Christian with Muslim
An old friend came to say hello us her old cowrkers today, we noticed that she got married wawwwwwww congratulations. We asked her what is his name , how does he look like, she said Thomas. Most of them sreamed, he is christian, how could you do that you are a muslim.She answered bravely because I love him.Oh GOD what a mess, she was frustrated and went out sad. Why the community cannot accept them?
As Goucho Marx once said - "Politics doesn't make strange bedfellows - marriage does."
same here, someonenew....how much relegion influences ur life depends on how much of hoo-haa one makes on it!
I personally know people who have married from differnt religions without convering and they are livin quie happily. No big deal.
I dream of a better tomorrow where Chickens can cross the Road without having their motives questioned - Unknown
a kid born coupla decades back (and then some more)was crying over the fone and i had to rush ;)
in hurry as if your unborn kids were crying for you
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I dint take u stupid wolf!! u put that all in the bag..remember? :-P
Actually the women in Bahrain don't kiss or smoke... They just dance.. Its the ones at the Qube that do this...
SourNurse: Go back to sleep!
yawn,yawn and I didn't even understand the thread......
sorry folk small hijack
Winn last night you took my drink you dumb azz :?
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Gypsy: Where proof/logic is possible, 'faith' is not necessary. As they say, faith is coming to the end of all u know to exist and taking the next step in the firm belief that either u will be taught to fly or ground will come up n meet u.
Which is why most organised relegions promote 'followers' rather than 'disciples', A true disciple is someone who questions everything including the basic premises on which all relegious explanations are based on.
Organised relegions allow questioning to a limit well above the basic premises. Any question tht delves deeper is answered with stuff like "God knows best". Shud say I agree with u on that.
Good for her....
Are all Bahrainis Muslim?????
i have a muslim friend(bahraini lady), she got married o german (christian) she said, ITS MY LIFE < WHO CARES!!!!!>not even her parents were able to stop her , and she is happily married
Sorry, " Cause God said so" is not really enough of an answer for me.
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explained by a religious organization, it only meant it is not the true religion. If such religion can not back-up their faith by the book they believe in, then searched for the one that will answers all your question and settle for it. From food to inter-religious marriage, if it can not be supported strongly, then it's a false one. One thing is for sure, Man can not served two Masters, whether the male or female gender.
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
The old adage "A little knowledge is a dangerous thing" comes to mind..
Most of us enter into these discussions about religion, without ample knowledge to back up our arguments..
The right way is to either do the research yourself or ask a person with knowledge of the specific area..
There are many websites around nowadays, but be warned, that some of those are "fake" and may give wrong advice / guidance..
QL is a great medium. We can share knowledge, discuss issues and give feedback, but personaly , I think religious issues need further clarifications.. This is where Princess Habibah and Umm Sulaiyam have been quite good, although again, their responses are sometimes long and put people off....BUT they do give you the gist of the issue..
i agree with u .
we must be careful with our choices of whom to ask .
and we need to use our brain .
ppl please let us end that because it will never ever end until forever comes
I've no doubt there are more people like you out there happy happy, but I was jusst suggesting to MagicDragon that she's wasting her time if she expects to find them on this site.
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You're simply asking the wrong people. Believe it or not, I have a couple of trusted resources whom I consult with. I use my brains and then re-consult the Book again, if still in doubt.
I don't consult the FAMOUS or those claiming to be religious. I'm even sorry to say, mostly I don't trust the large majority of them. I'm extra careful in this regard. Would've hated my religion if I surrendered to those or gave them my ears, let alone my brain.
Alhamdul'Allah
Salam
Stick 2 da subject....Don't move harsh 2 fight...
Dont b offensive...
Add knowledge n' save it....Do Not misuse...
Believe in ur belief...Let others do their...
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I think this is what religion brings.. a whole lot of misunderstanding and confusion for all ends.
I guess even if we don't understand the whole lot of it, we should just respect them and their beliefs.
Imagine if we didn't have to deal with religion. People will be less divided?
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I didn't mean those were litterally the first words in the Quran Happy happy, I'm just saying that if you expect a real answer beyond "God said so" don't bother asking.
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Gypsy. everything is said clearly explained then who says thats??
yea for sure if a person lacks Knowledge about any aspect will say so.
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Your statement is incorrect, even if in practice it might sound as such. The first word in Quran is "Read" i.e do your research, ask the knowledgeable, contemplate, think, use your mind. All these are clearly used all over the Book.
Don't be misled by those who claim "These are commandments"..."Allah said that, I don't know the reason". When you wholly trust in someone and you're short of knowledge or reluctant to ask, you will follow blindly. One still feels safe.
In Him (Allah)I trust, but I'm always loaded with questions, and never shy to raise them. The problem is that answers are, in so many cases, are falsified or carry personal tendencies. And there lies the real danger.
Best to consult the Book, and do hard work to get the right answer.
I am not blaming you for that statement at all.
Salam
thx
in islam you can ask about S** , love, anything and who tells you other than that will be a lier
You can ask for clarification but you can't ask EVER if it might be wrong, your answer will simply be God Knows Best.
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ehh yes...
i gave up questioning years ago... my mother just called me argumentative....
strange when you dont question you are called enlightened!
AND who told you never to ask questions in islam???
Questions should be asked if there are any doubts or want any clarifications
THERE IS NO SUCH RULE.
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do qustion every thing written in the bible and I get answers.....
"The best way to predict the future is to create it".
Never means don't answer things you don't know "Rule number 1 of Islam: Never Ask Questions" from wich book did you get the rule , in islam people can ask as much as they want, if people are reflecting another image it is their problem.
You mean True, NEVER question anything written in the Quran, the Bible or whatever other holy text. In otherwords NEVER question religion.
And since you can't ask the questions, you'll never know the real answer.
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I knew that you have wide knowledge, but not til that limit also religion, NEVER answer things you don't know
FALSE.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
salam aleykum
religion can not save soul... your fAITH to GOD do... no matter who you are and what you are, if you have the faith, GOD will be with you....
if you dont believe in Religion why are you asking us this? why dont you just be lone with yourself and leave the people alone.
a person who asks something is one who wants to increase knowledge but obvious you seem to be trying to make fun.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
MD, just to let you know so you don't keep wasting your time:
Rule number 1 of Islam: Never Ask Questions.
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if you dont believe in Religion why are you asking us this? why dont you just be lone with yourself and leave the people alone.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Better to get a clear answer from the people who are 100% into this type of things.
For the people who answered the above questions, better make sure you answer it correctly. don't give false information if you yourself is not sure.
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Yesterday is History, Tomorrows a Mystery, Treat today as a gift, that's why it is called the Present.
then dont waste your time by arguing
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if you don't beleive why are you asking or participating in this subject then
For any question in islam and as u said TRUE . go for this site and post ur question .
www.islamway.com
use it if u need to really know , but do not use it for making fun .
suppose I don't believe in religion, why should I go for those two books you mentioned?
What is that.. I answered you and if you need the reason go and do research you will find tens of reasons why a non Muslim man is not good for a Muslim women.
how is life going to be possible between a non Muslim man and Muslim women, the first thing will happen is she will lose her religion and start disobeying God as he is doing it, conflict will arise on how to raise kids etc there is a lot.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
SO MANY REFERENCES but only from 2 books
The Holy Quran and Hadit only which are to be obeyed
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please for muslims and non muslims, if you need to ask any question regarding religion ask experts please ask a priest or a sheikh , people here are messing up
the problem, DaRuDe, there are so many "references" out there.
why dont you go out and find it out yourself get the books and read it.
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please be aware that for non-muslim we can not just say that this is the islam rule because of allah we are just obeying them
but for all the non-muslim please know that we ( Muslims )when we go deeper in islam smoothly with out being fanatic actions , we find the answers for all the question that the non-muslim can not find , it is like a big palace u do not know what is inside until u live in it
"An i am sorry there is nothing like convert as every human being is born as muslim." What????
"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek." Barack Obama
Samya u r absolutely correct if anyone wants to marry muslim he/she has to revert as muslim. An i am sorry there is nothing like convert as every human being is born as muslim. so please use word revert.....thanks
realsomeone, so you don't know why?
MD rules are defined by our creator not humans, he knows what is best for our women and our men, therefore its his command and we obey it.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Why aren't women allowed to do the same ?
One rule I go by, respect others to respect yourself. You cannot force it, you have to earn it. We’re one but not the same, regardless of religion or affiliation.
Salam
In inslam, the rules of marriage of REAL ISLAM protects the women, cherish them . so i any case they will know how to take their rights, but f they married in a different way things will change
and i really mean what i said
"they", that's the men, right? Why aren't women allowed to do the same?
i am muslim , and if i need u to respect my islam i need to respect u first
life is so easy but we make it so complicated
Well Said! agree with you whole heartedly....
they are allowed to marry jewish, my cousin has married one .
we are allowed , but the problem is not in the religious rule
Looking forward to it, DaRuDe.
britexpat is Correct.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
i will get you the reference when i get back home from my super pc
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Muslim men can marry jews, they are people of the book aren't they?
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WTF!!
Everyone's today with this Religion topic ??
From what i have read and previous discussions, a Muslim man may marry a Jewish, christian or muslim woman...
From what i have read and previous discussions, a Muslim man may marry a Jewish, christian or muslim woman...
...according to what, DaRuDe?
A muslim man can marry a non muslim female
but a muslim female cant marry a non muslim male
and a muslim man can never marry a jew female.
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religion is a very sensitive subject ,
but for me u can say whatever u want , because if i gave myself the right to believe in what i want , i must give others the same right too
we only need to respect the other , accept them , and say what we want
i am muslim , and if i need u to respect my islam i need to respect u first
life is so easy but we make it so complicated
but i think we will never be able to answer that question ,
until the answer will be known , let us believe that we need to respect each others , and we need to be good to each others .
no one is better than anyone , all we need to be free and to let others be free too
but i am sure about that religion does not need people , because people do not make religion , but as i said noway to finish the argument about it .
Deleted... Cant be bothered...
Imagine, there is a Friday prayer in the mosque, and nobody goes there. I agree with you, gypsy.
was discussed over and over no problem, we want it to be another over ast least we don't right pages
If no people followed the religion then there would be no religion, so really, religion does need people Mohammed, it's much more in question whether or not people really need religion.
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I was totally baffled with her 2 comments... :)
Gypsy- Your right, thats what my parents did, even though none of their family spoke to them for a long time.. They followed their hearts... :)
Ofcourse anyone can love any one
The point is the prohibition of the marriage between the mentioned person in islam is true .
Any if u r muslim u need to obey it . because in certain levels or real creditability of a muslim she/he well be convinced about that rule
But in case u do not accept it , so don’t but it will show the commitment level of the muslim
No religion is in need of someone but we believe that people need the religion
So u are free to choose that is my opinion ( I am muslim )
Congratulations to both of them for standing up for their love.
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Thank you, Oryx. My English is poor.
Magic they are not called parenthesis - ( ) they are called quotation marks... " "
so no...Samaya wouldn't have noticed something that it isnt' there.
did you notice the paranthesis? my Dear?
Samya Allah knows the person's intention but what we are required to do is to welcome the new Muslim no matter what his reasons maybe.
its possible that Allah showers his mercy on him and no matter what his intention was the first he maybe a good muslim later.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
Who r "Sinners"
"sinners"
Well when I was in Bosnia I met a non-Muslim man married to a Muslim woman ... and they were both happy.
After the nasty war there - the whole story was completely heart warming...
They just loved each other.
But what if the man converts to Islam for Marriage, is that not allowed then?
Langaguge used by you shows your Level of Education and again Salute for that Brave Woman
Ban Spoon Feeding not Me
over ??????????
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.. sorry.. over and over and over
Equality. Pft...
Samya that is correct about the Muslim man. for the Muslim women its not allowed at all, no matter if he converts later. establishing a relationship from the first place is wrong.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
What r u banging on about now???? go away...
Three Hearty cheers / salutes to that Brave woman with a solid spine :)
Ban Spoon Feeding not Me
In Islam its not allowed for a Muslim woman to marry a non muslim man, but a Muslim man can marry a non muslim woman as long as the children are bought up as muslim... I think this is right.. Realsomeone and others should know the right rule..
My mum had the same responce, she is Arab and married a englishman but he converted to Islam in order to marry my mummy :)
Islam doesn't allow Muslim women to marry non Muslim man, If she anyway broke the laws of God. I think people should just give her some peace, because she will be the accountable one not anyone else.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi