DON'T LOOK BEHIND IN YOUR PAST LIFE ....
In life, there are two choices, to move forward or to stagnate. If you want to move forward, you have to turn your back from the past and face the present and future with your eyes open. You do no leave your other foot stuck in the past. If you do, you are immobilized and your failure will hold you back. You are left to cope with "what ifs", "should haves," and piles of regret. Nothing changes and when you feel this way, you start to believe that nothing will change. If you sincerely want to change, you drop the anger, the pain, the disappointment and sad experiences behind you.
past is past but the pain still lives on and it's very difficult to forget....hope everybody has amnesia so noone remembers esp the past...
-the only people you need in your life are the ones that prove they need you in theirs.
-Life's not about the people who act true to your face. It's about the people who remain true behind your back.
behind and got much more than expected....
It is a journey and a fair game of Life where destiny plays a major role.
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I believe in forgetting my past,but some ppl keep reminding of my mistakes in the past.For example, that creepy manager of the bank which lended me 50000 QR 5 yrs back..........disgusting.
Are you nuts?......no doubt I am crazy about you!
good to know you liked the song and the meaning behind it... it's all about your topic..... hope the other qlers like it also .. ;)
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Thank you Jaryz ...it's really very nice song...thankx for sharing us.
nice post mali.
past is past. what we all have is the present. Make the best of it to achieve the best in the future.
nobody can forget their past may it be good or bad, happy or sad because it will remind us of what we are now...If there is no past then there will be no present neither future... it is part of life.. ;)
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My past makes me for what I’ am now, and looking back and trying to forget the past takes a little difficult for me (before). But as what other says, to overcome life, good or bad experience we have to forget the past.
It works, LIFE IS GOOD..
Did you lost anything in your past???
Past experience moulded me for future.Forget worst part of past and recall allways sweet past memories and never forget whom you were in past.
kumaran
you can forget those ppl who hurt you but dont forget that they hurt you...i think no one can forget there past life....
I am here because of the past. The times I succeded the times I failed all contributed to my present. Never can I forget my past without my past I would have no future..
Your Born..You Live and You Die
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HE WHO DARES WINS
mali- it's not that easy to forgive specially to those people who hurt us in the past..even me cant do that...its easy to say "your forgiven but deep inside it's not..i'd rather say nothing and wait until ache inside will vanish in his own..
"but still your past will always be a part of your present"
With one foot in the past and the other in the future....You can only crap on the present - Stevethetyke.
We cannot change our past. But we must change our internal connections to those who have hurt us by forgiving them. We must release our demand that they somehow make it up to us. We need to let go of lost dreams and people.
people may doubt in what u say..but they will always believe in what you sincerely DO..
REMEMBER..
Well done is better thaN Well said..past will always be a part of everyones life..afterall nobody reach the present without the PAST.
SHALOM!
The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live. - Flora Whittemore
The past: our cradle, not our prison; there is danger as well as appeal in its glamour. The past is for inspiration, not imitation, for continuation, not repetition.(Israel Zangwill)
so, If you are feeling bad about something that you have done in your past, remember this, "You can't be who you are today, without being who you were in the past ,and when past mistakes come to mind, don't get stuck in regret and allow yourself to follow the same path that caused the mistakes in the first place. Instead, embrace those mistakes and use them as a valuable learning tool for the future.
“Everything that has been will be, everything that will be is, everything that will be has been.”
Froggie
I would say, one must move forward bearing in mind those lessons learned in the past; it will definitely help achieving the desired goal....
and victory,you can not forget your past unless you lose your memory.
lol,, u shud learn something from this thread then..
I have a friend who once told me "I don't get sleep if I don't put myself in trouble "
I have another friend who even sayed "silence is violence"
I think u also make sense like them .
220 I keep getting into this kind of situation every two monthly.............
Are you nuts?......no doubt I am crazy about you!
DON'T LOOK BEHIND IN YOUR PAST LIFE ....
this is a phrase told by many and heard 100s of times atleast,,
to believe it ,1 should experience that phase of time in that paste life.which not everyone has gone through atleast in this thread. fortunately lucky/careful ppl been escaping it.
not everyone will understand you here,, because not everyone here experienced that stage where all the things fall apart at once leaving no sign of hope, your topic makes sense it's totally true.
I have had a situation years back, which I still remember very well,, but never attempt to think of it again.first, I just survived on watching atleast 4 movies a day 2 months in a row,, lost contact with the social enviornment,,literally did not speak a word or even could geniunely smile,,, :(
So lesson learned ,,, and forgeting the paste was the only way to move on.
no more options,, start from zero .
just forget wat happened.
"forget all the damage done yesterday, just remember the lesson learnt for tomoro"
it's not forgetting about the past...but pondering what you have learned from it...
to learn from past and correct your present...
Forget the past and all that it contained. Being absorbed in things that are past and gone is sheer lunacy
The Wisdom is “To live in the present, plan for the future and profits from the past”
whatever..shall we make it sonasala heheh souds great..isn't it? lolzzz bro,gud day
........hmmmmm yeah thtz rite!....but sometimes its difficult for me to forget abt my past........n to tell u the truth.......every night i think abt the mistakes i have done in my past :o(..........
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..... why worry and have wrinkles...when u can smile and have dimples :o) ......
Your past is what makes you the person you are today.... I personally am a much stronger person than I was years ago because of the things that happened to me in my past.. I agree that we cannot live in the past and should not dwell on the past otherwise its not possible to move to the future but every once in a while there is something that happens or reminds us of things in the past....sometimes it brings a smile to our face and sometimes it makes us remember the pain,,, as long as we can let go we will be fine !!!!
you cannot create when you can't find yourself..
this two must go with..
Cheen le hafza mera......{Take away my memories}
No doubt it is extremely painful....
But Life is to go on and continue. So let it go and
Look forward is the key to successful journey and face fresh challenges....
Good post Mali!
not sala, Its Salax85 ;)
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सोनम दि नेपाली बाबु
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Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself....
your right sala.
Life is full of beauty. Notice it.Notice the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.
your post was exactly what i've experienced..the only thing it varries is that..i never forget my past inspite i used it to struggle life and made my inspiration to reach my goal..now im standing proudly becaused i know that my past never distruct nor discourage me to continue life.
Now i always had a flashback in my past and THANKS GOD i made it.. ONE THING I'VE LEARNED IS THAT..
"GOD IS GOOD".and.."mas masarap pakinggan na malayo ang nararating mo kung ang mga tao sa paligid mo ay natutuwa sayo"
"Im happy also that when i share my past it encourage and motivates others who is HOPELESS..AND im not tired to do it again and again and again..
Yaad e mazi azab hai ya rub
cheen lay mujh sey hafza mera.
wow it's very nice sher ....
Got to know where you've been to know where you're going.
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Take past as expirience to deal with future so that you cant go through same mistake of past and past exp make you more vigil for future so never forget past but try to overcome drawback of past in future!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you are what ur past had mold you...
The past is what made you as of today. If you have lung cancer it's because you smoked in the past. If you are a CEO, it's because you succeeded at University in the past, if you have children, it's because you ***** with your wife in the past. The fact you live is due to the fact that you were born in the past. Forget the past? How stupid.
mallrat......
7) Change your surroundings, fresh look, fresh start, you know what i mean. .......
How about getting a new job at UAE in present situation.....Are they very badly hit by recession...........I won't to leave Qatar in the past
Are you nuts?......no doubt I am crazy about you!
Excatly Mali. Some people likes to glorify past success in science of their ancestors rather than gorifying their own success at the current time.
Yaad e mazi azab hai ya rub
cheen lay mujh sey hafza mera.
She probably gave him a reason for living and thus recovered from his illness .....
The pain :O(
don't totally forget your past. live and learn from it. Experiences make you wiser
It is a good thing to look at past when you try to learn from it. It is only when you look at past and blame yourself which is bad. You should never be a prison of your past no matter how big the mistakes are. Just move.
nobody forgets their past esp tragedies or errors made..whats important is to learn frm it,but at the same time not to dwell in it so much that you waste the present in pain which only time can heal..look to the future
My experiences in past life have made me the man I am today so even if I don't think about it deliberately it's still having an effect on me.
"Hurricanes are like women : when they come, they're wet and wild, but when they leave they take your house and car."
Our life is determined by the choices we make. We make or break our lives, sometimes we come out unscratched. Usually we don't know it is up to us to mend our torn selves and put them back to pieces. Only when this is done we can say that we are free from the negative, misleading past. Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward....
britexpat...i agree with you but why ???why we think about our past life....it's gone and never come back ...
only think about future...Be practical
.How do you leave your yesterdays behind you?
In respects to a sad break up...how do you move on and just leave it all behind? One day i want to hate my ex for all the lies he told and the other days i miss the crap out of him and feel sad for him.
10 tips to “moving on”
1) Don't try to be their friend - make a "clean break"
2) Do erase their telephone number from your mobile phone
3) Do delete their old emails and their handle from your online "buddy" lists
4) Put away any personal belongings of your ex.
5) Do use a journal or notebook to vent your pain, anger, frustration & so forth
6) Do spoil yourself
7) Change your surroundings, fresh look, fresh start, you know what i mean.
8) Don’t think that you’ll never be happy again
9) Don't listen to the negative self-talk
10) Do take charge of your life
(from SYBD.com)
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How to know if our “10 tips” worked?
A good gauge to use to see if you are really “over it” is when you have returned to the person you were before “it”. Even though your friends and family have probably been really supportive, depending on how long you’ve spent “down in the dumps”, you should be able to see a difference in your attitude toward yourself, your friends, and your family once you have made a real effort to move on. The difference will be in the WAY you interact with the people who have stuck by you, and how they interact with you. What I mean is that you will ALL feel a sense of relief that you are YOU again. Be sure to thank them for being there for you when you needed them, and then go DO something fun together!
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Talk to my crown......
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some rumors about Fidel Castro and a new girlfriend...with sport background in Qatar...
true?
Ohhh Brit not again:(
Now dont make us feel bad for u:P
It's easy to say, but so so so hard to do..
How can I ever forget my Cuban Shotputter ??
I Know it is hard to leave the past. It is difficult to forgive and forget the people who may have hurt you, but you mentally close the door of the past firmly behind you and open another door to freedom. When you leave your past behind, you don't carry over into your present life, a mental chart of the things or actions other people did to you. You do not spend three hours a day wringing your hands and trying to understand why the unfortunate incident happended. You do not moan over the unfair judgement passed on to you. What you do, if you want to positively get even, is to make your life so succesful that your enemies will wonder how you recovered so fast! As one writer says "Living well is the best revenge."