Bully People
Being a user of QL for few years now, have came across various type of personalities on QL,
with out naming anyone specific, why do some people think that their statements are always correct, do not necessary respect other people's thought process.
Be it small day to day matter's, religion, political, to them it's My way or highway.
Share your thoughts but remember no directly finger pointing toward anyone.
Yes, garce...it is in human nature; those who are blessed with divine gifts, built High Egos :(
It is our duty to make these bully realised that all fingures are NOT same and teach them how to stay on Earth, stop flying and take long those who are LESS fortunate. :)
Yep, cockroach......
the popular dialogues from Anand "hum sab rangmanch ke
katputlia hain"....(we all are puppets in the drama)
BTW...
the ONLY observer is ALmighty here.
Shakespere said 'life is a drama' . Well, I am amongst the audience (do not participate in drama)
hahaha.
cockroach you don't fit into any of those 3 categories.
chevy....................category 3..........lol
Window was opened and boys were playing baseball outside hit the water tank..and the incident :(
Sorry drmana; I could not make mysteries more thriller and exciting ;(
I don't care about the bullies.. All i care about are those who are good to me.. :)
All those types of QLers make this site colorful and fun.. So i don't care..
I can stand everything! except SMELLY people... thanks to QL I will never ever encounter those !@#$%^&^*(()_ who doesn't know proper hygiene.
I fall in second category.....soon get progression to first category and will leave QL ;D
There are three types of people on QL
1)Wise people who express their opinion and reason very well. And basically understand the fact that they are here for entertainment and ,at the most, exchange of useful information.
In reality, these people are in some kind of creative and gainful employment.
2)Stupid people who come here for entertainment, get into stupid arguements, exchange unkind words and become miserable and complaint
In reality, these people are working here for money , but find themselves extremely lonely, but in general are unhappy with everything.
3)Wicked people whose only intention is to pick on some stupid people, provoke them for heated arguement and make them miserable.These people are mentally sick and have some twisted sense of fun.
These people are basically unskilled, but with very high ambitions.They know they are big nobodies and would stoop to any low level to project themselves as 'somebody'
WK, Is garce your other ID!
stealth, Something that you don't have!
who is grace?
WK, Is grace your other ID!
garce you just hit the nail on the head.
There are really some people who wants to give the impression of being "self-righteous" and only believes to themselves.
...that instead of just sharing their thoughts and opinion, wherein we can possibly pick-up and learn something learn positive -- they just want to flaunt they're better and intellectually superior than the rest and will start making other people look stupid and inferior.
God bless them!
"Victory Austin and Marie are goldfish"......YES excluding Victory both are goldfish :)
Deepb..you too are right.....this example was a case study during FCR investigations workshop (financial crime risk) to collect all detailed informations prior concluding any case.
Thank you all for listening
Have a nice and Happy weekend!
This goldfish story is just for kids, actual answer I can provide but I heard it's a family site :P
not a good story victory. That was such a bad mystery.....
:-(
But who leaked the water of the fish tank???????:-P
hmmmm.....ok victory, point noted. But can you now please solve the mystery:-)
MURDER mystery....
The purpose of this example is to show that how we all make attempts to solve WITHOUT having complete information.
WE the real SMART People (me not an exception) percieve and interpret any situation depending upon our own experience, understanding and past learnings.....start commenting and debating WHAT "In My Opinion" is most appropriate start BULLYING with strong attitude.
deepb, you gave the twist to the story......:-)
Your two murder victims were fish and water must've leaked out from the fish tank causing their death.
Hijacked with a purpose.
I agree victory:-)
sorry DP
Victory, what a way to hijack a thread...but you made it more interesting and full of suspense.:-P
Yes Irf77...thats the point what I was saying that everybody see from a different angle (PoV) even a CSI case....waiting for some more interesting guesses :)
Appreciate, those who made some attempts on solving the murder mystery.
"Austin and Marie were found dead on the floor and there were no sign of blood anywhere, while the water spreaded all around the room, it was locked from outside. Who killed them?"
agree to disagree?
interesting and diversified views
Victory Austin and Marie are goldfish.
Very true mathboy.
There is another category of people who make you bully because they never understand a simple thing regardless of what you do. You either ignore them or bang your head against wall.
it depends who and how you define it. Sometimes just for the sake of exposing the truth, being bullish will encourage discussion and finding a good result. Anyway, what you write reflects on your character!
The answer has got something to do with ICE...which melted into water .....which spread around.....
one of thm mite have slippd & died .. seein ths the othr had a heart attck...
WK, keep your dirty mind out of here..:-)
They were having sex and... oh don't ask me to explain the rest of it.
I am a great fan of porn movies ;-)
victory, I will write all the options here:
1. They killed eachother
2. Somebody drowned them
3. They slipped and died by accident
4. May be some poisonous gas
5. both died their natural death
:-P different situations, different assumptions. By the way I am a great fan of CSI or anything related to forensics:-)
Good attempt drmana; will wait till weekend for BEST assumption :)
Victory, somebody drowned them???
can someone come and bully me, please...
I am a bully becoz I speak truth. Some bullying is needed to deal with idiots.
I am not defending anybody; it is all about one's maturity level and thinking process of this generation.
Extremely proactive, reactive and concluding before the air get clear.
E.g...Austin and Marie were found dead on the floor and there were no sign of blood anywhere, while the water spreaded all around the room, it was locked from outside. Who killed them?
We all (Qlers) know that there are different set of people with various type of skills, learnings, professions and ethincal background.
We being asians/europeans, quite emotionally attached to our traditions/religions, whenever we see any comments or post contradictory to our inbuilt values which have already learned; find extreme difficult to respond politely and gently, hence it sounds bully sometimes.
What is bully?
The one who makes other feel weak/naive and try to raise his voice/point over others views......Inshort is an idiot!
Believe me, I don't know whom you are referring about :(
I feel I still need to learn more about the subject before I can actually talk on any post/thread.
Mine is bored :(
Hmm... I do notice that you have a cat in your avatar just like me. But mine is quite active unlike your lethargic one :P
Yes ofcourse that goes without saying now :)
WK, since we are one and the same, I must have been referred to also I guess?
I think I have been referred to in a couple of comments on this thread ;-)
LOL! I know they are deepb. I always assume they are aimed at me :D
Well it is open to interpretation and quite obvious too. That is why Olive, you will live longer and happier instead of trying to re-educate them. It is just an exercise in futility. Each one to their own. Knowledge comes through education, experience and willingness to learn.
Don't be silly Olive. All generalized comments are intended at someone or the other. You should know that by now :P
And are we thinking of anyone in particular Mehnis?
absolutely correct deepb. And that too educated idiots flashing a couple of degrees and talk about life situations as they perceive as comprehended through books. Reality is so different but they insist their views are the Gospel truth because they were taught so.
That's actually one my favorite line mehnis, but you left it incomplete - "Never argue with an idiot. They will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience."
we can't digest the facts, which turns out into bashing situation, we should not interfere anyone's statement unless we have solid points... as i think so :b
Tell me how many would submit to reason and even have the maturity to accept they could have been wrong? Accepting opinions from reasonable people is fine otherwise it would be a cacophony of noise. That is why I always believe that do not argue with an idiot. They will bring you down to their level.
Bullies think they know everything. Except that others see through them and understands that they are empty vessels making too much noise.
why can't we all accept that opinions are like nose. Everyone has one.:P
While every person has an absolute right to express their own opinions I find that many are just supporting a viewpoint just because so and so has posted it. I guess it is being intimidated at worst. There are many who just argue for the sake of it and for the same reason. There are too many 'personalities' and inflated ego's here. All just wanting to prove their superiority
The problem (not just on Ql, but in life) is that there is no respect for other people's opinions. Some people just don't understand that not agreeing with you is not a personal insult towards you.
Exactly olive....reply for the argument posted by the user not to the user. Get out of the silly group mentality and give honest opinions not something to please a person or group.
drmana, they are the followers and the aspiring bullies.
Drmana those people are called the users other user names. :P
There are three bully personality types on QL ie. The bully, The bullied and The bystander.
Bullies use nasty language and personal attacks to intimidate people.
The bullied ones give in very easily and leave the grounds of their arguments.
The bystanders are either too cautious to express their opinion or too scared to anger the bullies. The bystanders scurry around the topics, beat around the bushes, seldom show their real faces.
Olive, I was only describing the catagories of bullies. The ones who argue in a civilized manner are regular people.
What about those who are more interested in supporting a specific person without bothering to check what the actual argument is about?
Nomad you have summarized well, however Olive has valid point on 4th category, who response to bullies
So what are the psychological reasons for bullies, what's in their head?
few and too far in between . So they dont count :)
What about the people who argue back to the bullies but don't use personal attacks or try to intimidate people?