Attitude & Friendship
Friendship is one of the most important aspects in life and without it you cannot survive. That’s why it is important to choose the right kind of friends that you are willing to share your ultimate secrets with and where you are guaranteed to receive a well and equal treatment in return.
We go through our lives searching for that special friend, however, through our journey of search we encounter many unwanted. Nevertheless, this journey of discovery is what shapes our lives and views because it helps us tackle the concept of trust and betrayal.
You see people who were intimate friends have become foes and were keen to inflict pain and sorrow on one another, and when you try to search for the truth of this sudden change of behavior you get no logical answer.
Attitude can build or destroy a relationship, a home or an entire nation. I believe that only you can choose the way those hearts will be affected and in return, you will have to face the consequences of your choices that are transmitted through your attitude.
So through this search for friendship we will encounter the helpful and the hateful and it is up to us to be able to differentiate between both before putting our whole trust on the person.
Unfortunately, we are not always right in our choices but with the right use of attitude, we can always correct them. "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it“
Jack ...'It is not the being together that it prolongs, it is the parting. :(
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Listen to Many..Speak to a few.
Friendship is one of the most important aspects in life and without it you cannot survive....
....so true....but as we move on in life.....we keep adding some new and we do loose touch of some previous friends....
But with out friend we cannot survive.
informative.
thanks... ^_^
trust no one..
friends are more harmful than enemies..
I like my friends, and i deliberately have a few, protect them and help them..but never trust them with my secrets unless i had to...and i believe this does not hurt them to know it..
formattedsoul, that is entirely impossible to read with all that flashing! God help the epileptics!
True friendship is when you are both comfortable with each other even when there is silence between you.
.if you are my friend, youl be my friend even if youv got attitude..
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much deeper than that to be associated only with attitude. Close friends do become lovers sometimes and from there lots of issues would be there. Moving from friendship to that level means lot of changes, the new bond got it's advantages and disadvantages.
You can leave a bad friend or even a good one if you want, but when it comes to the one that you loved once it's really hard. More than friendship, there were emotions and feelings that you both exchange and that forms a soul bond between you two which is not easy to break.
Knowing that you can't be with that person anymore would reflects on your life, attitude and behavior in many ways. You thought that you can't hate someone before? Be jealous? Feel bad and lonely?
Welcome to the real world ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
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"I do believe by the wrong choices we make the right choice in the end".
Made few wrong choices, dumped them then move on :)
amen to that FS. I do believe by the wrong choices we make the right choice in the end.
I have many friends but only few that I can keep for the rest of my life.
Everybody is right everybody is wrong, it depend where you stand
i think it is one of the reasons why sometimes, the best of friends become the best enemy of each other later