Bf deleted account than to give his password

Yeah all the time but the f&@*king mods would just delete them

do you swear? cross your heart?

If I was him I would have other girlfriends as well, going out with you seems a nightmare. I'd rather cut of my leg with a rusty hacksaw than spend amy more time with such a suspicious ......

Arien, how about husband ans wife sharing the bank accounts?

Where I come from this is normal.

you have the right to ask. but i think he is hiding something and doesn't want to lose you.

so just let it go

She asked him, it happened, SHE'S DONE A MISTAKE WTV, now what she has been wondering is "Why?" did he delete his account; I mean it isn't worth it?

Now stop blaming her, because it happened already!

Aaaagghhhhh...!

FB or BF? Choose one! Lol!

this is totally nonesense...why do u ask his facebook password anyway?if u love your bf you must trust him..forget your insecurities and give him space...

yah thats true bro but good girls or women may not ask their BF the password or anything which is their personal but only girls who wants to dominate their BF will do so.

Not all of them ask for those keys. Some of them get it even without askin too.. it all depends on the pair n the bond. you just cannot generalize.

i didnt get u can u explain this?

Asif , it depends bro,if you get a b**ch u had it. you knw wht i mean ;)

men should keep their GFs And WIVES in limit. this time ur asking his FB password next time ur gonna ask his BANK ACCOUNT number and if this goes on its gonna get more worst in future.

This guy isn't easy.

And she mustn't feel sorry for what she's done.

If he's so concerned about his past, and "OH GOD" he's in so much pain. Why the hell did he go get himself a girlfriend? He could have just stayed single, solved his past issues and got over it; then thought of having a girlfriend and be fair to her. He can't be with a girl and think of his past. What is she a rebound??

I believe if he wanted to get rid of his past, he could have deleted this account ages ago (if he believes his account has his passsst, which I doubt it) not remembered it once she told him.

Account is no be deal now, he's the problem now.

She got to be aware from this guy, he might be just using her for the sake of getting over his past or whatever.

He ain't innocent as shown.

you've been in a relationship for only 4 months and you are already asking your BF's Facebook password?

What came over your head to think/do like that? That's your BF's personal life that you want to intrude...tsk tsk tsk. :S

From the way you posted, you made your life evolve around this guy coz you want to breathe and live him...and if I were the guy, I would feel soffucated as well.

You must've been edging on him about this so he preferred "deleting" the account.

and to answer your question:

What was his point?

Answer: --> he wants his PAST(BEFORE YOU CAME INTO HIS LIFE)be private.

Do u think it is acceptable?

Answer: --> You're his girlfriend of 4 months, NOT YET his fiancee nor his wife.

Should i just agree?

Answer: --> at this point, YOU HAVE NO CHOICE.

Maybe he was correct bcoz we should have our privacy?

Answer: HE IS so DAMN RIGHT about this.Just thank your lucky stars he didn't dump you for being to nosy/privy to his personals.

Unsolicited advise: let him open up to you, give him space. Coz from the looks of it, you're trying to open a clam with a rubber knife, the more you pry...the more it remains shut/closed

wow...bunny boiler...better him than me.

Thank you Mr. Psychologist, but I definitely don't need your help.

And there is nothing wrong with me, you just don't know me...you wish you did. :)

Why did you check my track? Were you bothered? So funny...such weird people I am coming across here, I forgot to mention that too.

Plus as long as people are replying to my post, then they're definitely tolerationg my sh** sir

FYI I am giving nobody sh**, they started the whole thing, so I end it. ;)

How about you calm your horses and I will hold back my barking dogs. ;)

Fair enough

miss dhey...

you should think first before posting here,expect critisism be it positive or negative,learn your mistake and never do that again,try to be trustful and dont be insecured,everyone have the right for privacy...just be happy with him.

to err is human to forgive is divine.

i gave my password to my gf in fb to be open... she also asked about my past so she could know me better...

no need to delete account... maybe he's hiding sumtin..lol

oh gosh .. big fight

I have been across your posts for several days now, I need to know one thing and one thing only why I have sensed so much anger in all your posts, if not all over here and one more thing you can't always insult people around you in the end you will end up so alone, one more thing it seems you are not able to express yourself right at home so you are doing that with people who does not have to tolerate with the Sh** your giving them, so hold back your barking dogs please and cool down.

And it's so easy to come across stupid people these days...Pffffttt...

its so easy to satisfy girls these days...lol

I won't stay with a CHEATER AND A LIAR!

As long as there is trust, I don't need his password to any account.

I was talking about her case.

My man is different, he wouldn't do such moves.

Plus he gave me one password and I am satisfied, and that's the one to his heart. ;)

With your logic, no man is going to stay with you for long.

No, when I talk, I talk logic; not STUPIDITY!

You're just saying something impossible "DELETING ALL HIS POSTS, PICTURES AND MESSAGES". C'mon!!

Who is bothered????

Was he a criminal under investigation?

John of Arc instead of being born again, why don't you just grow up!?

FYI I am an egyptian drama queen, now live with it.

You're just another jealous bi***, EAT YOUR HEART OUT!

And don't you dare calling me your dear, you slubberdegullion!!

WK, You are the damn crazy one. Of course he would deactivate his account. You think he would be bothered to delete all those posts and pictures and messages? Messages he might, but what about tagged pictures by his friends that HE CANT DELETE? Posts, you think he would be able to go through every single post he added to every single profile and God knows if he will remember them or not, then delete them? You think he's bothered, if I am in his shoes, I wouldn't bother. If I am hidding something, I will deactivate my profile. If I got nothing on me, I will show my BF, fiancee, husband (wtv) my profile.

It's not necessary to give the password, but at least he can open it infront of her (without typing the PW infront of here obviously) and show here messages, pictures, friends, posts (wtv) and show her that HE HAD NOTHING TO HIDE! That's what I know! Those other filthy moves men do, doesn't fit a woman's brain; rather fits their tiny brains!

Dhey my pleasure! ;)

May, that's what I am talking about. ;)

QS and Olive, how about going and living your own god damn lives? Instead of posting senseless comments that goes back at you IN YOUR FACES then shove it in your a**es! Sounds like a great deal waiting for you.

And QS why didn't you enlight us with your brilliant mind, or you know what that's a -18 years old thread. So you're most welcomed to kick your a** out of here without troubles. Now get lost you creeps!

Jack it's not so easy, sometimes I change it to dots as well ;)

Frankly QS I just think they're immature and stupid, and sadly if that is the real dhey in her picture then she looks about 40 and should no better then to behave like a 13 year old girl.

theres a saying that...what u dont know wont hurt u...so better not to argue in that issue...respect each others privacy...if hes really true to u, he will tell u everything bout his past...but past is past...and live always for the present and look for the future.

Olive.. who are you talking to? ..save your energy... they will never understand that spying, demanding, treating their short-term boyfriends as if they own them is a LOW style and bad taste.. all they are worried about is whether deleting the account is a "good sign" or a "bad sign" ..:)

..miserable people with little souls and selfish hearts..

WK... your pw is so easy...only asterisks ...lol

LP you ruined my day... :(... there is only one meaning for that word there cannot be another :(

Yes each one of us is entitled to our own privacy and ur only a GF and not hes wife so u should also know ur limitations... U can ask for it but u cant demand!

Me, i know all the passwords of my husband because he gave it to me so i can check all his emails & at the same time update his FB & FS profile!=D

and dont you dare delete that Fb account till I thoroughly check it.

lol IM ok ok, here you go.. My password is ********** :o)

WK, this is the millionth time....give me that pw.

its means hiding for something... but sometimes its better not to see or know inside him(FB,FS or other info).. its better to know any info with him in wellingness not force....

Give him his right of privacy....dont ask for a password to any person no matter how close you are to him/her...even if you're married...:-)

Are you CRAZYYYYY... He could have deleted the posts, messages and pics he didn't want the GF to see, he just got pissed with the continuous nagging for password and deleted the whole thing altogether..

deleting means guilty ... but no deleting in fb only deactivating, we can activate again... lol

M.E. thats what i'm thinking :) If he had nothing on it he'd rather give her password and continue to watch the football game or something like that ,he wouldn't delete account :)

tnx M.E and velluci26

*hugs

i can relate with your situation dhey! but i dont agree with what you did asking his password... of course they wont give that especially if they have still something in the past...it's really better to talk it over personally, ask him or share to him everything you wanted to know, and after that trust what he said... period... but dont be comfortable, still let your instinct works...

it's good for you coz he chooses you over that 4 years of his... but you cant erase the past, i know that there is still that big part of the guy that belongs to his past, since you're only 4 months...

i'm also in with this dilemma right now, but actually i dont ask for his password, i just visited his social accounts, and what hurts most in my case is that his social accounts is conjugal, which means it belongs to the girl and to him... it sucks... seeing there moments together especially in fs... where lots of pictures are posted... but im strong enough to view all that...

how bout you? do yo want to see that kind of memories?

I am sorry, logically deleting his account is a bad sign.

I mean if he's faithful to his girlfriend, he wouldn't delete his account. And exactly, they haven't been for that long for him to ACTUALLY delete his account for HER!

If he's an honest person, isn't hidding anything, then he wouldn't delete his account. If the account was bothering SO MUCH (because of his past) he would have deleted before even meeting the girl.

But there is certainly something wrong, and she has to be concerned. At last most men aren't to be trusted at all!

He probably deleted his account cause she was driving him nuts about it. Which she has no right to do after only 4 months in the relationship. Girl comes across as a complete psycho.

John of Arc you suck!

The important question here is "Why did he delete his account?".

Why the moment you asked him you wanted his password, he thought "Well girl, I don't want you to bring back my past, and it's over there on facebook!"

Now, he realized, that FB has all his past, and he has to delete his account; he didn't realize it 7 months ago!!??

we were taught not to disclose,show or give yours to anybody as there should be privacy in your life

whatz happens, your bf hurts you? ahh

guyz its normal to feel jelous at all times but only trust is the solution...

me my wife never ask my password bec of trust but if she ask me why not... its a matter of openess.

Even he is your hubby...you dont have the right to ask everything personal..give him space and respect...or just shot up!

but don't force it. ANd I thought that you women are good in getting whatever you want (whether we like it or not)! Lol!

As Khawaga suggested, do more orals (orals means kissing, huh?), while your finger browse his wallet looking for that elusive password! Lol!

Incase if u get the password, plz dont mind to share with us too....:)

technically speaking ur his GF not yet his WIFE so its his wish if to give or not to give the password

You've only been dating 4 months and you "love him blah blah blah" Grow up. Jealousy is NOT a natural part of a relationship and you have no right to his private accounts. Now you've probably ruined the relationship. Way to go genius.

dear dhey, this is a public forum... when you ask for advice, expect criticisms too...

I like your thinking... yeh Dhey, I think you fell off the stupid tree and hit your head all the way down... wtf were you thinking when you asked him for his password?

Quit trying to be a control freak, coz that is where all this will get you to.

he has the right not to give his password... give him his space... they are correct, don't suffocate him.. do you not trust him? if you do, then why do you need to have his password? so he doesn't ask about your past, that means he doesn't care about the past.. it's no big deal, past is past.. let sleeping dogs lie..

and not a husband yet .let him give you the PW if he wants to but if not don't insist on asking.you should know where to stand as a gf .you can still view his profile as one of the FB friends.

thanks though for the comments...

dhey as I said in my first comment, don't suffocate him with your love. Some things are meant to be personal, a few of my friends know all my passwords as there isn't anything too confidential in there but if my gf asks for it, it's a big no no. I think she is suspicious, that will make me mad. I will think why she doesn't trust me, that will get me really angry :)

i said sorry to him... he accepted it... i asked u guys to know views and an advice too. on the otherhand i just got critism... and foul words....

and i believe stupidity is not the term for that nor insecurity... it's a reality that if we love 1 person, we feel jealous... all of us, whether we say it vocally or not, we do.

qatarisun i share your opinion it is totally pointless destroying things i don't get it ... I either don't understand both of my friends ,both were cheaters but they didn't wanted to break up the relationship ... They chose to stay in messy relationship and to continue with lying ...

Well QS I did both, I deactivated my FB account and told her to go to hell :o)

I don't understand why to destroy your mobiles, accounts and computers?

If your GF is soo much dear to you, that you are willing to destroy all your stuff for her sake, why would you have or do something that she wouldn't like?

If you are still having/doing something that you know she wouldn't like, it means that she is not so much dear to you, then why not to let her go to hell along with her demands, rather than destroying things?

well you shouldn't ask it's correct

but he'll give you password if there is nothing ... so actually he is probably hiding something ...

my friend done same thing with mobile SIM card when her boyfriend asked her about some message he saw in her phone.She thought if she destroy SIM card he'll think that she is faithful and she earn 'some points' ...

my other friend also deleted account when his girlfriend wanted to login , he had some things which she wouldn't like to see ,and also the reason for deleting account was 'earning points' .

I personally never look on my bf's FB account although i have password and i don't read SMS i hate things like that because i know in situations like that couple might argue a lot for things who are not worth of fighting ... When you read something you might misunderstand the point and put yourself in unnecessarily bad position .

TCOM! you are so right!..:):)

dhey2009, WHO are you to ask anyone's password "to check what do they have there"??

there is no end to stupidity...

... let alone whom this crap again is coming from..

TCOM well said

Stupid girl. And to think of it...he sacrificed his FB account for you!

Here is some free advise: Give him some space and in future don't ever try to invade someones privacy. If you follow...better for u.

I couldn't agree with you more! What's done is done...

His and your past before you met is history and would be pointless to bring up!

He should have deleted you, not his Account

He can still create an account....either you trust or trash...XD

csymllr spot on dude, well said.

Control freak! what were you thinking of?

It just shows how little you trust him and how insecure you are!

why ask for password??..you could have just hired me and I would have hacked into his account...no problemo..everyone happy.

there is no positive way to ask for someones private information. I dont know who your trying to fool here, we all know why you wanted his password.. your only lying to yourself, you even mentioned his past relationship. Your insecurity is going to ruin any relationship you have or will have if you continue asking for stuff like a facebook password, or any password for that matter.

I caught a girlfriend looking through my phone once and that was it, I never trusted her again. It just totally shows your hand, you proved that you dont trust him and now your probably more curious and concerned then before.

Not to mention, usually people get infidelity concerns because of the things they themselves are doing. Just be thankful he at least had a pair large enough to tell you no. Now you just wont know about his next account.. have fun with that

Give him space...... and everything will be fine inshallah....

..."Lots of orals" means: Talk to him.

:-(

i didn't mean it in a negative way...

He was right not to give out his password and you should not have asked him for it. You need to come up with a good way of making it up to him. I'm thinking lots of oral.

Your BF deleted his account & you're to be blamed...

oops... FS it's ok, I re-activated it now :)

if he dont want to give ..why are you insisting? did he ask you for your pw?

when will girls start trusting their partners.

WK I should have not asked for your password:(

hahaha....if the guy what's privacy don't let her gf know his new account...hahah is there a will theres alot of way...

If you use unjust means to get info about a person, you can be sure that you will find out things you do not want to know.

you can ask but for the past just let go, and its better not to keep on asking him about it, would you give him your FB password or any of you emails password, if you are willing to do the same then we can discuss the matter deeper.

What a stupid question to ask. I don't think your relationship will last as you obviously have big trust issues.

You should never ask about anyones password no matter how close you are. Everyone is entitled for his/her privacy.

It is acceptable. Give him his space, don't suffocate him.

I did the same with my FB account a short while back, fully support the guy.