bad news for us
At lunch time my husband called and gave bad news about our goodfriend in Kuala Lumpur that just died on friday last week.
I'm very sad, and ofcourse him. The guy converted to moslem when he got married with this Malay lady, so we guess he got moslem way of ceremony.
I feel that i have to give her something to express our care to the family. But i don't really know what to give..well we going to buy something online.
CAn you please help me to picture what should i send to them? thanks guys
their health, yes takin care of their health is very imp.
You cant do this if you are miles away
when my lil nephew died (sister's son), i had tough time taking care of my sister, my mother, her mother in law all were without food
In England instead of flowers we sometimes donate to their favourite charity.
For example when my Gran died we asked for money to go to the McMillan nurses who care for people dying of cancer.... they are angels.
Its a lovely tribute...
Do you find it offensive Eco Savvy..
So do you feed people who are not hungry Eco? I hear you make some tasty dishes,,,, yummy
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
then money will help her otherwise its bit humiliating to give some one money. She lost her husband not lost her property.
Try to find out if the deceased was in debts, then money will really help her to clear his debts.
I will find it very offensive if some one offers me money. We usually provide cooked food for several days this is islamic way
Since you are far away a phone call will also help her
I think pm is right on the mark here.
It is always best to send a widow money (that you would have spent on the flowers)
I am sure it will be much appreciated and better used. Flowers die after a week ya know.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
Ina ilaihi waina ilaihi ro jiun..
LIVE TO RIDE,RIDE TO LIVE!
Prayers and condolences is enough at this situation
YOU DONT KNOW ME, DONT EVEN TRY !!!
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Sorry, May Allah bless his soul
COOL GUY
just pray for his soul...
"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."
Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi ra jioon
Ameen
i don't think sending anything at thi time will be right
it will be good to call and speak to the family......
i am sorry for ur loss
inAllah ina alai ragaoon
May Allah bless the departed soul and give the family courage to bear this irreperable loss.. Ameen
Live and let live...
Sorry to hear sad news.... May Allah bless his soul and forgive his sins !
Flowers are not a good idea .... i suggest to write them a condolance letter and attach a a cheque if you can ... otherwise a phone call is enough and later you can send money thru TT or Chq. to support the family.
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Innalillahi wainna lilla hirrajioonn- amin
May he rest in peace
life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......
HONEY
JUST WNATED TO KNW U A MALAYSIANA
AWA ORAAGN MALAY?
As a Malay maybe I could help. Normally we don't really send anything..but a phone call will do.
Très loin de gratin dauphinoise et nasi lemak..uhuhuhuhu
actually we was thinking about him this last friday..wondering how is he doing now..since our last conversation at the phone.. and this morning i was asking hubby to show me all his photo with us in the past in france. Is that what you call sixth sense?
may god bless his soul .
send ur condolence with some sympathy flowers
Sympathy flowers can be sent as soon as you hear about the death or can be sent on the day of the funeral service itself. Sending sympathy flowers to the relatives home is often done as mark of respect and to show the family concerned that you are thinking about them at a very difficult time. Funeral flowers are generally sent on the day of the service. It is very important to make sure the funeral flowers are sent by at least a couple of hours ahead of the funeral service. Sympathy flowers can also be sent after the funeral itself, to let the family know that just because the funeral service has already happened, you are still thinking of them. There are no rules to sending funeral and sympathy flowers, it is always the thought that counts.
this is just for your concern
May Allah bless the soul and help the bereaved family to bear their loss.
Live and Die with DIGNITY!
-JaYTeR-
for my opinion better to call his family so u will what they need to...
condolence....
what about your offer before? still happening or not? I think flower wont do too
May ALLAH Bless His Soul
Giving a true hope is the best thing to Express ur true feelings...
Honey i think flowers r not good to gift her in this matter...
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"Imagination is more important than knowledge"
not much people here went to funeral..me too..huh
Sorry to hear that, May Allah bless his soul
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Ina ilaihi waina ilaihi ro jiun
God forgive him
She is moslem, Do u think flower will do? mila your ice make me drunk now..too good
try to get flower send to their house, you can buy online. so sorry about your lost. be strong. and remember that he is in better place now.
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
Ina ilaihi waina ilaihi ro jiun.. Do u have suggestion for my condolences?
May Allah Bless his soul
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