Do you have this feeling of being stalked…
Have you ever get this feeling? Veeeery creepy feeling that someone knows what you are doing at the moment, talks to, places you’ve gone to…and the irking fact that you want to know who is stalking you?...(stalking who stalks you…weird right?)
“There's no easy way to predict who might become a stalker. It could be a former boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse; a fellow employee who has spotted his target in some casual encounter; a hostile neighbor; a video store clerk; and even a stranger who happens to have seen the victim on the street.”
ever experience being stalked? how did you dealt with it?
Hi there! My apologies, I didn't see your question to me in this thread about whether Oryx was back from her holiday yet. The answer is I don't know!
I think she left around 24 July didn't she? But I've no idea how long she was going to be away - wasn't she going to visit 2/3 countries, not just Uganda?
Really can't remember, sorry. Miss her on QL though :o(
good morning owen, how are you today?
First, he annoyed me because he was walking close, as if we're together!!
Second, why did he run away when he heard the (Ambulance) sirens..)) that was the funny part of it all.
And honestly, I kept myself poised and did not really call the police. I was just acting to ward him off, without harm.
Salam
I have seen a similar case on corniche and then they both sat down chatted for a few moments exchanged numbers on phone and left in different directions. So I think the guy may have been intereted in you, just that he was too shy to speak his mind out.
May b the guys should b taught how to make a pass or the opening line.
jauntie, has Orix come back from her trip to UGANDA.
Now I understand why Oryx goes around 'hand bagging' offenders roflmao
She knows she has the right!
Hey all girls next time if somebody stalked you, go straight up to him and slap him hard. He can't do a thing in Doha and after that complain to the Police. He is the Guilty party until proven innocent. You are protected by a thing called Women's Charter
Chix being interested with someone isn't a problem. It's how and how far you go showing your interest to someone (who may not be share the same to you) - that can result to stalking..
owen sometimes being just interested to someone is mistakenly treated as stalking, and i think that is not fair.
I don't think I will pretend I am calling the police, if a stalker followed me for days. I will really call and report.
I just thought I'd be as patient as much as I can with the Cornich stalker, because I kept convincing myself it was nothing, and I did not want to cause him problems either! you can call me naive! but just what happened.
But this feeling really makes you doubt the cup in your hand! the mirror you look at!...insecurity is one of the worst feelings.
Salam
"Love is not a mere sentiment. It is the ultimate truth that lies at the heart of creation."
Rabindranath Tagore
I'm jogging round my laptop, limbering up before I go out shopping to buy some wolf bait and a BIG trap !
Dont watch me watch Jauntie she is pretty entertaining :D
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who is that??? you mean Da Ru De me??? hey mind it ok its DaRuDe if u love that thin long on ur face or will u know next :D
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who's DaRaDe? lol
Darude, I am watching you right now, I will go tell your boss what you are doing...naughty bad boy, take your hand out of there.
tra la la
YOU read the thread, boyo! It's to do with being stalked and darling said someone is internet stalking her
grrrrrrrrrrrrr
happyhappy, no no no..im just comparing notes, coz you see, if you in this case, already sense and recognize this "stalking" within a short period...what would be if its like days already?
and hamlet is somewhat correct, this now becomes a paranoia..
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Mind readin the topic headin plz :/
stop hijackin thread or i will sue you now :D
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leave me leave me i wana stalk happy happy and i have challanged her for a walk in dunes :D
hey hey wait what did u say you going for walk with me or planning to get rid of me u u u jasso :/
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if he knows who you chat to and has access to your e-mail and, say, messengers then what he has is your password NOT access to your entire computer - if this is what you meant by knowing who you speak with. But if it's still happening, why haven't you done something about it? I would have been straight round to the nearest computer consultant to get it sorted out! lol
*oamonteiro: The incident I mentioned was some years ago and the person was and still is a very good friend. I had no worries. :o)
Oh, and I just remembered, that was two laptops ago also!
Own, is there something I should worry about here? I really have not seen him since then.
Honestly, I thought I glimpsed him somewhere else close to the area where I live, after this incident. But then again I came back to my senses. It just that he freaked me out and he was on my mind all the time for a few days.
I was so annoyed Owen!! never been through a situation like this before. he was really persistent!
Salam
"Love is not a mere sentiment. It is the ultimate truth that lies at the heart of creation."
Rabindranath Tagore
I will meet you at those Dunes, better make your meal before great cause it will be your last.
We walk walk walk slowly just for you on out and then bam you go to sleep with the fishies. Who wants to walk? Lets go.
tra la la
happy happy, you only see that guy for that particular 1 day? or he has been always around you for quite sometime?
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i walk i dont run or dont do joggin thats my speed :D
accept the challange c'mon dunes from 4pm umsaeed :D
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My dear Darude,
Do you need escort? PM me anytime.......
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Are you tricking me!!! 10k/h is not a brisk walk! it is actually jogging. Which I am not good at...
Got a plan though, no stone involved of course, but I will find something for you to trip over. Then I'll come back to pick you up..:)
Very hostile me!
i challange u for walk too u cant walk 7.5km/h i walk 10km/h. what u say when where . prefer the dunes c'mon accept it.
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CharanSantiwong:
Oh my God!!! I thought I was the most aggressive girl when I am upset!!! all I did is just PRETENDED I am calling the police!
Your wife really nailed her stalker! retaliated and vented her anger too..:)) I bit he never, in his whole life, will he approach a woman on the street again.
Good on her...nice move. Next time I'll keep a stone in the pocket.
Ummm, looking forward to my next prey, although I don’t get stalked all that often. This is a very safe and lovely country.
Ya Darude:
I do brisk walk buddy, just trying to keep up with my pace, requires you to exercise for the whole year, just to meet the challenge…)
"Love is not a mere sentiment. It is the ultimate truth that lies at the heart of creation."
Rabindranath Tagore
Don't tell she is going to haunt me again(:
This is happened in real life to my wife.She was walking from the office to my apartment.(less than 100m distance)Suddenly there appered an Indian looking guy in a big 4X4 (may be he is the driver of somebody) and following her honking and gesturing her to come inside his car. Guess what my wife did. she waited another 2 vehicles coming near her and took a big stone and hammer the windscreen of the 4X4. Windscreen shattered. Guy stunned and another 2 vehicles stopped. The guy got his memory back and speed away from the scene like a trace of bullet. my wife got home then only she phoned me to tell the story. She has never seen him again.
tell me what time you go to corniche i will come there and stalk you . then when u call the police and they come i will tell them she was stalkin me and when i didnot respond her she called you guys :D
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Awfully distorted by humidity, walking and looking as serious as an army soldier. I turn a def ear and look at no one and look like someone who had a bad day. My policy is: ignore. With that in mind, picture this:
There appears a jerk (male) stalking me, but I though to myself, he might have been someone walking to the same direction, towards the Sheraton.
10 minutes after, this guy was walking with me neck and neck!! with the same pace and steps, like my shadow. I really thought someone was approaching me to ask something.
That alarmed me, I was not afraid, more I was disturbed and upset. I sat down abruptly, he walked for a couple of meters and sat till I got close to where he was seated, then he continued the journey with me!!!
My boiled heated blood forced me to reach for my cell phone to pretend I am calling the police. Raised my voice and spoke in English “Police, white male is stalking me…”. He stopped!
As relived and happy I was, on my way back I had this creepy awful feeling that I am being watched again. I looked at several spots and I found him sitting under a tree waiting for my come back!!! (I guess)
Guess what happened!!! An ambulance came from a close roundabout with the sirens on, the fool thought it was the police I called!! He took off as fast as a speeding bullet crossing the road to the other side and just evaporated.
He was not looking at me, He did not initiate any conversation to at least trigger me to yell at him or make a (loud) scene on the corniche to ward him off!
What in the world was that psycho up to?!!!!
Smart charan
but those days brad pit was not with Jolie he was with the gal with hair on her armpit
There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side
i dont really have enough knowledge on the connectoins on what so ever the ip address...this person chatted with me using my own email add said it is related to ip address why he has access on my computer...he even know who else i am chatting.
I was stalked by Angelia Jolie few years back in Hollywood and I solved the problem by introducing my friend Brad Pitt to her. from next day onwards, problem solved.
types of stalkers according to the material i am reading, (i apologize if i'm into "cut & paste" today, a serious issue, that's why)
1. Simple obsessional
The most common form is male with a female with whom he was once sexually intimate.
2. Love obsessional
A love-obsessed stalker tends to idealize a celebrity or someone he has seen from afar and he develops an unrealistic belief that the target person will agree to a relationship.
3. Erotomania
Someone suffering from this more extreme obsession believes that the victim loves him or her.
4. False victimization
Claiming harassment and stalking when none exists, this behavior is usually carried on by people with histrionic personality disorders.
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The history of what ever u do on net is stored in the Histroy folder. n once u give access to your pc its peace of cake to find everthing about whats on your PC
There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side
Don't you have Internet Security? A friend of mine once had a computer hacking package and wanted to try it out on me. I trust him, so I turned all the security OFF on my computer and then, ONLY THEN, could he tell me what I was doing on my computer.
I'm no techie, but I don't understand how anyone can see what you are doing on your computer just by having the IP. Maybe one of our QL whizkids could enlighten me on this.
Their motto is try n try until they succeed
There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side
To answer you question, see Owen's explanation above.
Plus, had to see if you were all you claimed to be, so far I can see you were all talk.
tra la la
can i stalk u if you dont mind plz for hours and hours and days and days not night coz am busy sleeping :D
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i've been doing some reading about stalkers and this statement is really a bugger:
"Some stalker might believe that he is destined to be with someone, and that if he only pursues her hard enough and long enough, she will come to love him as he loves her. These stalkers know they are not having a relationship with their victims, but firmly believe that they will some day"
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why were you stalking me in the first place??? may i know the reason.
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While I was stalking Darude- I saw him stalking King...again!!
Stop that, leave king to his privacy with his corolla girl.
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...and at present i have this net stalker...i guess he got my IP address...and he knows the things im doing in my computer here....i suspect he is one whom i treat a true friend but when i confronted him..he said no....but still my suspicion is there....
darude...when will you treat issues seriously? :D for all i know you could be the one stalking women here..:S
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I guess being a man we dont have that much of a problem.... its mostly related to the Ladies
There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side
i saw Jasskat in Villagio stalking me and owen in City center stalking me and King also
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I once dealt with a stalker in college. It was really scary. This guy would call me all the time,and he knew where I lived. If fact, he would call me telling me why wasn't I home last night cause my light was off when he drove by!
I guess he couldn't face the fact that I did not want to date him- and he kinda snapped. It all culminated with a dramatic phone call screaming that he was coming over to my house he had to see me. At the same moment he was calling me, he ran into my now husband and started screaming at him saying my husband stole me from him etc. Well, I ran around locking all the doors freaking out, while my husband tried to calm him down. Campus security came, my husband showed up at my house to make sure I was ok, while this stalker was being taken in by security. I was really shaken.
This guy continued to call me late at night, email me, everything. In the end, he got therapy and hopefully is doing better.
tra la la
the difficult part with being stalked (?) is you don't have any identity yet or not sure who to suspect at...this may affect your interpersonal dealings with persons around you coz behind your back, you always have this suspicion whether is he/she is the one...
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Owen,
Oh, you really made my day. I started thinking deeply in what you mentioned here. Now, I suspect all my moves are monitored.
No, I never had this feeling before and will get rid of this ideas right now.
:)
....college time when i experienced this stalker situation.. ain't that easy....i cant go out alone to do my shopping..must be have one of my family members with me... abd i received death threats that time too...
Thanks God he suddenly stopped when i told him i reported to my uncle(who is a policeman) this case.but he didnt stop following since then.. I changed my mobile number,,,and even change my apartment...but a year past..i received a call from a strange number and when i heard the voice..more than 100% it is he...he even talked to my current bf that time... that if I cant be in his life, its better he would kill me..He cant accept other man would own me....I puzzled when i heard it..I wonder how he got my contact number..and bcoz of one of my friend whom he met in the mall and this friend of mine doesnt know the situation so she gave right away my contact number.
To end this... at present, this guy is one of the people who is joining some of the ABSCBN sitcom in Philippine Showbiz. and he apologized to me the mistakes he did by email and called me here in qatar...(he got my contacts from one of my friend again)yes, i forgave him but..still there's a phobia on the incident he brought to my life...
Oh those PM'a, I had to block him, but he just kept them coming with new scene names.
He will be on the next ship out of here!
tra la la
oh yeah, darude has been messing a lot with my PM's...:P i will try to see his azz later to kick him out of Doha..:D
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Is Darude causing problems again? I thought he stopped his watching perv ways. Don't worry, I'll take care of him.
tra la la
hmmmmm they have a name for that.... PARANOIA :)))))