Is Flirting considered as Cheating?

You need the punch. If not in the nose, then I am sure Pope can find a better spot. :D

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I got a rod in my nose it will hurt his hands

But Gypsy nose it pretty nice to be punched so soft like spunch :D

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I am just waiting for the day that bam Pope punches you in the nose.

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i didnot watch Red Pope spittin out while playin with it.

i just saw once when i replaced him while he was on his honey moonia with his maid in the basement along with the donkey. :D

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once again you seem to know too much.

tra la la

Gypsy

Come over to my Confession Booth and lets Flirt some sins...

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

:::===PP

I'm flirting------

G---O--O--D--

M--O--R--N---I---N--G--

------FLIRTERS-----

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

guys oh i mean ladies never go to his confession both he is playing with a dildo inside while listening toyou guys :D

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yea it is nice i know. i also kinda flirt with my girl friends. and even sometimes i call them wifey or they call me hubby:)

its absolutely cheating, why would you flirt someone if your commited? better finalize or finish your previous relationship before flirting, cheating is like a drugs that you will enjoy now and then pay later.....

It depends on who you are flirting with. I always have a couple of guy friends that I flirt with, it's never serious and always a joke. They know it, I know it and it's harmless.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

whatever. if i have a gf. i really dont flirt. never did that. only with my first date i was checking if other girls are looking at me before i meet her. i was just too young.

maybe its bec my relations dont take too much:p

It's for me to know...and for you to find out...hehehehe

Sorry, nib...I find it too personal to ask me of such...

Just try to be objective about the topic and don't associate the author with it.

and when he is not next to u? u flirt?? just asking..

It depends on what type of flirtation you're implying?

FYI, I'm single, normal woman, it's a in a human's nature...

BUT to answer your question...NO I don't flirt when I am next to my bf...because I flirt WITH my bf...GET MY DRIFt???

do u flirt next to ur husband or ur bf??

It would be hypocritical if one would say he never flirted with anyone (of the opposite sex) for once in his/her life. Flirtation is just that...a flirtation...unless you cross the line...

If you did...well that's definitely cheating...

flirting is really nice. but really even i am not serious with the girl i wudnt like her to flirt with others.

and for the time i am being here. whenever i go out there are always (lets say western) ladies who are staring at me even they have their hubbies with them. i dont know exactly what they want to do or what they feel bla bla. but as i can see sometimes hubbies put their arms on them after seeing that,so it shudnt be a nice and innocent thing to do..

flirt as many as before u r commited. i think thats better...

... it is proportional to age, the frequency increases as you grow older, may be because you realize there isn't that much time left...

It's a bit like "looking", or "noticing" the presence of the opposite sex... when you're in your mid 20's you're covering the range of 20 to 30 year olds, when in your 30's, you cover the range of 20 to 40 year olds, when you're in your 50's, you're still covering from 20 to... 50 year olds, funny that the range becomes wider and wider, and it is a lot of work... :)

we'll get jauntie in here too...lol I'm 50 and it does feel nice to flirt and have someone flirt back with you. wink wink...

hanging out with women/men in or out of the work place...

Most of my friends have always been male...so I hang out with a lot of males AND females. Nothing wrong with that at all. When I am at home, I go fishing with mostly guys...in fact, you ask any of my fishing buddies and all of them will tell you I'm just one of them...(could be cause I hung out with my dad when I was growing up. My sister was the foofoo girl and I was daddy's little tomboy)

So..I don't consider hanging out with the opposite sex, flirting..

is a way smart people can have harmless fun, boost their self esteem, give pleasure to others and in general is an everyday thing in the modern times we are living in. I could not imagine my life with out it. I am 50 and occasionally I win the looks. Do you know what that means to a person of my age? Hey Jauntie, can you second me on this buddy? The limits are always set by the participants conscience. If a nice flirting game goes beyond limits it can hurt people, including participants.

Now tell me? (Hypocrisy aside) Who has never flirted while in a relation? I have, many times and still do. Keeps me feel young!(among other things) If you haven't experienced it yet, hurry up!

Flirting is just a pleasant, natural reaction between two people of the opposite sex. Well, for some people, of the same sex ;)

I have even flirted on QL! (not through PM) No harm to anybody. Just a lovely kind feeling! Outcome: I now have another good friend :) RED POPE do I have to pass from your booth?

Enjoy! Cheers!

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

I’m jumping in late into the debate but I had a chat with my lawyer friend to get his personal opinion on this topic, if this thing is good, bad or very bad, or what?

Anywayz, he thinks it is not that bad after all, it is quite a simple issue for the legal world easily explainable in the context of the Gulf area, where the mentality is to find you responsible for everything that could go wrong, for example at work, if there are people who are not performing well, you would be told “it’s because you didn’t motivate them enough”. If other people do not return your calls, “it’s because you said something offensive to them in the past”. If your incompetent contractor is dragging his feet, “it’s because you’re not paying him enough”, and so on… so when it comes to flirting, if no one is flirting with you, then… there must be something wrong with you…!! either you’re repulsive or it could be your demeanor… probably if you’re demeanor is right, or if you have a smiling voice, people will flirt with you.

If there’s an age gap between a young “flirter” and an older “flirtee”, the latter will take it as a compliment, and will confirm her/him the fact that, harmless connectivity is still possible with the opposite sex.

Flirting even happens in the presence of your significant other. Often we look at people and think “what in the world is she doing with him…!?!” but say, “Madam, you’re husband must be the luckiest man in this room”.

In the end, my friend wrapped-up; “Shouf” he said; as long as you’re going home every night “ma fi moushkila” (there should be no problem), after all, in the legal world we say “there is crime, if there is a victim”, if no one is victimized in the process, then there is no crime!

Think.

But that’s only him, what say you?

but there's a HUGE difference in those glances.

case in point...

you glance at each other, smile and look away(might even happen several times)..harmless

you glance, stare and catch his eye and don't break eye contact for a long time...that's a definite "come on" signal...you're heading into deep water and might not know how to tread water

Verbal flirting is fun and good for everyone's ego...just don't go beyond that and you're ok.

I'm with jauntie and gypsy...I talk a lot and some folks think I am flirting but I just like to talk...

I think I need one of those tee shirts that say...Help I'm talking and I can't shut up.

glad you like it - it sort of became my 'theme' tune when I was in my teens hee hee

He sings another called Runaway - it's on that same YouTube site. That's a fun song also :o)

Gonna grab some food now.

Be good

Enjoy the Band tomorrow!

And I couldn't help but tap my shoes with the son's rhythm...yup...so aptly for this thread....hehehe

I worry about you

it sometimes happens to me on YouTube also, you just have to let it jerk along to the end of the song (preferably with the sound down) then once it's completed itself you can replay it and it's fine - all the glitches ironed out.

persevere girl!

It's a very apt song for this thread!

...this darn computer keeps on stopping every 30 secs....bummer

Did you play the Little Town Flirt song I posted here? ;o)

Flirting can be deemed "harmless" and "fun" as long as you know the limitations.

was someone who could appear to be giving the 'come on', but was the same with all the guys (or gals) - not a pr1ck teaser, just not interested in anyone in particular and everyone in general and enjoying the interaction. Usually the one who got hurt was the one who fell for it, thinking the attention was sincere and for them alone, NOT the partner of the flirtatious one.

When I was a teenager one of my boyfriends gave me this record - it sort of sums it up ;o)

One of my favourite 'oldies' this one - those were the days *sigh* :P

You are innocent until proven guilty :)

Really, it is messed up if you learn that your Husband/wife is a flirt.

"We cannot control the negative atmosphere of the world, but we can control the atmosphere of our minds"

You left your webcam on. Must remember to turn it off. Don't want to see what happened with the Pope, you , and donkey ever again.

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sounds more like fetish how come you know that were you watching us????

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Last time you lured a girl to your place bad things happened.

High heel in your head, black eye- that girl did a number on you.

tra la la

Good to him he is of no fun at all

come to me will cheat and flirt full time whole day night weekend disco bar smoke weed damn full fun. and will do alot more extra LOL

Red Pope aint of fun just a dead soul.

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I told you I wanted nothing to do with you or your donkey booth. I saw you outside my house the other day waiting waiting waiting.

When a girl turns you down in a PM, its not flirting! NO wonder you think all these ladies are flirting with you.

:P

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Astrvm_01 wrote:

gotta get back to work so that i'll be partying and flirting all weekend without anyone or anything bothering me ;-P

Red_Pope

You alone? All by yourself?

I'll invite you to my favorite private and cozy dinner location and bottle of wine.

Would like to be the one, who will listen and counsel all your sorrows. pains and agonies.

Of course my child all in common respect, faith and brotherhood.

Have a bless day.

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

If it's only once is a bless...

If it's twice is flirting...

So if you have a chance to see once...see it for a long time...;)

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Darude

That is an original

come to my booth its pretty nice will serve u with drinks and weeds :D

LOL

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

You better stop sending me those flirty PMs ok am not interested in them and niether u are my type at alllllllllll :P

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hs is running naked in nuns court so dont go to his booth never coz he is sittin naked behind that wooden booth wall.

come to my booth its pretty nice will serve u with drinks and weeds :D

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You are just nuts and I'm the frailer running naked in the nun's court.

Lol

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

Darude and myself have this kind of perversive alliance going on.

Not only that I enjoy to flirt with him.

But what to expect of his writings from him!

Yet he will not come close or visit my confession booth for fears of setting it on fire.

There is no forgiveness or limbo waiting time for him.

In the time lapse he still my Donkey favorite Rider.

Is all fun and chaos.

Dammed, I wonder If darude got tired of reading all my flirts about him?

Lol

enjoy!

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

you scared her she is gone now have to find a new sinner to come and confess at our booth. am sure what you got there at ur confession booth all orgies :/

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ok, ok...i get the drift ;-P so red pope u divorced a donkey to be with the maid and now darude is consoling the poor rejected donkey ;-P and u are the best around here because ur the original...we'll have to see about that...i just might give both of u a try so i would ahave a basis for comparison...;-P

well boys, i'll leave u two at ur bickering...gotta get back to work so that i'll be partying and flirting all weekend without anyone or anything bothering me ;-P

-CERTAMVS!-

The Donkey thing started when someone made a tread on some Donkeys and tourism,

As you know Darude is well know for being very notorious for his exemplary short notes of flirting and comical understanding.

He wrote an opening line that let to my comments and stories of Darude, The Donkey Rider.

About the Confession Booth:

No one could equal me in that subject.

Since, I'm the original author and brought the Conceptual idea.

Including the flirting that is inside The confession Booth.

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

THE DONKEY was with Red Pope b4 lived with him since childhood thats why Red Pope is a Cardinal never into females he loved the donkey alot and then came a nun he named her maid. that donkey of his came to me crying that Red Pope divorced him kicked him out just because of that maid. Cheater. the donkey is missing him badly :D

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hmmmmm...2 confession booths and both offerring me to do more sins rather then to cleanse myself ;-P gives me a lot of nasty thoughts and more things to confess about..;-P i think i'll just have to pay a visit to my old confession booth where im sure i'll be able to do and confess things without inhibition ;-P and poor donkey, are u guys torturing him for a confession?

-CERTAMVS!-

Well, my maid is coming to collect again this friday. Of course after she finishes doing her duties with diligence and passion.

She is willing to clean your stables and a decent price, she loves to have lots of Well paying clients...

I was watching last night a documentary on BBC that there is an organization in England that rescues Donkeys and for the new candidates owners to be able to adopt them, they have to go through a special seminary on Donkeys.

What caught my attention, was one particular Donkey had a serious case of affection towards people, He loved to be caress and Hug a lot.

But the negative side that story, The Donkey had a continues cynical look in his eyes of being the alpha male. Very dominant and a pumper.

I was wondering If that Donkey had any relationship with you? and Why did you abandon him Darude?

You are so rude!

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

Come to my confession booth there is everything you may do more sins as much you like or what ever satisfies you.

Red Pope you just think about ur donkey what he confessed to me what you did to him damn you.

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goes to prove that flirting really is funny ;-P what is all with this donkey flirting thing? i seem to be seeing the word donkey connected a lot to darude but i have no idea about it...i really am out of circulation..;-P

-CERTAMVS!-

You see, I was flirting with you and you laugh about it!

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

your donkey left you coz he saw you were flirting with him after gettin that maid at ur home. and you donkey came to me telling me how you treated him all this time till the maid came, :?

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i would have to decline that invitation red pope for self-preservation...there are things better left unconfessed ;-P

QL is really full of flirts and i must admit im one of them ;-P

as long as nobody gets hurt, its fine, if it gets way out of hand, then u have to put an end to it even if u still want to ask for more ;-P

-CERTAMVS!-

You just have to be real creative when you are flirting with a sense of humor.

Best comedians are master in flirting.

QL is full of flirts.

Astrum

I invite you to my confession booth.

Lets hear some flirty Earthly sins.

LOL

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

well red pope, true...flirting is humorous, especially when u hear and see all things people would say and do just to get the reaction they want..;-P sometimes its all a bunch of crap but u like hearing it anyways...without flirting life would definitely be dull...keeps u guessing and ur mind stimulated ;-P

-CERTAMVS!-

I have to agree with Astrum. I like to add that flirting is humorous 2.

Ask the darude and his Donkey.

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

flirting is an art...enhances ur communication skills and observational skills ;-P also gives a boost to ur ego when reciprocated...flirting is fine even if ur committed as long as there is no physical contact and as long as u know when to stop...it depends on a person's perception if it is already considered cheating...just like what the others said dont do things that u wouldnt want ur partner to be doing ;-P if its u who's flirting and he gets mad, u ask whats wrong with him...if he does it and u get pissed, theres always hell to pay ;-P

-CERTAMVS!-

doesn't mean you have to avoid the opposite sex entirely! Everyone likes to feel they are still attractive to and attracted by other people and to stop joking about in fun wouldn't be natural and could even stifle a person's spontaneity, making them very unhappy and even lead to the break up of the relationship.

Actually, having said that ... I just realised that, although my husband has no problem with me flirting I actually get insanely jealous if he does it! lmao

Welllll, it depends with whom he is flirting. There is this one particular friend of ours .......... hmmm

Maybe I shall stop here and wait for Azi's new thread. :# *zipped*

I completely agree with jauntie..flirting is fun and it defenitely makes you happy.WHo would not like being the centre of attraction??flirting brings it to you..

If you are in a serious relationship,avoid anything you wouldn't do in front of your partner(as said above).But again,this is tricky.Some are very possessive that they dont even approve a hug or cheek kiss..Now if you wana tackle these kind of situations,just be real even in front of your partner.Whether she like it or not,do wat you feel is right..(i know i am going off the topic + may be Azi can start a new topic i.e. 'is being possessive okay??how do you tackle such a situation??')lol

is and always has been wonderful fun and makes everyone happy!

By 'flirting' I don't mean groping behind the filing cabinets nor as a means of getting someone between the sheets!

In fact I think the older I get the MORE I flirt - and I'm pretty certain that when I was younger it was one of the main factors in getting me through interviews! (It worked better if the interview was male though. Not sure why) :D

Found this nice description:

"Flirting, when done properly, is the amazing art of enjoying the woman to man dynamic. It makes the woman feel sexier, the man more masculine, and each are more aware of the other.

It's just this side of seduction, just past friendliness, and one hell of a lot of fun!"

And I couldn't agree more!

I think if you are trully committed you wont flirt just to flirt.

I should be careful with what I post...as I did post something in MIR83's topic...hope i haven't crossed the line yet.

am surprised too where the hell the ads go??? was looking and even clicked on that more given below and no sign of the ads!!!

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I can't believe I have been CENSORED.

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I guess Qatar's law forbids massage for kittens as well. Or maybe it's gotta be a male cat to male cat massage then.

Hey Mao, you ain't got no chance dude.

LOL

H. Bennis

After years and years of studying "Massage for Felines", now I have my PhD and want to make good use of it.

H. Bennis

All the way...lol

hahahaha funnnnny now u are also in massage field just for animals why only cat kittens lol

so did u ask her the rate :D

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.....sometimes....hehehehe

;-P

Anything from "proper" kissing onwards.

Call me Maninibat!

I prefer the "sitting position" whenever I take my meals, especially right now that I'm having dinner...no double innuendos here. ;-P

Kidding....But my topic is what differentiate Flirting with cheating....

I guess the guys here found that the "MASSAGE" AD is synonymous to the topic...lol

bah. no comment. although that must really suck for business.

I think u would not b alone at the deportation center buddy.......lol..I just called to check too.......she is maid I guess. Somebody played a prank. But if the house owner complains to the authorities then it would be investigated.

getting that lady's services is "flirting" with danger...

I guess, you guys, know how to "cheat" your way out of the sticky situation...lol

You are injuring our feelings and waking up something inside us (talking about myself) we heard about looooooooooooong time ago and now could not figure what is it :D

Am predicting that your next topic will be about prefered position! LOL

It's AGAINST the law in Qatar to have or do a massage to the opposite sex.

Both people will be prosecuted.

H. Bennis

And you think I don't know who Khanz really is???....lol

:-P

whats wrong with massages?

I guess the police will be the one then givin a nice hot massage with kicks punches slaps and alot more LOL

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Would a lady in her right mind post something like this, specially in Qatar ?

Answer: No.

So, either it's:

- A shemale (hahaha)

- A careless hooker

- A stunt by the cops

- Someone who wanted to make a joke to this poor lady and posted with her number

I wanted to check who was behind the line, it's a lady (with a sweet voice too, lol)

In any case I think my caller ID has been already registered and profiled in the Khalifa Police Station...(They're probably sending my file at this moment to the deportation center)

If you don't get any messages of me from now on, you know where to find me :(

H. Bennis

You also wanna blast me away????

Do so...only if you can catch me....hehehehe :-P

I wont say its right but its very much true. just like a hunter leave the rabbits in hill, jungle let them run as far they can and then the hunter will let go their falcons to trace them. and sure who ever comes in connection are busted then. and it does happen here.

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I bet the Ad is a stunt by the cops to lure tempted men for massage and deport them.

Anything unusual BEWARE ;)

H. Bennis

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I don't have to be #1, I just have to be...

Any tool can be a hammer...

now thats call flirtin and cheatin look up at thAT ad section

massage for ladies and gents BY A FEMALE MY MY MY :o

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...is another persons infidelity. It's between you, your conscience and your significant other. All others, need not apply.

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I don't have to be #1, I just have to be...

Any tool can be a hammer...

Anytime you want hot stuff. ;)

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

Flirting is the spice of life, you need to do it to feel alive.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

Flirting is a healthy way of reducing the everyday tension

cheating is getting more tension

tension is the # uno killer

There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side

you're telling/ signaling to someone you're attracted to them and/or find them sexually desirable...

Acting it or responding to it especially if one is committed or in a relationship, that's cheating...

I'm just generalizing, guys...what's your views of it?

bad habit bad habit quit it quit it :D

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If it's something u wouldn't do infront of ur significant other, or it's something that u wouldn't tell him/her, or it's something u wouldn't want him/her to do; then it's considered cheating.

Best rule, I think, is don't do what u wouldn't what ur significant other to do ;)

If flirting is considered cheating then I cheat ALL the time. Umm I guess I would say any physical contact, like a kiss, would be cheating...but only when he does it. :D

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

flirting alone is considered cheating..:)

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