Fed up with MEN!!!!
Seriously, What is wrong with men in Qatar????? (and let me clarify when I ask this I'm not asking a specific nationality, but acorss the board, men from every background!) Why are so many of you a bunch of crazy nutters with absolutely NO social skills to speak of???
So yesterday, I'm at this work thing with people from across my company, and as part of it we have to go and introduce ourselves to 3 people that we've never met before. (Now needless to say, out of the 30 odd people in the room there were 3 women and I knew all 3 of them and worked with them all the time so I wasn't allowed to introduce myself to them).
So, I introduce myself to this one guy who looks about my age, and we start chatting, blah blah blah how long of you been here, blah blah blah. And he actually seems like a pretty normal guy. He tells me he's been here 2 months and he's having a hard time figuring out where to go, you know the usual speil. So I said "Well hey, if you're really bored, I can give you my number and you can come out with me & MY BOYFRIEND, and we can introduce you to some people." So he says, "That's great, where's your boyfriend from." So I tell him, and we chat for a bit about how long my boyfriend and I have been dating, etc.
So all seems normal, I give him my number, he gives me his, the work thing ends....And the texting begins. Every hour, LOVE POETRY. Telling me how glad he was to meet me, how love changes your life, etc. After about 2 hours of this I tell him my boyfriend and I are having dinner. So he stops... till 5 am this morning when it starts again!
WTF!!!!!
Sadly, If this was an isolated incident I wouldn't be writing about it on QL, but it's not. This is the 6th time something like this has happened. It's even happened to my mother (and this guy started stalking her after she accidentely called him when trying to call my father).
As I said, it's no particular nationality, it's just 90% of the men in Qatar!!!!
I mean, sorry, but do men check their common sense at the door here?
That is why I love ananova!
Guyz - ???
Why are we never fed up of women...
In spite of so much wrong they do to us...
They cry if they get a PM or something from a Jerk...
But a decent looking and nice kinda gal ruins our whole life and leaves us unsympathetically.... n still we are not fed up of them...
we Sux
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;) no problem.
@ luciatno,apologies mate,didn't read yours,have now,good & valid point isn't it?...
gadarene,
i don't think you read all comments to speak the way you did ;)
refer to my comment above, posted on Tue, 30/06/2009 - 11:26am
Gypsy,there's a very simple explanation to this behaviour,i can't believe people have posted so many comments without addressing the cause that's just staring everyone in the face...1st of all,to all those out there going "oh this happens everywhere,men are the same everywhere blahblah."...BOLLOCKS,elsewhere there are isolated incidents,not, as gypsy & i'm sure many women in Qatar have experienced,on a regular basis...why?...what's the male:female ratio in this country?...if i'm not mistaken it stands @ about 5:1,the immigration authorities consider all single,young women to be of 'suspect character' to put it very correctly,so it's extremely hard for single working women to get a job,or more importantly,get a visa to work except for the ones already living here or get here through family connections,etc...the result is, a city full of frustrated men who'll hit on anything with 2 legs,as is obvious from what gypsy mentioned happened to her mum...there are hardly any healthy,platonic male-female relationships simply because the severe shortage of young women in this country has not allowed a healthy environment for such relationships to be become the norm rather than the exception...& they want to make it "cultural capital of the Mid-east"...they ought to start by addressing the fundamental issues,which is correcting this ridiculous gender imbalance...
stop giving ur number to people...didnt u get a lesson even after the 6th time
again!
visit www.fedupwithmen.com
Ha! funny!
Glad to see the original poster still on this thread!
deedee said ".. find out the caller has dialed wrong and then try to fend off their advances---from a wrong number!!!! I usually just hang up on them."
Ditto. Learned my lesson after 1st occasion. Down to 5 seconds now. Very efficient.
Britexpat, are you trying to sing to scare gypsy away? Howz bout a duet with The Dude? To scare Prasanth away?
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
hmmm is there any thing left out for me to say now? Anyways sorry for wat that happened to u gypsy,, but Guys,
Men will always be Men..;-) ..
---If you can't CONVINCE them, CONFUSE them!!!
Dear Gypsy
From your vast experience in dealing with men, I'm completely surprise that this guy is annoying your patience and brains.
Either you like to post emotional crap or you think that you are just a another honey bee queen in the nest being bother by a disguised hornet.
Is your own fault, I was wondering how many QTEL Hala cards you have bought in a year? Due to your actions.
You are not that innocent after all.
Respectfully
Graduated from Xavier Institute for Higher learning.
You say it has happened six times before and to your mother.
A wiser person would have learnt by now.
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to anyone until you have known them a little while. 1 work party doesn't count. You have to determine first whether they are stable or not, and sometimes that takes several interactions. Here in Doha I would seriously consider NEVER giving out my number. In a similar vein---- It is always slightly amusing and slightly terrifying to answer the phone, find out the caller has dialed wrong and then try to fend off their advances---from a wrong number!!!! I usually just hang up on them.
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OK people .. We tried.. She's still here.. Let's shut it down and move on....
Whos next ? UkEngQatar ?
Nothing is more relaxing than flying like an Eagle in Heaven !!
gypsy u have to get urself a social life .... ur still postin on this senseless post?>! enjoy ur weekend. u r much better than naggin all time. i know u well.
ROFLING!!! Kumaran I've said much much worse on this site, yet I'm still here. It will be a cold day in hell before I'm banned from this site. :D
Defeat?
Why accept when there was no battle?
And where am I unreasonable?
I think you just lack the ability to formulate a proper come-back.
dude, i accept defeat, bro ... compromise
iv grown up hearin sensible people sayin dat its betta 2 accept defeat to a unreasonable man (more lethal in cyber space) dan argue n embaress yourself.
YOU WIN !!!
n about ma language ... refer to de line above ;)
If dere is 1 day in ma life i don wanna miss ... itz 2day !
Prasanth,
You communicate like a scratched LP.
Or, do you realize you talk rubbish and knowingly use half words, thus try to save valuable cyberspace?
Oh yes, stay polite. Otherwise I may have to go 'de la tourette' on you!!!
Prasanth,
where did you learn your english?
O_o
And ... if ya wanna spit out every damn word of d famous stars ... as i told ya b4 ... stop wasting d cyberspace n go bak 2 work ...
if u insist ... juz type wat our star speaks ... dat shud do ...
isn't it, ma nanny star ? ;)
If dere is 1 day in ma life i don wanna miss ... itz 2day !
hey dude,
since i'm more of a human head n not a metal head like ya, probably i don blong in yar clan ... so wat ?
i betta understand heartz betta dan lead n iron ;-p
If dere is 1 day in ma life i don wanna miss ... itz 2day !
hahahahaha. Brit was joking about banning Gypsy, yet Kumaran thought he was serious, and agreed.
Personally, I say make a tribute to Gypsy as an honoured QL member. Oh what the heck, give her admin rights too!
Prasanth,
1- Hablo English?
2- These poems are Metallica's best. So you have just disqualified on the the worlds most famous band.
3 - Take a chill pill.
Cut the crap... ask gypsy to be more particular whn she says 'MEN'.. hunni u need to have a real taste of men... plzzz stop dis nonsense and say somthng is pratical in life thn trying to say tht u r beautifull in a indirect way, thts not catchy hunniiii... TRYING to PRAISE URSELF ....
Wow, ban Gypsy for maintaining a continuous heterosexual relation! Then to avoid getting banned from QL I guess you all must maintain intermittent Homosexual relations!
Brit expat what you said is correct,She wants to imply homose*,se* wd animals,and Says "Fed up wd men" with bullchit reasons.She wants to be dictate every one.Please ban Gypsy if she continue like this.
Moderators..
Please ban Gypsy from QL.. She is inciting anti male hatred by stating that she is "Fed Up with Men" , whilst continuing a monogomous , heterosexual realtionship in the background..
i will do tht nxt time---
i will give PAJJU's number hehehehhehe :)
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Gypsy and other women - give them your boyfriends number in future.
prasanth, go easy on ur WTFs... i see ure learning.
lol! ooopppppssss, dont wanna get involved here.
carry on!
;P
Life's a bitch and then you die! ;)
hey ya dude ...
WTFOE ... r u pretending 2 b a shake-spear/torpedo kinda dumbo ...
now, stop wasting d cyber space wid dis s*it n get bak 2 work, man .. don u realize, we men hav betta things 2 do in life dan compose junk ? :p
If dere is 1 day in ma life i don wanna miss ... itz 2day !
Iranian Government - serenade to homosexuals & Israel
Running, on our way
Hiding, you will pay
Dying, one thousand deaths
Running, on our way
Hiding, you will pay
Dying, one thousand deaths
Searching
Seek and destroy
Searching
Seek and destroy
Searching
Seek and destroy
Searching
Seek and destroy
Serenade to all WOMEN....
(freely edited)
Im too sexy for my Dishdasha too sexy for my Dishdasha
So sexy it hurts
And Im too sexy for Doha too sexy for Doha
New York and Japan
And Im too sexy for your party
Too sexy for your party
No way Im camel-dancing
Im a expat you know what I mean
And I do my little turn on the corniche
Yeah on the corniche on the corniche yeah
I do my little turn on the corniche
I am fed up with this thread!!
With all people making Love polygons!
Now to start a thread about "fed up with gays/lesbians"
Serenade to MEN
All the wants you waste
All the things you've chased
Then it all crashes down
And you break your crown
And you point your finger
But there's no one around
Just want one thing
Just to play the king
But the castle's crumbled
And you're left with just a name
Where's your crown, King Nothing?
Where's your crown?
Sai,... did u ever u expect this kind of love from people in Doha....Brotherly love....lols...
dEV,
eVeRyTHinG dEsIRAblE, Is eITHEr eXPEnSIVe, bAnnED, ilLOgiCal oR SeEING(maRRiED to) sOMEonE ElsE...... ;-)
SAI ke do(2) do(2) bhai.....
dEV,
eVeRyTHinG dEsIRAblE, Is eITHEr eXPEnSIVe, bAnnED, ilLOgiCal oR SeEING(maRRiED to) sOMEonE ElsE...... ;-)
Love the way this thread has evolved.. Went back to the title though and thought of the following:::
It's Raining Men! Hallelujah! - It's Raining Men! Amen!
I'm gonna go out to run and let myself get
Absolutely soaking wet!
It's Raining Men! Hallelujah!
It's Raining Men! Every Specimen!
Tall, blonde, dark and lean
Rough and tough and strong and mean
God bless Mother Nature, she's a single woman too
She took off to heaven and she did what she had to do
She taught every angel to rearrange the sky
So that each and every woman could find her perfect guy
It's Raining Men! Yeah!
It's Raining Men! Hallelujah! - It's Raining Men! Amen!
It's Raining Men! Hallelujah! - It's Raining Men!
Come on all you QL men out there .. SING :0)
hi prattler ... sorry Prasanth
this is a public thread where you can give your opinion :) other wise you can chat at yahoo or msn its up to you nobody talk about you neither ashwin :) my comment was in general so i think that the mulfunction is coming from your side :)
Chini still needs to choose, I have adapted no. 1 ... to make it less competitive.
So chini...
Choose your follow up -->
*Green/blue eyed white boy on bicycle
*Indian on Elephant
*Arab on Camel
*Filipino in gipny
*Punjabi on tiger
*Egyptian on Donkey
*Transsexual in pink car
Chini...
WHAT?
Triangle? Wowwwwww... I did not sign up for that. I am a 1 -1 indivdual, no space for a third wheel. Especially not a riksha-wheel :-P
And Prasanth, if I tell Chini - "Mei es Tjum Tjaar Pjaar nou, yaldi yaldi" she would not understand ha. So, if I were to tell here
Chini, mahal na mahal.... kitaaaaaaaaa....
again 10 points for me.
You'd still be silent, mute.
20 points for The Dude, 0 for Prasanth
hi malfunction ... i mean, malfoufeh ...
new 2 talk 2 ya ...
me n ashwin hav a personal issue we'r trying 2 sort out ... if ya cant help us ... ya betta keep outta dis coz ya might get too involved, dis might bcom a luv rectangle ... which both of us r not intrested in ...
If dere is 1 day in ma life i don wanna miss ... itz 2day !
lol i just saw it !!!
u r all still on this thread???
well, carry on with all the drama, the bollywood way? lol!
Life's a bitch and then you die! ;)
in fact there is too much girls here in qatar that act like bitchs they have 3 or or even more (sometimes each day one) bf .... the problem here is that guys think that all of the girls are like this !!! come on !! man must understand that not all of the girls talk to you are charmed by your masculinity !!! there is something called friendship :S and im talking about all nationality
really laughing out loud here with the 2 of u...
now let me finish first the script with our bollywood-drama plus "love triangle"...
:)
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Reminder 1 - She has a Boy fren...
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i get to select watz gud 4 u dude ....
a white bum on a .... whatever ... coz dats immaterial :p
Prasanth
hey dude ... so wat if i donno d language ... ?
d language of hearts r not spoke by words, dumbo ... its by voices ... silent voices !
now, chini ... ting tang dong ;)
Prasanth
like the development?
Which way should the story-line go?
Choose:
You need to be rescued -->
*White Boy on White Horse
*Indian on Elephant
*Arab on Camel
*Filipino in gipny
*Punjabi on tiger
*Egyptian on Donkey
*Transsexual in pink car
u are hijacking the thread
with this bollywood-drama....
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Smoke - YA we have no other better thread....
Thts why we are here... :(
Sai has a Boy fren... so cut the crap both of you...
It ll be a very Bollywood style dramatic end....
One of you shall end up dieing as a drunk...
Other shall go in search of her twin sister... and blame her parents for not comin up with one..
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Prasanth...
Wtf man, I am stepping aside for you to 'seduce' Chini. And you start bitching about 'being targeted culturally', while if you read carefully I merely tried to justify why you are more suitable than me.
Since you have not accepted this noble gesture, I will now become your nemesis and start my quest for Chini's heart.
Ow god, it is going to be a Bollywood-drama.
Chini, en dito palao... ?
(step 1 - language skills - impress, being a white-boy 10 extra points for me)
LOL
hey, uK ... gud 2 hear dat ... now letz rename dis thread as 'Fed up with WOMEN ... again !'
btw, ur Michael Douglas stuff waz a nice try, bro ;)
Prasanth
We are still on in this topic? sheesh
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
_[]~SMoKE~[]_
am i being racially targetted ???
ashwin, gud 2 c u beside me, pal ;)
phew ... wat a relief !
Prasanth
I had a similar situation a few years back. She kept on sending me love letters (as in those days there was not so many mobile phones) and actually turned up on my G/F door step and threatened to kill her.
A bit like Fatal Attraction.
Yes it was a few years ago, when I had plenty of hair like Michael Douglas :).
No we did not kill her, but had to talk to her and her family and had the police involved and got a restraining order against her.. Was a very frightening experience in my life...
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Dude - off the records...
I thought every human being is emotional when it comes to Love...
Or is it jus Indians ????
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lol :) the_dude / prasanth
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Prasanth,
I would hate to break your heart, I know how emotional Indians can be when it comes to love-affairs. So, I will not be your opponent, and just throw in the cyber-towel.
She is highly inflammable and your cultural background is known to be mastering "Spice". :-P That's a match made in heaven. How could I possibly interfere?
hey dude ... so we r opponents in d ring ???!!!
lols ;)
Prasanth
My pleasure Chini,
at least I made one lady smile today.
Prasanth - lol.. hi hopes.... :)
Sai - he too wans to marry you.... :)
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marrying a stalker (to make stalking legal )...
is one great CRAZY unbelievable funny advice from the_dude...
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Ashwin, she really cals u 'bhaiya' ...
are 'saala', wen do we meet up ?
Prasanth
People - Damn.. The Dude had written you could have married him... few post above mine.....
Thts why I asked tht,,,, nothing else....
Anyways she calls me a Bhaiya.. so no hopes here... lol
Ya man.. food was awesome yesterday...
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do i look like one ?
anywayz, what makes u ask me that?
thanks Prasanth...but he gve up sending sms already ...
u knw what recvng msges from him doesnt bother me that much...
in fact im thankful there is this one guy who rmember me 24/7...
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Sorry Gipsy, but I thought you would know better what Qatar is!
This ain't a conventional country where females / males are of a balanced ratio and where people can interact, socialize, and date as in the free world.
This weird society structure does stimulate behaviors like the one you describe, specially if he is from a castrating background!
So, hey, don't forget where you are next time!
Rizkz - True ;)
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sai ... gimmi d details of d guy who'z stalkin u ... lemme break his nose 4 ya ... lol
all 4 ya, ma fren ... ;)
Prasanth
lol Arien !!
i guess Arien, this is wat happens when some is fed with Free Food and lots of Food in a DAY...:)
ash- whats wrong.. askin all babes whethr they are married?? looks like you decided after seeing RIzkz with the small one yestrday?
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Ashwin !!
wat kinda question is that ?
Sai.. you are married ?
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novita77 said "Yes I agree men in Doha are seems more desperate compare to men in another country :) "
I agree that quite a number are desperados. But don't agree that they are the majority.
/Read the rest of the thread. I see. Thanks, Miss X.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
i also tried telling him not to txt me face to face...
side by side... and even back to back :) lol
but still he's sending msges... but when i totally ignore it..
then he stop....
sir kumaran at last i've read your lengthy and informative essay heheheh i mean comment :)
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Chini..
You could also have married him.......
At least now the stalking is legal :-)
Sai,
Ignorance will tell lot on plus and minus.Face to face reaction is best to cut short the issue.
CHANGE UR NUMBER!!!!
i had an experienced receiving sms 24/7 for almost 6 months from a stlker ...
how did i handle...i just simply ignore it...
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East/west,south/North women are same.
lol Samael. so that's why he never bothered posting in the thread dedicated to him. He was too busy making advances on Gypsy.
the guy ;-) LOL
So Gypsy,
How does it feel to be the first QL'er to meet jimimadi99?
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damn sure you're the only girl in his contacts whois in doha since he's new here in qatar... and he's still having the jetlog and all... by the way...those messages are too lame... so gay LOL
"there are so many rumors about me...feel free to believe in any of'em.."
GIVE THAT M>*&^R F@#KER A SLAP NEXT TIME YOU SEE HIM!
ROFLING. Thanks MissX for pointing out that I named this thread "Fed up with men" because of singleguys thread "Fed up with women." and I'm prefectly aware that I'm generalizing, I did it purposely to rile people up.
Notfromhere, I was in an 8 hour training session with this guy, I didn't know him for just ten minutes.
FS. I did actually tell him to stop texting me after the first bit of love poetry. He still hasn't gotten the point though and is still texting me even though I haven't responded in days.
As to others speculations that "it's the way I walk, or carry myself", well that just betrays your opinions of women are you aren't worth responding to.
Gypsy -
Hey . .. . . How You Doin'
( Friends - Joe - Always gets the chick with this punch line....lol )
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it doesn't get betta dan dis, dus it ?
at first we have 'the' Gypsy sharing her Xperience (read strange experience) and we have a couple of co-survivors sympathising and the thread progresses ... and then the twist comes in that all those who said ALL men are bad taking a resort into 'my dad n BF does not fall into that majority, chee' and comments like 'There are men out there without girlfriends, who are perfectly capable of interpreting a situation and not reading completely inaccurate signs from it, and certainly not acting on those inaccurate signs.' and then statistics kick in with Jaryz puts on the table a ball-parked figure of 90% ... wher did u get that kind of data from, Jaryz ? do u mean to say day out of 100 BCs you gave u recieved back 90 non-business call ??? WTH ... u betta rename ur cards as non-business cards, gal !
anyways, we'r luvin it ... let the show go on ...
Prasanth Radhakrishnan
I ll be cautious next time... :)
If you coudln... others.. I really doubt.....
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Joke was definitely too subtle!
Miss X - lol...
Jus in case the Joke was too subtle to digest...
Replace MEN by either Hindu's, Islam, Christianity etc etc etc etc....
It is the same context I read in almost every post in every forum..... :)
Thought it ll be a joke understood by few ....
But I was pretty sure you ll be among those few who ll get it... but alas... m not good at ...writing between the lines ...I guess... :)
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"in reality Men are better human"
"Don spoil name of all the men"
haha you don't need to tell Gypsy not to do it. You're doing it just fine by yourself.
lol...
Gypsy ....of all the chicks... you had to face this ????
lol...
Men are not weired ... in reality Men are better human,,,,
few no majority are not following what a true man should do... tht doesn mean MEN are bad... those men are bad....
Don spoil name of all the men.... :)
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when it happened with us it is so easy to say, because we are flirts, becoz we showed something disrepectful, becoz we dress like this and that...a never ending excuses...
PLEASE TAKE NOTE : GYPSY IS NOT SAYING 100% OF MEN... she says 90%..so meaning her dad,bf were not part of the 90%... and it is easy to comment back like MR. PAUL admitting he doesn't fall with the 90% of the BAD disrespectful MEN...
Could you post his poetry? I would love to read them. So I could thrill my ego IN THE TOILET with laughter and sarcasm.....LOL
Gypsy
0hh halarious posting, HAHAHAHAH
Did he wrote poems about the death star, space walks and flying camels?
"There are men out there without girlfriends, who are perfectly capable of interpreting a situation and not reading completely inaccurate signs from it, and certainly not acting on those inaccurate signs."
I fall into this category so thank you and well said.
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
yes you do read rape stories here
and you dont read that many because they arent reported and there isnt a free press
harrassment over all is low level so we are safer....but sometimes you just get fed up when you try to be polite and someone starts texting or mailing you...
but you are right there are lots of lovely polite gentlemen too :)
By giving excuses like "the ratio of women to men is 1:4", is exactly that. An excuse.
There are men out there without girlfriends, who are perfectly capable of interpreting a situation and not reading completely inaccurate signs from it, and certainly not acting on those inaccurate signs.
Give credit where credit is due. We will continue to refuse to act like every man is stupid until we have ascertained it for ourselves. And we reserve the right to be shocked or disappointed when he lets us down. Or would you rather we judged all men stupid from the beginning and wait for them to prove us wrong? You people are giving men a great injustice.
Miss X,
The reaction for the thread is hilarious or reaction from man society.
We respect Gypsy and know she is intaligent also.I told that in my comment also.further i informed that we didnot expect this kind of forum from Gypsy.Mind it how much we respect un known ladies/known ladies too. Gypsy had mercy with that man and gave number ok, when she receive first message why didnt she inform him that she didnot like this kind of love poems and all further stupidity done by the man.she didnot informed the man nationality also.Because of one man fault how can you accuse whole man society.
Let her complaint to the individual only, not as a whole.
Lot of ladies also express their views here and say in qatar all man are seeing ladies with bad intention.
As one of my friend informed here,the ratio between man vs woman is un balance here.
Have you read any rape news here.Here you ladies can walk in street at midnight also.we know all ladies are extra cautious.If you are beautifully dressed every people will see you why? You girls also like that to see by man.Why do you assume that all are see you in bad intention only.
we feel sorry for that unknown face man what ever did to GYPSY.But how justice can be given as one sided, let the unknown man also come in the forum and let him explain about his point of view and explanation for his doings.Then all we can decide.If she blame that unknown man means ok, but she should not complain as a whole and unfortunately his BF and DAD are also belongs to man society.What can we do?
since we sensed the problems with Gypsy we come forward to provide the views of man society.
Again we say ,if she point only one man, i too support her .
Miss X we all respect ladies and wants to treat all equally.we know sex only differ between man/women.But each and every feelings are common for both.
But we all exclaimed about the wisdom knowledge of Gypsy.
and we all expect variety of forums from her and want to have a healthy discussion.
I hope thatyou may understand our man's view.
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Wow lol. The reaction this thread got is hilarious.
Firstly, to Kumuran who couldn't believe that Gypsy titled this topic "Fed up with Men". She did so in response to a previous thread that was titled "Fed up with women", and I assume most people understood the relevance, and didn't take it literally.
I for one, sympathise with what happened to Gypsy. Sure, she should have known how ridiculously socially oblivious men are. And I am sure she is sincerely sorry she afforded a level of intelligence on this guy that he obviously did not deserve. I am sure she will never, as will I, be naive enough to think that men are able to accurately ascertain situations for what they really are. Because that's what all you guys are really saying aren't you? Instead of the men having enough ability to be able to interpret situations accurately, women have to pre-empt their stupidity and avoid them all together. hmm makes a lot of sense.
Fed up with men ha...
Well... you will need some sort of male unless you decide to become a lesbian. Which I assume you will not be willing to do.
In my view, no problems only solutions.
Thus,
Have fun!
some guys who see every situation as a chance to get their leg over..but just some. I find it's easier to give very little information to single men I work with as I don't want it misintepreted as interest on my part as I've already had a few poems left on my desk and a box of choccies (hated discourging the latter). Gypsy, I'm Canadian, like you, and we wouldn't think twice about giving out our number to a new colleague to have dinner or drinks with our husbands/boyfriends and us at home because it wouldn't be seen as anything but a friendly gesture but over here...well, there's a whole new set of rules I'm afriad.
I don't think you did anything wrong at all but sadly lesson learned I'm sure.
Cheers Girl,
Tracey B
U was bit too fast to give ur number with out knowing the person
on here...
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
have sympathy for Gypsy. what about that poor man who couldn't sleep till 5 in the morning?
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
I agree there are many stalkers and sick morons in Qatar and everywhere for that matter...but not all men are sick!
Gyps..I feel you are partially responsible. If I were you i would have immdediately called him after his first love message and told him to F*** off ...as I told him that I have a bf and no need anymore...that will stop him from sending further messages... How can a smart, bold and strong girl like you let him send more messages and eneventually you had to block him?
Why you didnt call him and told him stright away that he is tryin his luck with the wrong person??
Hi Gypsy,
When i first entered in QL.I read your forum only.How many details you gave about Bars in Doha.I was surprised how it is possible to give this much details in this forum.And constantely you updated the details also.And lot of forums you opened and exchanged points.I seen mechurity in all your forums. I cant belive that you opened a forum like "Fed up with Man".
I hope your Dad also a man.Your BF also a man.If you say fed up with man means you have to fed up with these two also.Dont justify all from one sample.May be that man think you gave a correct signal to him.If you are polite , you can inform him in personalso.then he will understand and keep away from your path.
From your saying there is a smell of beauty consious head weight.can i say you all ladies like that man should kneel to your foot.If i say it is wrong.lot of ladies here are exposing their point of view politely.
Dont blame all, it means how all should be bad.then the mistake will be with you.If cat close it eyes and say world is dark means , by fact world will not be dark.
Open your wisdom eyes and see the world by it.
Another gentle women says , she gave her business card and people phoneing her by que.Let me say if she spoke in respectful way why people are in que to speak her.As a cheap rate tactise she may exposed her faminity to improve the business, so the people thought she is adjustable for every think.so she also think that she is the only beautiful creature in this world, and all male are sheding salive from tongue and begging her mercy for ***.
Crazy.hai gals dont think all man are so cheap.Can you say honestely , that you will not speak about man in your personnel gatherings.
we know feelings are same for man and women.Dont hide yourself and blame all man are wrong.
I hope it is your mistakes ,you didnot crossed with gentleman in your life time.
Human beauty is not a constand one.Years go it will also go.good charactor only stand long.
i request you Gypsy , dont insult your boy friend/Dad by saying Fed up with man.
make a self examination with you and analyse what is wrong with you and try to come out from your weakness.
dont through stone while you are sitting in a glass house.
By gods creation man cann't live with out man ,and women can not live with out men.Some examples if you give that are exceptional.
Try to see world by healthy vision.Dont see the world by man hate binaculer.
pray god that you have to get back your lost wisdom.
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Guyz what i don understand is that we are all argueing and debating over the topic where one nice, sweet n cute lady who did not learn from here mistake of the past 5 times, who is really charmed by the fact that ALL MEN are behind her beauty and are desperately waiting to collect her mobile number and text her in spite of the knolwedge that she has a handsome BF also whose mothere passed though a similar experience (probably runs in d family) and keeps finding faults with all living beings of the male gender who is knit close n tight with her BF (i doubt his gender) for reasons God only knows ....
Jeeez, guyz ... this topic is so full of crap n i don believe any 1 guy who comments in this thread has tried stalking a lady who has given u a business card ... hav u ?
If that be the case, y r u taking this feminist chuvenism perfecly presented with self example portayed with experiences of the past and tinged with sympathy (and empathy from a couple of QLers 2)
Gypsy, lemme tell you that even in spite of this experience, u'll still float your mobile number to some hole-in-the-head in future too and then run out a similar thread in the next few months or probably even weeks coz the feeling of being adored by ALL makes you feel gr8 or even worshiped, right ?
Isn't dat d whole idea behind letting your personal experience shared with a whole lotta QLers ? so dat u feel even betta ?
Prasanth
Its not only in qatar, its all over the world... but i would like to ask u one question, if u don`t want to have talk or chat with particular person then firlst u should warned him and second u may contact QTEL or POLICE so that person will not disturb u... this is the time that girls have to take action so men will not think something... but sorry to say i can see lot of these kind of girls also and even they will make friendship only for the money... so all the way there are men & there are women... so no need to point on anyone.... just take action and then these things will be stopped....
I thought you were one of the more sensible posters on this forum. What do you expect in a country where you have 3.5 men to 1 woman? And that 1 woman is mostly unavailable (unless she's from the PRC and works out of the Waterhole at Sheraton :-P). Duh!!!
how come the nationality of this guy is kept secret. Most probably it could be someone with a stiff upper lip
yes.. 90% of men are whatever nationality...from here to mars, to saturn,jupiter name it....if its not mens nature then what it is then???? it is being naive or whatever, i.e 6 years in my job, my work i am encountering all kinds of men, from good to bad, respectful and disrespectful or whatever you call them....and always gives them my business card for business purpose only ofcorz but some i guess are brainless enuf not to understand "BUSINESS ONLY"... so everytime a man text me,call me in the middle of the night sudenly telling me "hey you remember me and so on and so forth, WTF...i automatically closed the line and was even have to send back message that i was RUDE!!! me??? RUDE???!!! WTH ... so the next time they are calling... i cut them out and telling them "SIR, AS I HAVE TOLD YOU BEFORE, BUSINESS CARDS ARE FOR BUSINESS CALLS and not for non sense...GO LOOK FIND SOMEBODY OUT THERE IN THE STREET...AND IF YOU KNOW THE MEANING OF RESPECT SIR...then you will stop these non sense calls and messages...
well,some they do stop and learn but some because of their hurting ego they will say F.Y.... eeewwwww imagine these men and they have still the guts to say that har har har.....
RESPECT MAN RESPECT....
DO WE ALWAYS HAVE TO SPELL IT OUT???
CONGRATULATIONS MS.GYPSY FOR POSTING THIS SUBJECT...
I SALUTE YOU....
Generalizations are there to be made... But you will only see what you want to see...
You may only see crazy desperate crazy guys... which I'm sure there are plenty. But there has gotta be few normal guys out there.
and look at it from a guys perspective... working abroad, in a place where there is very little contact with women... and when you come across a female who is half way stimulating you dont want to let go... Im not saying i agree with the tactics of desperation... but then again, ive only been in the middle east for 6 months... who knows, in a years time i may be begging every female i see for some attention.
as of the moment though... bitter... just bitter :) LOL
over 5 times, you didnt learn...
should the 6th one make you learned?
but, hei ! isn't a matter of pleaseure? you can satisfy your ego right? men ran after you, and i guess, non violently.... sounds cute !
:)
You can't teach experience...
Gypsy, if you are fed up with men, you should break up with your BF and take a nice girlfriend instead!
Try being a lesbian for a while. Maybe it will change your heart and your distaste for men.
And
Singleguy: Fed up with Woman.
Gypsy: Fed up with men.
Lol Gypsy!
Ok, after however-many years in Qatar, and numerous posts about all the sickos, weirdos, creeps, losers, pervs and despos you've encountered here... you give your phone number to some random you've known for 10 minutes ?
And even though it's not an isolated incident and "something like this" has happened 5 times before... you STILL give some random your number ?
Maybe next time you should give him your boyfriend's number
;-)
its not only in qatar all over the world it is happening, countries like qatar have their intensity more deeper becouse Qatar is a male dominated population, ther is a imbalance in qatar demography, please have a look to latest population survey of qatar.
thank god there is not major incidence, consider the demographical imbalance
and and order condition here is fair, women can walk in the street even in the midnight without fiar that sometimes even some other parts of world is not possible. but dont make provocations, if u are avoide such noice u can be safe here.
if u give ignition to the fire cracker it will be explode, if u pour water to the fire cracker it will be useless that is the difference.
Hey princess, in your profile uv said that you enjoy XYZ and 'mostly meeting new people' ... hope you are only meeting new lady people and never any men people ;)
Prasanth
you said it hon..
men..
phew thank god I keep a distance!!
;))
I think title of the thread shud have been fed up with a MAN, u cant just blame the entire community....its very well understood, all are not same...there are some characters in every community.....be it man or lady....so beware...dont just open up in very first meet, without knowing one well...
dEV,
eVeRyTHinG dEsIRAblE, Is eITHEr eXPEnSIVe, bAnnED, ilLOgiCal oR SeEING(maRRiED to) sOMEonE ElsE...... ;-)
Oryx, its rather dissappointing that you come to conclusions this fast coz across this thread i see polite ladies expressing their aggressive frustration of how men behave in common. And fyi, i did not blame ladies as a whole since iv come across a lot of them in my short stint being here who are well mannered, polite, polish and carrying themself in the most professional who do no share the same experience as you claim ! So, my revert was only to make my point that just the way nobody can blanketly blame ladies for being blind-blamers (as is the incident with Gypsy), you cannot also blame every man who walks the streets to be a stalker !
And if i ever meet any 1 of u, id hope u'll give me a real gud reason to feel humble apologies
but i do not understand what you problem is in that
first WHO asked you to be so nice and give your number to him....?
You could have finish the conversation without giving him your number i think
They are just been polite.
Its all about knowing yer boundries.
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
citylineexpress, i must agree on that..
some women are so annoying, and trying any possible ways to get the guy, even if he is already taken..
so why guys cannot do the same?
It is known: GUYS ALWAYS TRY.. it is their nature...
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
I have reluctantly come to the conclusion it is partly due to lack of respect. In the UK I had conversations with people, not conscious of their gender. Here, if I catch someone's eye at the bus stop by complete accident, he thinks it is reasonable to expect me to put his number in my phone. I am married but even so have had these situations that have made my flesh crawl. I don't agree that its the same the world over, it is not so in the west. Gypsy, I share your frustrations, it IS weird!
Thank you Mr Paul
Prasanth it is a sad state of affairs when politeness is construed as an advance and people take it as a carte blanche to harrass and people like you blame it on the girls so you are saying that me, gypo and Qatari sun don'tknow how to carry ourselves with the right attitude.
Well pity you if you ever meet any of us....because you will be full of humble apologies
With due respect to all women, may i also say that women too can be very bitchy at times to men who are happily married and settled down.
So lest not talk about SOME men being what they are.
Lets Imagine our so called Gypsy met a Handsom guy who she falls in love. Will she then say all men a handsom and loving? NO!! Women are made to find faults. I can find the definition to many words, but yet to come accross the correct difinition for the word "WOMAN"
I just can't imagine what sort of fathers raise sons who believe that when a female chats to you and gives you her number that it is then okay to start sending love poetry.
These guys mustn't have had fathers with much between their ears either.
I can only imagine what sort of women their mothers must have been.
Rest assured there are decent guys out there. Somewhere.
I have met Gypsy many times and NO WAY is she a dick teaser !!
Shes just an average woman.
Please show her some respect !!
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
Youre right Prasath. She's a C----K teaser.
Guy's be aware not to get carried away for sweet talks like this. May be the author of this is a looser
Ladies,
If you believe that the quickest way to a man's heart is the stomach,.... then you're aiming a little too high!!!
Hey Gypsy,
I may be too early to comment about the guy-behavior in Qatar but in the past month+ of being here and meeting up wid lady colleagues, iv never com 2 hear anything of dat sort. now, don tell me that they don live in here. i juz guess dis has somethin to do wid d way u carry around urself or wid d immressions u pass in d first meeting or may b even wid ur body language ... who knows ;)
Prasanth
A devil will need one minute to convince a woman and will need ten days or more to convince a man.
that you folks are hassled like this. It points to something very unhealthy.
Aunt Polly, you are right, “any woman who shows kindness to them, they treat like they have a right over them”.. and not only kindness…the simplest answer can cause misunderstanding in their mind...
.. once one guy on the street asked me something, ‘how to get to some place’ or something like that, so I stopped and answered him politely how to get there.. then he stared chatting, and then started insisting on me giving him my phone number. I refused to do so, so he got pretty much anxious and asked me: “THEN WHY DID YOU STOP, AND WHY DID YOU SMILE?”..
...wow... …
I think next time in the similar situation I will run away crying..
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
"How does he become the boyfriend without she giving out her number to any guy?"
hmm, you do have a point there LOL..
Moving on is simple; it's what you leave behind that makes it so difficult .
ADS (attention deficit syndrome)when you leave Qatar.
who knocks the door may or may not receive an answer.
Haha this sounds typical of some of the shyte pick up lines that I hear going around my office!!!
People in Qatar just seem to be constantly on the pull! Nothing serious and no qualms how they go about it!
I think its because its such a transient country and most people know they won't be here for a long time so figure they shouldn't get in a relationship.
Set your bluetooth name to RangeRoverSports with mobile number to follow, beep your horn, throw a piece of paper with your mobile number on it next to the women you desire are some of the common pick up tactics I have come across..
www.homedeliveryqatar.weebly.com
I've had that happen too Alexa. A guy saw me at the Ritz having a meeting with someone and snooped around till he found out my name and number (since I was dealing with the Ritz on several things at the time) then he started emailing and texting me all the time. I actually had to call the Ritz and complain.
duplicate
plenty of people in jobs of responsibility like that...
Atavistic to say the least
I have actually had someone look me up in the staff directory and proceeded to get calls and texts....
NO FRIENDLINESS ON MY PART....
Anyway I must remember to carry on snarling
Gypsy your mistake is he's only been here two months which is not long enough for a single guy to realise he's got to suspend every hormone in his body for the duration or he'll go totally insane. Maybe 6 months from now he'll have been sufficiently neutered by the Doha Abbey.
Still, all this poetry via SMS? PATHETIC. The poems I wrote when courting my wife, handwritten!
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A wise young crackpot knows no fear - Ian Dury.
Qatar has the worst male/female ratio on the planet, and most of these men come from societies where male-female interaction is very odd to begin with,,,and the females here cannot offer any relief whatsoever for males,,,I mean its even illegal! if one conbines all of these factors, well this is what you get. Sad really.
What one does for a buck.
"The Gods first drive mad those they seek to destroy".
ROFLING UKEng.
Eff that i want to know what phone he's using to send such big text messages my phone only allows 160 characters :(
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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O Gyspy I sent those love Poems to my wife just now and got a Text back saying..
"Are you already in the Admiral darling, I thought it did not open till 3pm"..:)
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Gypsy : next time you find yourself in a similiar situation with a guy, ask him his opinion on GCC countries economic union & common currency and whether it makes sense vis-a-vis the UAE's stance lately (or about the condition of indigenous people of Papua New Guinea). Argue vehemently against his opinion. Quote people from Adam onwards. Problem solved. He wont talk to you even if YOU become the stalker.
Btw, women can be as much or even crazier stalkers.
LOL @ Rizkz
Oh Gypsy thats so sweet.. shame it is from the stalker and not from the bf himself..:)
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HE WHO DARES WINS
I wonder to what extent it is meant, or, which book was it taken from.
Rizks you are right ;) I am sure its Our Jimmi ;)
सोनम दि नेपाली बाबु
Is it Jimimadi ?
5am text #1: "Welcome every morning with a smile. Look on the new day as a another special gift from your Creator, another golden opportunity to complete what you were unable to finish yesterday. Be a self-starter. Let your first hour set the theme of success and positive action that is certain to echo through your entire day. Today will never happen again. Don't waste it with a false start or no start at all. You were not born to fail. Now I found my reason to smile."
5 am text #2: "Being in love with someone make every morning worth getting up for..."
5 am text #3: "You have found true love the day you realize that you want to wake up beside your bf or gf, every mornin than the day before..."
Obviously, Nice does not become you :)
Gypsy,
I would be interested to read the love SMSs lol
Well I have defintely learned my lesson about trying to be nice.
Oryx I think you need to tag Gyspy along with you to the Football matches to practice her vocal cords, so the next time she has a word with him the whole office can hear:)
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HE WHO DARES WINS
I've got the blues about this same subject today.
I believe the technical term is 'badger' because once they get a grip they dont let go.
You just cant be polite sometimes.....and then I am not and I end up being unfriendly to the wrong people :(
Gents room???
damn i never expected that from you GAY
Snowyowl damn you girl i was the first on QL to welcome you and i never got your number and others have it.
Awww Darude your right i'm like a shy bride on her first night, but like a convict serving life in prison after a few drinks :D
Oh and i love what tess_916 said "Morale of the story: Don't ever give your mobile number to men other than your boyfriend."
1. If she has a boyfriend why does he need her no?
2. How does he become the boyfriend without she giving out her number to any guy?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Gypsy I am coming to your office two floors above yours, please introduce me to this Poet of yours, I think I would like a quite word with him in Gents room..:)
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Darude...you've already got too many girls to text....don't want no pity texts!
Damn it UKEng, I blame Q-Tel....I"ll check my phone right away ;P
smile lots laugh more
Yep can make my own.. But if poems can inspire/irritate our Gypsy Gal then they must be good...:)
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Dear Gypsy,
You are too innocent and trusting.
Thats why you got into this scrap.
As some one above posted, friendliness can be misinterpreted as availability.
Call it inflated ego or just insecurity, some men are like that.
So when dealing with males, I think the bottom line is - don't be too trusting - put on an act of friendliness- always keep your personal details to yourself.
AP
There is such a thing as copyright...
make your own love poems!!
you are more than a shy bride on her first night
The reason why it did not happen to you snowyowl is that I tried texting your some love poems but every time the message comes that the phone is out of order..he he he..:)
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i still dont have your number can you give me plz
i have soo many love poetry sms i will send you that at 12am midnight alright :D
Darude i AM a shy person when i'm around strangers, but the very first time i ever came to an outing i didnt come holding someone's hand to keep me company i came alone and made friends. Anyone can talk hiding behind a computer but when you meet someone you have to know what to talk and how to talk to them. Once i know someone and i am comfortable with them i'll talk to them exactly how i talk to them here on QL :P
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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no problem if he texts you again reply back with smoke number or UkEng number or my number and tell him this is my very very pvt number next time contact on this one :D
Gypsy would you be kind enough to share some of these love poems with us. Wife says that I am not romantic these days. They might just spice up my love life..:) OK if you are shy to post on the forum just PM me..
PS..Yours Truly the most unromantic weirdo in Qatar..
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Sigh....not happened to me....but if this was a work thing, what's wrong with making contacts? Seriously, a girl can't give a phone number out which who knows may lead to fanatastic WORK offers at a later date? (running out the door to get a make-over!)
smile lots laugh more
Oh don't get me wrong. I did do that. I bollocked him good for texting me at 5 am. He won't be texting me again.
you seems like a one of the kind.
Good Luck
No Gypsy woman we are not saying that you shouldnt be nice to anyone in Qatar, but you of all people know how men are coz you are the MAN expert, but what we are saying is that to avoid trouble like this you should NOT give out your phone number so easily to men no matter how friendly they appear to be at first glance or talk.
To solve your problem use the direct approach and tell him straight away that you do NOT appreciate him taking advantage of your goodness in such a manner. Sms'ing you at 5 in the morning. Oh and dont forget to raise your voice and uses lots of WTF's
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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as i saw you in the beginning here on QL talking non stop and then inviting you out one day for bowling i remember what a silent quiet shy kat you were trying to stay away from every one keep your distance and every one was asking me who is that guy when i told him its that farty smoke who never stops talking on QL they were surprised what a punctured guy you are not talking to any one face to face.
Atleast i was still better ON BOARD AND OFF BOARD. and my first meeting with every QLer was a good one giving them a piece of my rudness. e.g. The first hand shake with Gypsy in a noisy loud Paloma got her screaming louder than everything in Paloma.
:-P
but on next meeting she broke my ribs :-?
Alexander Graham Bell... why did u invented this Telephone ? :(
and yeah smoke......might to dump him soon enough if he start to commenting on this threat.........hehehehe
In Euroupe and US and other west countries there is a saturation where women are exposed enough to the men in public.
Here it is not the case.
An american man one time told me he will die to get an arabic woman with Neqap same as Alex logo.
and yeah smoke......might to dump him soon enough if he start to commenting on this threat.........hehehehe
But darude on QL we all thought u were one sick rude dog until we actually met you and came to know you otherwise..but see that took time and didnt happen over a 10 mins office excercise :P
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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and yeah smoke......might to dump him soon enough if he start to commenting on this threat.........hehehehe
So what you're saying is you shouldn't be nice to anyone in Qatar and offer to take them out so they can meet new people?? If it was a girl doing this, would you tell the guy he shouldn't give his number to strangers?
but at the end.....everyone will b AGREE tht GOD created US as COUPLE. so, MEN need us WOMEN and WOMEN need men also to continue life. so no more thrown some weird arguments, Guys cant understand how the woman thinking, and Womens cant understand which part of man brain is working.
Either we stone Gypsy
and Smoke, the epitome of purity will cast the first stone as behind the smoke screen lies a bleeding heart that was broken once too often...
or else... there is one other solution...
You GYPSY... have to heal this friend of yours with all your love and care... But to make final amends for your error, eventually HE has to dump YOU...
The Oracle has spoken
silvia perhaps you should give your no. out to random strange men then you'll get loads of sms's :) oh but wait your dating that famous guy right? so why are you complaining...sheesh another unsatisfied woman!
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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that you guys are blaming her.
when told him clearly she is taken/committed/has boyfriend the guy was not suppose to contact her at all with such behavior. yea she might have misunderstood his sicko intentions while giving him her number. She was trying to be a helpful friend to get him out so he can make more friends and introduce himself to her friends in circle NOT THAT START SENDING HER PATHETIC WEIRDO LOVE POEMS. its him he is the one to be blamed for showing his sick habit.
lo0o0ol...............even my mum not sending me msg more than 30 msg in a day...........hehehehe
Oh no !! u know in advance that all guys here will act similar to that guy! u gave him ur number! u offered urself for help .. he got u wrong. i mean if u dont trust a person why u offer help? he is a stranger for u.so stop naggin and blamin others. blame urself and if ur not happy...do wat EAGLE said. just leave. its not heaven here and u know it. OH WOMEN!!! IF VERY WANTED, THEY NAG ..IF IGNORED THEY WOULD WALK NUDE ON STREET TO GET ATTENTION ...
OH NO..I GAVE MY NUMBER TO A STRANGER AND AM THE VICTIME! YEAH !!! GYPSY GIRL ... DONT CRY. NEXT TIME DONT OFFER HELP FOR ANY1 UNLESS U WORK WITH THE RED CROSS!
YE who has not sinned before shall cast the first stone at gypsy...I'M STANDING FIRST IN LINE FOR ALL MAN-KIND :p
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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I feel sorry for the bloke
spare a thought for THAT poor soul
Gypsy can just delete those messages and block his calls or change her number
But his heart is broken and no one will ever read those poems...
his poor fingers will get callus from texting those broken hearted poems...
ultimately he will get arthritis AND heart disease prematurely
And he will yearn for years for his phone to ring and for YOUR number to flash... but Alas... GYPSY just wanted FRIENDSHIP
I blame you Gypsy... YOU YOU YOU...
Thats exactly my point gypsy woman...the girl that comes on QL every freaking day to talk about SO MANY ISSUES had nothing to say to a man she met for 10 mins than to help him find FRIENDS in Qatar :p you disappoint me lol
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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I didn't invite him over??? Where did I say I invited him to my house?? What I said is, the next we GO OUT with some people I'll let you know so you can come along and meet some more people.
Never once did I say come to my house.
As for my talking to him, I had to. We had to introduce ourselves to someone and talk to them for ten minutes, it was part of the excercise.
no problem
next time when we meet i will give you
but in return you have to give me seomthing too
Nothing is more relaxing than flying like an Eagle in Heaven !!
that s the life style here ... mainly the gulf is like this. if u dont like it .. pack ur stuff and leave. no one obliged u to come over here. its ur choice. am not defending men's behavior...
thank you
and i still blame you
Gypsy.. You still believe that men don't get butterflies when they see you or chat to you.. Hey you have not given me your number yet?..:)
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lol Alexa exactly my point :)
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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I apologize for the dumbass stupid egotistical A-holes who give us a bad name.
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
here's what i dont understand. Any girl will NOT give out her no. to any guy on the first meet unless she's interested in that guy to give her a call. Gypsy if you went all out to be over friendly with this guy you JUST met and spoke to for what just a couple of mins or whatever then what do you expect? Funny how you girls come here bitching about how men behave like animals and then go and do things like giving fake smiles and phone nos out to the strange men without knowing much about them.
Gypsy why did u take it upon YOURSELF to introduce that guy to your friends? Charity work perhaps?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Smoke, Grrrr !!! :(
In one of my answers to QL forums I referred men to a 4 legged animal where lots of outburst came :) These are the kind of incidents which makes me think about them this way. Anyways, the best way to stay away from men, as a friend suggested here, is keep your conversation to the bare minimum plus I would like to add here professional smile is taken as flirtatious smile so this needs to be avoided too & the last & most important thing, never ever give your personal info & / or number to other people. I follow all these rules, hence no problem till now. Btw would like to mention I am working since 12 years :)
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CONFUSE ............ if you cannot convince!
FS since your so generous today howz about transferring me some credit too..i want to sms bella with some of my love poems :P
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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FS, ur such a kind Human being i have never seen in this planet - Pluto.....:)
Riz...bella told she is out of credit... I sponsored her a 100 riyal hala card..lol
Gypsy all other guys are not as smart as SMOKE when it comes to women, you've just been unfortunate to meet these losers. But then most girls are not YOU so come tell me what you just said about men when your all heart broken and angry with your EX-BF :P I'll be here to listen to your problems i promise :D
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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No Galz want my number to text me Love Messages...:(
My wife is a working lady and she meets several men on a daily basis... She's never had this problem with anyone she met from work... she engages in the bare minimum level of social interaction required to achieve what is expected of her to allow her to do her job professionally
I guess in some cultures, an unmarried girl inviting a single guy over for dinner and then offering her mobile phone number can be interpreted as showing interest...
So as per his culture, you have send him the right signals to suggest that you are available and interested...
Without getting in to the which culture is best debate, let us just agree that different actions are interpreted differently in different cultures... so if you want this to stop... just keep your interaction to the bare minimum
except those 6 guys (a black spot to be called MEN) to avoid one more racist claim on you.
stop bigging yourself up, you are not that pretty......
Men all over are weird.
You can't teach experience...
Lol....The Dude! Spot on!!
Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.
gyps...I am really curious to know his nationality...ROFL
smoke, you cant live with us and you cant live without us too? i thought that phrase is about WOMEN for MEN...
u got it the other way around, kitty...
betcha its Delhi Boy u met gyps...
Life's a bitch and then you die! ;)
i think common sense has run out of stock that's why...
Smoke do you honestly think acting like a complete psycho and texting me love poetry at 5 am will make you be my rebound guy?
Yeah right SF25 we are MEN you cant live with us and you cant live without us too :P
Plus its not that we love the game..we love you women equally, married or not, so what if your committed to your boyfriend? One day you might break up and then we are there for you to use as your rebound guy. I'm perfectly ok with that :)
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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It's not just nature, because it seems to be related to here. So if it's nature then men in other countries can supress their "natures" but they come here and suddenly they stop.
Welcome to
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it don't matter to them if u have a boyfriend or even a husband... they love this game...
best not to talk to them at all.
Life's a bitch and then you die! ;)
Men by nature is like that, if you will give them a chance about something, they will grab it without thinking twice..
MO RIN...YUN LANG!!!
You might be insulated, but i am insulted by the generalization..
Didn't think I had to Tcoffee when he's standing right next to me ;)
I am a MAN in Qatar and i'm very "insulated" by this statement :( see if i EVER call you Gypsy HA! your loss :P
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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We men are just crazy about love.. perhaps the sun, sand and sea brings out the romantic in us...
You never mentioned about your BF when ever we chatted lol
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I am also a guy who lives in Qatar and ofcourse i have been around other guys. They are classless & cheaper than cheap. If a girl mistakenly looks at them, they say in the back of their mind, oh my she is totally into me. Last summer my girlfriend was here & we were out shopping, i left her for a min & dickheads starting honking at her. I mean not everyone is your sister(dickheads) who when gets honked at will hop in in anyone car
heuheuheuhe.................gypsy i like ur last comment
MEN always think we r the bitchy one but to THINK again remind me of one old sayiing
" BEHIND EVERY BITCH, THERES A MAN CAUSING THEM TO BE LIKE THAT"........HEHEHEHEH
No idea Novi, but I must have mentioned my boyfriend as every second word! I mean, get a clue!
I've had guys whom just so happened to answer my call, call me back in the office after talking to their boss and interviewing me. The nerve. I also hate it when they stare at you when walking or driving, like they've never seen a female before. Very irritating.
Arrgghh! The classic "When Harry met Sally" situation.
Us girls believe that men and women CAN just be friends where as men see a kind word as an invitaion to a leg over!
Please, you can't blame MALE GENDER as whole.
I don't curse all Women, common stalk this guy and teach him Moral lessons.
While I'm sure cases like these happen elsewhere Khalid, it's not to the frequency that it happens in Qatar. I know LOTS of women (my own mother included) who've had it happen to them.
I must be honest , as a woman I find you as an attractive smart lady. God knows what these men think of you :)
I just dont' get it. I mean if it happened once, FINE, isolated incidence, but it happens EVERY single time! And the men here wonder why the women are bitchy!
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I didnt do it!
And I'll not do it again!
And I've already deleted your number from my phone! :P
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why you only say Qatar?
listen it can happen every where.
It seemsliked his messages, if you did not like you could have told stop or I will report your number to the police.
lol, gypsy I was just pulling your leg :)
Yes I agree men in Doha are seems more desperate compare to men in another country :)
Novita this has nothing to do with being married or unmarried, as I said my MOTHER gets it! It's about how crazy men in Qatar are!
Men all over are like that - any woman who shows kindness to them, they treat like they have a right over them- they can't understand that women don't have the same drives that they have. Happens many a time- totally sympathise with you.
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Lol Gypsy! They find you irresistible! Not laughing at your experience, but the truth in it!!
There are some REALLY weird ones I have met here, That I believe do not exsist any where else!
Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.
you need to get married Gypsy, then you can stop cursing men in Qatar :)
why wasnt i there i would have stalked you in a very nasty way :D