The Contradiction Between Religion & Emotions
I am a new comer to doha, was feeling lonley but now no. no longer feeling lonely. i have now a girl friend which share me my life. online and face to face. although we are completlelt friends but i can't do the real love (sex intercousre)with her because i fear allah(god).on the other hand whenever we meet she ask for real love even if we do all the play in all things but she want intercourse but i refused and refused politly and aggressively. but i am sad and afraid that one time i will obey and go. coz we are very close to each other.
can you tell me wht to do?
first: continue with her and insist on being virgin although we practice love with virginity.
second: continue with her and do love (sex) for the first time in my life and loose my religion.
third:leave her at all and return lonely again(very hard) and search for a muslim which can understand the aspect?
Hey guys... he said he already stop any relationship with the girl.. hehehehehe.. sad dude.. very sad..
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
I believe Alexa owns God, 5 Super Holy Mary Prayers for her transgression.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
There aren't really that many options.
To satisfy her and your religion, you must marry her.
To satisfy her and yourself, and without caring about religion, then just bang her.
However, can I make 2 observations:
1 - If she really wants it that bad, she's not going to wait for you to marry her. So if you don't do her soon, she'll find someone else willing to do it instead.
2 - If you are really so religious that you don't want to screw your girlfriend, why even seek advice about it? Surely you know what everyone is going to say?!!!
wats wrong with u ? hehhe u wanna guys wanna kick my bhutt ? :)
this thread get's burried...i think hannyany's problem will be history :D
wanna bet? :P
marry her
or continue foreplay stuff !!
here is a better idea , go and ask "Shiekh" in privacy, whether it haram or halal
LOOOOOOOL ...
in the next thread all QLers will hear under a title :
( why i cant get her orgasm ? ) some other details about sex life of another cute couple .. ( any under-age ppl around ??)
lol Pajju
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
Recently..He's into a threesome... So he will be easy to notice... ;P
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I saw him sniffing around some corner of this thread.. ;p
BeeP BeeP.........
Were is tat Rodent named " PAjju" ...:)
this mallu-king of hijacking threads :)
hi Dracula....dont check me out....lol
Thats what she did to me too.. Didnt want to hurt your sardar emotions... ;P
yea i saw :)) actually she meant u only she did PM to me :P
Pajju.. you know apple has mistook us for sardars...
controlled :)
Pajju... You should learn to control... haha ;)
lolz jack :))))))))))))))
Pajju Homo ...leave my a$$ alone...
u goin tonite ? i got other appointment allready :P
Pajju you look desperate man?...lol
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wanna break lolz :P
Pajju ...yes I m still a virgin...in the backside...lol
u still virgin ? :))
hanyyany you practice love with virginity?
How? Please explain.
u dashhhhh u alive ? why no call n all ? :))) yea yea u know that am bloody bachleor :P
Pajju you thread hijacker .. u wana hijack babes too now??
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poor gal , can u PM me her number i will make her happy :)))
a very difficult decision but i already did, coz intercousre is a big haram in islam not life foreplay and in order not to be weak in any other time.
this is my doings related to the issue and thanks all for your advice.
see you when the life be more bright!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You will not be able to carry the burden of illegal sex my friend. So marry her or stay away from her.
and by the way, having illegal sex is not "real love" its the opposite.
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
The girl is virgin too?
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When the eye becomes the heart, the heart becomes the eye ... Wasif Ali Wasif
Respect as in not having sex and drop her afterwards. ;)
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
i hope you guys don't mind but i'm wondering, after marriage, in Islam, can the girl's family determine when we can move in to live together?
Ayman
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
except for intercourse, they have done everything, where is respect there?
I see a lot of "crazy" suggestions for this "crazy" guy with a "crazy" girl. The question is, what is the crazy solution really is?
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
CEASE ALL RELATIONS with her????
And marry a total stranger from his village?
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hmm, go for it man but don't forget her fealings and how hard it is for a non virgin single girl to get married, if she's muslim.
Always respect her, God is love and when you love you please God/Allah
Ayman (The Lucky; right)
Only God Can Judge Me
الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي
I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer
أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ
My friend is here my advice, CEASE ALL RELATIONS with her immediately. Intercourse will satisfy you for one stand but you will never be able to pay the price.
If not able to do that, marry her immediately and rock her all day and night. :D
Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!
- Jalaluddin al-Rumi
I think one of the undisclosed problem here is that he feels that he may never get to marry that girl.
My advice, just go ahead and do it bro, don't tell me you don't wank off anyway. Moreover, having a girlfriend itself and foreplay in Islam is haraam. You have already sinned and pretty much gonna burn in hell for quite a few years for doing all that. Might as well go all the way and add few more years, what the heck!
For all that you know, there's no heaven or hell after your death. I'm not one of those who would die wondering!
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Way to go Ray!
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continue with her and do love (sex) for the first time in my life and loose my religion.
You will lose your verginity not your religion ...
Just note, this is not legal and you can both be jailed and deported if something goes wrong ...
Saying that ... go ahead and lose it man .. you only live once ...
"The best way to predict the future is to create it".
and mind you, the girl is sooooooooo aggressive.
The one million dollar question is, IS SHE REAL?????
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
Yeah...Lucky bugger but sad situation... lol..;)
if it is foreplay .. u need not to worry about "FEAR OF GOD" coz it is not there at all man
as in Islam -if u r muslim- it is not allowed to do that with a woman unless u r married
You must a very lucky newcomer to Doha and got a girl friend already? there are people here for years that are still waiting? you lucky bugger..
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HE WHO DARES WINS
It's called foreplay I think..
Hhmm.... now what's with the donkey DA??
Cheers
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
i showed you your donkey what it was doing while staring at those gals in bikini.
is that what you teach them how to behave in public :?
excuse me!!
can u explain this :
"we do all the play in all things "
"we practice love with virginity"
what the quoted sentences are supposed to mean exactly??
For 1 million QR, I won't divulge the secret of your Donkey in the photo to the public.
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I think is time for you to sit inside my confession booth, lets talk about it in private. Dirty old man. :P
Hani,
There is nothing in Islam that prohibits u from marrying her and doing what u want...
If u have issues with going public with it ( familly back home wont understand, u r not sure if it is the real thing etc etc..) , you can always make it between u , her and God ( and 2 whitnesses off course) untill u can make up ur mind about these issues..
This is off course provided she is a christian or a jew..ie believer..
If she is not, then u might want to introduce her to the idea of God, and if she would choose to convert.
If she is not a believer and would not to convert to Islam, chritianity or Juadism, leave her, and God will send u someone else :) women are not exaclly in short supply if u know what i mean.
I'm with supernurse on this one... Shag her fast man... then decide what next..
Cheers
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Heard your wife left you,
How upset you must be.
But don't fret about it...
She moved in with me.
Now Pope you have a point.. But who cares.. He asking should he or should he not shag her? I say neither...lol
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HE WHO DARES WINS
In this subject and you sure can provide your knowledge to the poor chap who is nil in this LOVE field :D
and then get them back to your confession booth asking them tell me what you did last night :D
I think the man (hannyany) has already done the business he is only realises his mistake...lol
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He's statement is just a classical note of morals being conflicted with his inner desires of the flesh. At least he is honest about it.
While the flesh is weaker and the spirit is stronger, what he needs to do is pray for strength to walk away from the desire of the flesh (sin) that way he will reinforce the spirit. Take your mind ofF that precarious moment, focus in something else. Read the bible or the koran, recite some verses.
It is mind over matter, to be or not be. Other wise he would fall pray to the desire of fornication which is a form of sin. Is not easy to walk away from that kind of temptation when you are young man.
next he will be asking should i condom what size oh and which flavor do you think she will like the most lol
will do that...:D
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Well i think qatari should change the registration form of QL he should add a new point. Only +18 may join the site :D
You pervert am trying to teach him the decent one :D
guys :))
DA you naught boy.. there are kids on this forum? lol
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Girlfriend for what Pajju? for friendship or as Khanan just found out for true love?
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are you saying up there man
hey come here and take this _|_ and get a life
am single , 22 year old , lookin for gal friend
you better get back to my class so i can teach you what love is :D
May be she only wants one thing from you.. like Supernurse said be fast or she will not last..lol
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Go ahead Hany, marry the lass, make an honest woman out of her. I guarantee you will not have the 'real love' issues anymore, marriage generally kills all of that.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
As adviced by UKEng, Marry her and live a legal life and meet her desire.
I think either you are clever little rascal or sad case.. as you said we do all other things but not real love??...lol
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i just understand the meaning of real love today!!!
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Have Courage To Live.
Anyone Can Die.
You gotta be kidding me, I think this guys already knows the answer... just baiting as Brit said.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Marry her and do all the things you dread or leave her and have a peaceful life..
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Oh God too much information...just shag her and be done wi'it man!....yes she probably will leave you if you don't come up with goods so get in there quick!
:D
WYSIWYG
what to do?
This is what makes QL so very very interesting. I am dreading that someone may actually take the bait and start offering advice..