An intelligent women makes her husband feel like a king and becomes the wife of a king and a stupid women makes him feel like a fool and becomes wife of a fool.
It's not for everyone. A deeply intimate and loving relationship between two people is a wonderful thing that doesn't require being married. A wedding neither creates or guarantees lasting love, devotion or happiness.
Communication, trust/honesty, love, respect and full commitment to one another. This is a recipe for a successful marriage.
Trust and love of yester years has gone missing while we climbed up in education and freedom cos now we have "my rights" and "the law" in our homes whom we rely on more than the individual we are with.
The main cause is the dispute of mind set like BABUROA & GHAZALZ and this usually happen among people got married too early, both has to be matured enough before to have family responsibility.
THIS RELATION IS LIKE A TWO WAY TRAFFIC ON A ROAD. IF ONE TRY TO RUIN OTHERS ROAD MUST BE BLOCKED AND CONGESTION WILL RESULT INTO DISASTER. SAME IS THE CASE HERE. DIVORCE NORMALLY HAPPENS AS A RESULT WHEN TWO DOESNOT HAVE THE COURAGE TO ACCOMODATE EACH OTHER. IF TWO WILL NOT RESPECT EACH OTHERS DURING LIFE IT WILL FALL IN WHAT YOU CALLED " DIVORCE ".
Well 'spouse' and 'marriage' doesn't make much of a difference in this case. If I understand correctly, you said one could change ones marrriage like he/she changes the employer/company.
In my opinion we don't take any oath when we join a company and we can change our jobs for higher responsibilities or salary.
I don't say "spouse" like a job. I say Mariage like a job. And yes, I do say it. You can stay with the same Company for your entire life only if it satisfies all your needs, at all times, right? Same withthe marriage. Oterwise you leave and look for something different.
People grow apart.. Marriage like a job. When you are young, you are happy to get any.. then you are growing, and you want different things in your job. You are lucky if your ‘job’ is growing with you, i.e. you get promoted, you like your new responsibility, and such. If not, you leave the Company and look for another job. Else, if the Company isn’t satisfied with you, they terminate you and hire another person. This is normal a process. Why marriage should be different? We keep changing during our entire life. Two are lucky if they are changing/growing in the same direction. If not, at some point it doesn’t work anymore. One has to “quit” and to find another “job”.
britexpat we womens prefer living with husband easy life or harder but not far from husband.
Baburao-Ganpatr... its not that u cant blame GCC girls its in the up bringing of the girls n boys
tahsinmim said babu : I agree with u is the understanding which lacks but koi kitna cooprimes karey n guys r not ready to except they mistake they have ego problems n possessive by nature by which the relations dont last
those who gona get married keep ur wife away from ur mother in law before she applies divide n rule policy , she can visit her house no problem but always keep a grip n best of luck for ur future
wife screw driver is lost , she pays more attention to her mother than her husband. i just dont understand why some pussy cats marry if they cant live without their mother
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lol ...it should not be tht way we shud treat each other equally n understand each other as a friend .thn marriage will last ever n long
An intelligent women makes her husband feel like a king and becomes the wife of a king and a stupid women makes him feel like a fool and becomes wife of a fool.
i think they finally figured out forever lasted a long time than they expected LMAO
Qatarisun if put it like that, then i have to have my own company, which is i have to have my own wife as well
It's not for everyone. A deeply intimate and loving relationship between two people is a wonderful thing that doesn't require being married. A wedding neither creates or guarantees lasting love, devotion or happiness.
Communication, trust/honesty, love, respect and full commitment to one another. This is a recipe for a successful marriage.
Enjoy the life with.....Happiness........
qatarisun : ITS JUST DISGUSTING HOW CAN ANY ONE TAKE A RELATION AS A JOB AND UR SPOUSE AS UR EMPLOYER MEANS U EXCEPT A PAY FOR UR JOB?????????????
http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/images/mr/steps.pdf
babu and baby ghazalz her mommy's baby baby baby
britexpat & Captain_Lost, Yes I got married at the age of 19 and I don't know much about babu and his babi :P
I agree with QS. it was one thing putting up with a spouse you didn't like much when you died at 35. It's another when you die at 90!
They both or one of them want to diversify
Trust and love of yester years has gone missing while we climbed up in education and freedom cos now we have "my rights" and "the law" in our homes whom we rely on more than the individual we are with.
1. Lack of commitment from both sides
2. Lack of respect from both sides
3. Throwing the responsibility for every thing on one party
4. Involving families in couples problems even for very small problems.
5. Speaking the secrets of the couple life to others.
6. Lack of education on the roles of husband and the role of the wife.
and many other factors,
At the end what will you choose?
Will you choose a miserable life for ever or divorce?
Brit... i guess they got married too early.. very young couple .. God bless you BG and Ghazalz :P
Are you saying that Baburao and ghazalz are a couple ? i never knew that .
*wink wink* ... any ladies??
Divorce rates are high because most marriages don't last :).
Why? Coz some men can't stop winking and ladies can't stop falling :).
The main cause is the dispute of mind set like BABUROA & GHAZALZ and this usually happen among people got married too early, both has to be matured enough before to have family responsibility.
understand reason for your existence and earn respect for your dignity..............................
THIS RELATION IS LIKE A TWO WAY TRAFFIC ON A ROAD. IF ONE TRY TO RUIN OTHERS ROAD MUST BE BLOCKED AND CONGESTION WILL RESULT INTO DISASTER. SAME IS THE CASE HERE. DIVORCE NORMALLY HAPPENS AS A RESULT WHEN TWO DOESNOT HAVE THE COURAGE TO ACCOMODATE EACH OTHER. IF TWO WILL NOT RESPECT EACH OTHERS DURING LIFE IT WILL FALL IN WHAT YOU CALLED " DIVORCE ".
agree with you...when the woman want to rule, family collapses
oh i thought it was bcoz of that Marital RAPE!!
Well 'spouse' and 'marriage' doesn't make much of a difference in this case. If I understand correctly, you said one could change ones marrriage like he/she changes the employer/company.
In my opinion we don't take any oath when we join a company and we can change our jobs for higher responsibilities or salary.
QS, You say spouse is like a job?? Interesting!!
I don't say "spouse" like a job. I say Mariage like a job. And yes, I do say it. You can stay with the same Company for your entire life only if it satisfies all your needs, at all times, right? Same withthe marriage. Oterwise you leave and look for something different.
every think should be for Allah(god) then all will be ok
People grow apart.. Marriage like a job. When you are young, you are happy to get any.. then you are growing, and you want different things in your job. You are lucky if your ‘job’ is growing with you, i.e. you get promoted, you like your new responsibility, and such. If not, you leave the Company and look for another job. Else, if the Company isn’t satisfied with you, they terminate you and hire another person. This is normal a process. Why marriage should be different? We keep changing during our entire life. Two are lucky if they are changing/growing in the same direction. If not, at some point it doesn’t work anymore. One has to “quit” and to find another “job”.
britexpat we womens prefer living with husband easy life or harder but not far from husband.
Baburao-Ganpatr... its not that u cant blame GCC girls its in the up bringing of the girls n boys
tahsinmim said babu : I agree with u is the understanding which lacks but koi kitna cooprimes karey n guys r not ready to except they mistake they have ego problems n possessive by nature by which the relations dont last
Questions to the OP..
Quote "Why is the divorce rate so high and Why most marriages don't last ?" Unquote.
1. Are you talking about any particular region, country, society or religion or the planet in general?
2. What is/are the acceptable divorce rate(s) in your opinion and why?
3. What percentage you are talking about when your say 'most' marriages don't last?
4. When you say 'last' what is your acceptable time span for a marriage to last?
wife should be obedient to her husband and husband should be very kind to his wife. then relationsship can go a long way.
behind you...u are right about women in GCC ,But same reasons do not apply to women worldwide.
Babu ..u are no doubt single...what do u mean by "keep a grip on her" is a wife to u some 'break pedal'?
(dont be annoyed)
From place where i belong Women are very delicate you need to understand them..
LMAO ! brite love u mate
Question: Why do many women prefer to come to Qatar and live a harder life.
Answer: Get away from the mother in law :O)
Its fate
we were talking divorce in general not to be specific on GCC or Qatar, divorce is becoming a norm nowadays , like changing mobiles or laptops
if she is right she has the full right but when she is not right she will have to open the left door n take a right
those who gona get married keep ur wife away from ur mother in law before she applies divide n rule policy , she can visit her house no problem but always keep a grip n best of luck for ur future
im single ... learning a lot from this post =
yes from past experience
Babu, are you speaking from experience? :)
Been a long day.. Time to relax..
wife screw driver is lost , she pays more attention to her mother than her husband. i just dont understand why some pussy cats marry if they cant live without their mother
This thread is so full of useful info !!!
It's easy to pass the buck to mother in law, why not blame on wife?
offcourse the thorn is mother in law and she surely gona pain
Agree 100% with Tahsin.. if a thorn picks you, it does pain !!
tahsin did i talk abt the girl ?
n nowadays too much interference of mother in laws, they cant let live husband and wife live peacefully n poke nose in between every now n then
Brit... Forget about it?? how's your day going so far :P
Tahsnin... Indeed, all 5 Fingers are not Same !! Such wisdom only on QL :)
I am talking about generaly why divorces occur..
ghazals gone r the good olden days nowadays girls just look for leisure life iphone, blackblerry, want maid at home to do house work
Working ladies are not problem at all they are blessing and support to many...
Babu, that's your experience and this is mine.
problem is working ladies , they earn then there is WWF in the house for the position of Big Boss
ghazalz i dont mind ur comment ladies never agree with their mistakes
hahahhah@ghazalz
Babu, whatever you wrote, girls/ladies read:
Father in laws are the root cause of divorces, they don't teach their son's manners and to respect their wife.
i agree with babu point of view also
lACK OF SACRIFICES ALSO
People expecting too much from relationships.
Unwilling to compromise.
More education and freedom for women.
Men unwilling to change.
mother in laws are the root cause of divorces, they dont teach their daughter's manners and to respect their husbands
Lack of mutual understanding is the main reason!!!!!!