning"...she thought wearily.She went to look in the fridge to get herself some snack when she saw this silver wrapped chocolate just sitting there... looking pretty. Her dimly lit kitchen with the refrigerator light falling on the silver wrapping with the red ,smiling Santa made her very curious to see how the chocolates look,so she opened the packaging,....and just looked inside..... NEVER going to eat!!!.... She always abides by her doctor's advice!....So she looked inside and found that they were these little heart shaped ones with the cherry liqueur filling ,...."Mmmmmm....I wish I were free to eat chocolates like every one else!....." She sighed, closed the box,....took her left over sand witch and went back to her work,....After a couple of hours while still typing away at her computer, she couldn't get the shine of the silver wrapping or the sight of the neatly arranged chocolates out of her mind.The need in her worked up to such an urgency that she couldn't breath, she forgot all about her health, her resolve....every thing. She felt herself on fire and needed the heart shaped little package of liqueur to quench it.... while running to her fridge she reasoned with her self "Just one puny little heart is not going to kill me ,now will it?....I will fix an appointment with my doctor first thing in the morning".....
It didn't take long for the smiling Santa to find himself all crumpled up,.. in the trash can.
Absistance from the FIRST step is the best protection.
DK - you seem to be in a mood to divert the topic.
It would be better than those one night stands anyway.
some highly qualified guy was arraigned for something similar or worse yesterday wasnt it?
I am assuming that you are married. If so, would you be happy with your wife doing the same ?
If a women hates her husband chatting with other women, I wonder how would she feel if her husband, being a muslim, married three others or being a tribal in africa, would marry nine others.
would they feel fine if the natural feeling of possessiveness in a relationship is brutally crushed by religion or traditions? will the women still complain or feel fine about it.
Just curious to know..
yeah he think he's smart...and watta shame that he put his real name.
hey AHT, talk to yourself and watta nice name you have...
do u what u feel like . guilt will fade away when u get used to cheating ..:)
so, you are a wife then why dont you experience it urself to get the answer. flirting with girls over net & taking their no's is in vein unless there's any physicall contact ;b, husband cant be blamed or punished upon minor illicit acts.
I suspect that a lot of men do this.
If you are not 'harmed' by it - don't 'react to it'.
Humble request to scientists: Please Invent a Condom For The Heart Because People F... The Feelings Really Bad.
That's how it starts... you can see but not touch, you can touch but not hold, you can hold but not embrace, you can embrace but not kiss, you can kiss but... and so on.
You can flirt but not cheat... does it stop there?
Miel, if you were a man. what do you think?
So he's tracking this conversation too....
That's hilerious....
This guy sure bad should not do this if i knw him ill talk to him
Miel, are you a theist???????
Brit, they may have wanted to talk to each other on phone. Again, talking is not cheating !!
So, to keep it simple and stop speculating things, lets first define cheating.
Flirting may not be cheating.. but when you give your contact details, then its clear that your intent is to cheat :o)
Let's first define cheating..!! It varies with people but to make it simple..flirting is not cheating.
Men were hunters and have a natural inclination for looking out for something new...Don't police him.
Give him space if you want to be happy in your married life.
Absolutely not. However, how long is he expected to be away from his wife?
thanks bruce..u are absolutely right.
Dear Xena,
Sorry for the PM.
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Well Husbands search over girl in internet is wrong..
Here First factor love and trust will be deleted if they search.. Love is not just " i love you" it has deeper meaning. It mean i trust you, i care for you, i shall be with u in all suitation. I give you my life..
So if husbands are doign they are doing it mean they dont care for their wifes.
Anyways he can do whatever he wanted...he is in the right age to use his freedom just face the consequences..it's just flirting ang giving number maybe he needs someone to talk to.. Or else he might suicide coz of loneliness hehe.. :-)
he's not social...only animal i guess.
Man is a social animal by nature. Stopping him is changing the hand of the clock.
well, boring questions as usual!! live urlife, do whatever u want, u ll be responsable of ur acts!
loneliness is dangerous, it can lead to many negative things, can kill for real. making friends on social websites is nt bad.Life is too short for anyone to be miserable. live ur life full anywhre u find yourself.
could be worse, he could be searching for other guys.
Yeah give him a break...and a phone number !!?? :0)
the guy is trying to be social :D
as to which of the three PM's I got in my inbox with phone numbers is him....
Dingbat... I wish QL had a filter system that would see the word "friendsheep" and block it, just like it does with the eight "0"'s ....
first of all i dont understand which girls are here to answer his calls? girls or women are not that much cheap here in qatar.if some one thinks about that they are fools.
Obviously he is lonely and in need of love and affection :o)
they're not really in a separate country...wife just had a 2 wks vacation to her country then after a week of being away from her husband she caught him through his emails how he flirt and giving his numbers to girls here in QL telling them he is alone here and need someone to talk. God will punish him...
No. Not at all. If you will do the same thing how does he feel? Why don’t you bring him here? Is it Thailand visa? God never wishes wife and husband stay separately. The marriage itself means for that. Wish you good luck.If at all i can help you obtaining his visa. based on your profile details i send this answer
it's not a valid reason, he shouldnt work abroad away from his wife in the first place if he cant stand being alone and lonely.
that "husband" doesnt have contentment in life i guess and even if his wife is pregnant, he never cares!
better dont get married then doing this sort of things.. its embarassing .. (by the way its reminds me of LIFE IN A METRO"
Sorry to hear that..:(
As you sow so shall you reap
So be careful. Chance are there that your wife can also feel lonely there.
Why dont you chat with your wife instead of doing those???? things...
thanks guys!
mike shamrock is ryt ;-p
atleast his not watching porno in the internet.. hehehe
You can answer yourself if you think it is rite, if your wife searches for men over internet & flirt with them because she feels alonewhile her husband is out of country
No, it's immoral.
They should rather do it in person at the night clubs.