Deceitful Asian wife exposed!
I just read the lying topic here in Qatar and I guess this topic is parallel to this.
How much do you trust your wife? Do you even know what bull…s… they say to their friends? Surely, they might seem sweet using their sexually to get what they want but do you really know who they are as a person? How long did you know this person before marrying them?
This one Asian chick I know (not Filipino) she continues to lie to her husband by stealing money and sending remittance to her family “apart” from what her husband was sending every month. How do we know? She blabs about it in our group.
She lies about everything she does. She lies about things she buys or even where she bought from and most especially the price she tells almost triples. She forgets one of us is with her when she buys things sometimes and she tells the wrong story in our little get together.
She got caught so many times when some of our friends have get together and keep finding out that we all had different version of her stories.
She is a good listener and observant about what is happening to you and your experiences in life but the sad part is she is delusional and copies your exact experiences and tell the story as if it is her very own experiences and that things happened to her instead of you.
It is kind of freaky as she even copies your personal style the way you dress, buying the same exact dress, exact colour etc and buying exact things in your house.
The sad part is we continued to be nice and polite to her and accepted that she is somehow psychotic but she will never be considered as a real friend that can be trusted but we refer to her as just a person that we have met and never to be introduced to other people.
It's so easy for you all to say disparaging things about this person but I think she really needs your help and prayers.
He who has no sin let him cast the first stone, this is what the bible tells us.
Men are like chocolates, wait too long and only the nutty ones are left!!!
It's so easy for you all to say disparaging things about this person but I think she really needs your help and prayers.
He who has no sin let him cast the first stone, this is what the bible tells us.
Men are like chocolates, wait too long and only the nutty ones are left!!!
Nothing is more relaxing than flying like an Eagle in Heaven !!
cool!! i have known dozens of this type! that is life :) smile and stop complaining! and about the trust ... it is complicated. u cant trust some1 100% ... only God can be trusted 100%. even sometimes when u feed all the woman needs (sexually,socially,economically,....) she betrays u and vice versa! it s just a matter when u let ur instinct guide u and become a real bastard or bitch!
Yup, the lie detector - everytime it is used on 'Asians', there is a short circuit.
Ooooo and the poor poor husbands - Almighty have some mercy on them. They are being cheated, robbed sob....sob...cruel world sob......
and those Asians should be ashamed of themselves ;-P
'Asian' Oh Yes!! It is an asian thing - lying and being deceitful. It is in the genes.
Sigh !!! the mighty asian race - exposed.
Umm... here's my 2 cents:
Well firstly you haven't exposed the person. I don't care if you do or don't, but the title of the thread is a little misleading :p
Secondly, does it make a single bit of difference what the person's nationality is?
Thirdly, why do people make remarks like 'it couldn't possibly be a xxxx because their husbands never do this' or 'it must be someone from xxxx because they are all like that'. Each statement is a racist as the other. Nationalities are diverse, and such sweeping statements are a daft as they are general.
Lastly, most people know at least one person like that. They are all over the place, so my advice is that if you find them annoying, call them on their sh*t and move on. Don't waste your precious time being spun lies by people who make crap up. It's an insult to your intelligence.
SEBICHANMJOSE's mother, for sure....sebichanmjose's mother, iam sure!!!
Interesting that you've mentioned staying away...i check the site a lot lesser than I used to...
Thanks for your post...my thoughts exactly.
Either confront the person and deal with it.
Keep the person at arms length
but saying this in public and stirring things up helps no-one.
U probably just made the situation worse.
- THE WOMAN is NOT FILIPINO (Thank GOD, for that)....
- She is a member of a group other that QL? Coz if she is, there's a handful of Asian (married women) here and it would be likely than not, we MIGHT know her.
Hmmm...and THE PLOT thickens...just kidding :-P
if it bothers u, stay away from her. if you are concern you can be straight forward to talk issues with her.
yes i agree she have some inferiority problems...
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
oh yeah,....forgot about that.....
mjamille, it can't be you. No Filipinos!
it's me!
Ok, ICU, I got your point.. You just want to share with us your bad experience with one of your mates.. well.. I agree…It's pretty disgusting..
So…how about just stop having a friendship with her? If I cannot accept someone’s life values and types of behavior, I just eliminate this person from my life. I also use to have one co-called “friend” , but she went way too far, and I just erased her from my life, and erased her name from my memory. Who has lost? I don’t think I have, considering that I was her the ONLY friend in Qatar.
You cannot change this girl, no way. She USE to lie, she IS lying, she WILL lie.
But what’s going on in her family it’s really non of anyone’s business.
As for wearing the same clothes, as I said, just don’t invite her to any parties… and don't talk to her..
ICU, it's you!!
hari...then escape from here fast...
Qatar living is starting to look like a cheap gossip board..too many post on cheating wives and women out to make money...a real pity!
Andrew...OKeeeee...then move to kayamkulam kochunnuii...
Nathan WTH u r doing here???? get out of this silly gossip thread.........
" Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated"
....G.B. Shaw
I think I know of someone with similar problem but in male version.
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CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
(Tasweer shahkaar wo lakhon main bik gai ...
bacha jis main bagair roti k udaas hai)
FS...she got only one mouth or more...
ok ICU... so you must just be venting... maybe you could introduce her to QL and find a way to let her come across this thread.. that is, if she's not yet a QL member...
about copying somebody's identity... well, it can be annoying sometimes but what if you try to look at it in a positive way? think you're her fashion icon/idol... see, she dress like you because she likes how you dress...
but the constant lying is just plain annoying.
perhaps this message will reach her and other people with the same problem and realise that they should find their own identity.
Most importantly for the guys to know who they marry.
perhaps this message will reach her and other people with the same problem and realise that they should find their own identity.
Most importantly for the guys to know who they marry.
Hmm but wouldn't that be their personal business?? I don't know.. I'm just saying..
good question, greentea...
But it kind of annoying sometimes turning up with the same exact clothes or sometimes I don't want her to get hurt either. We were at the party once and one of my friend cannot tolerate her lies and cross questioned her it was not a pleasant experienced for everyone.
Talking to her is useless and she couldn't get our "hint" perhaps due to her poor english.
Of course helping out her family is definitely a good thing but her husband already doing that she just decided to do more without him knowing it. The bad part is she also lie by saying to her husband that she spends the money on their groceries etc but pocketing the money.
what do you want QL to do with your friend?
janey, i was about to say im the wife....
she got two eyes and one nose...but only two ears..lol
What does it matter where she is from? And why are you gossiping about her?
I'm the wife guys.
I've gone mental. Thank you.
Listen.. this girl has got some big issue. It is kind of sickness. She perceives wishful thinking. Most probably she even doesn’t enjoy it, it is rather her sentence. I don’t even think she realizes what she is doing. And it doesn’t look like she does it with some malicious intent. She is just mentally not stable… You guys have to talk to her.. probably she will understand that there is something wrong..
to be honset i even didn't understand what exactly is her "crime"? That she sends money to her family, or that she copies someone's style?? Cause "lying" cannot be consider as a crime in her case. As i understand, she doesn't hurt anyone by her "lies".. She just lives in her own world of wild imagination..
ICU...need more clues...
I know for fact that filipino do not have to hide things from their partners as their partners are willing to give anyway.
thanks for clearing it up, ICU....
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You can't teach experience...
so ICU clearly stated she's not filipina....somebody else thinks otherwise...
FS...means men are not allowed here...
Agree with you. she obviously is insecure...
Needs help, not abuse..
Sounds to me as though she (the lady referred to) has a BIG inferiority complex and the need to *keep up with the Jones's*.
If she's sending money home perhaps she can't afford to keep up?
Not sure what to say about taking extra money from her hub to send to her family, but maybe he realises ... who knows.
'we' expat woman group..lol
.whoever she is, obviously she is such a DG.
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.sebi...joserizal=====.your post is not worth a fig...
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where is ICU?
just clarify.."WE"
Ofcourse, she's a Philippino.... No other expacts can do such things....
I wonder why don't the hus kick that unfaithfull wife out of the door of his life????????
yes.. we dont want to know who she is...because its non of our business..:) just wonder what you are trying to say?
i think she is.. though i doubt if her identity will ever be revealed here... anyways, it's NOMB....
Is she a QL member?
hmm, wonder who she is...